Ukuqonda Isifanekiselo: Ubani Okukhulumelayo?

Imelela i-licket yomphakathi wanamuhla. Inquma indlela izimiso ezibunjwe ngayo, indlela ezisakazwa ngayo, futhi okuhlangenwe nakho kwazo kuqashelwa njengokusebenza. Uma sibuza, “Ubani okhuluma nawe?” Sibuza ngempela ngezindlela ezivumela abantu ngabanye namaqembu ukuba babe nezwi ezinqumweni ezithinta ukuphila kwabo. Lokhu akuyona indaba elula. Ukumelelwa kusebenza ezinhlanganweni zezombangazwe, izindaba zezindaba, amabhodi enkampani, nezindawo ezingokwesiko. Izinga lawo nokulunga kwazo kuthinta yonke into emithetho esizitshela yona. Kulokhu kuhlola okukhudlwanayo, sizophula umqondo womfanekiso oyisisekelo, sihlole izinselele zomlando nohlelo lwezezindaba, nohlelo lwezesayensi engokoqobo eqondene futhi olunemisebenzi eminingi.

Isisekelo Sokufanekisela

Ukuze siqonde ukuthi ukumelelwa okuhle kunjani, kumelwe siqale ngemibono echazayo. Isazi sepolitiki uHanna Pitkin, emsebenzini wakhe wesibhakathi Umqondo wophawu (1967]), sikhomba izindlela ezine ezihlukene ezisaqondisa namuhla. Lezi zigaba zisisiza ukuba sidlulele ngalé kokubiza okungaqondakaliyo kokuthi “ukumelelwa okungaphezulu” kanye nokungaqondakali kokuthi umfanekiso uyasebenza yini ngempela.

Ukufanekisela Okuwubuciko

Lolu hlobo lugxila emithethweni nasezinqubweni ezigunyaza ummeleli ukuba athathe isinyathelo. Kungabakhi bamakhenikhasi abavoti (*) indlela abantu abakhethwa ngayo, amagama abawasebenzisayo, namalungiselelo angokomthetho achaza igunya labo. Ukumelelwa komthetho kuyabuza: Ingabe izinqubo ezilungile zazilandelwa? Nokho, ummeleli angakhethwa kahle kodwa ahluleke ukukhuluma ngempela ngenxa yezigaba zabo. Inqubo iyodwa ayinele.

Ukuchaza okufingqiwe

Ukuchaza okufingqiwe kubhekisela ekutheni abameleli bahlanganyela kangakanani izici zalabo abamelelwa yi-(wand, ubulili, ubuzwe, inkolo, isizinda sezenhlalo, noma i-modural). Umqondo ulula: iphalamende elibukeka njengenani labantu lithambekele kakhulu ekuqondeni nasekusekeleni okuhlangenwe nakho okuhlukahlukene kuleyondawo. Ukucwaninga ngokungaguquki kubonisa ukuthi ukuchaza kwandisa ukwethemba, ukuhlanganyela, nokusabela kwenqubo phakathi kwamaqembu angaphansi kwamazwe.

Umfanekiso ongaphansi

Lokhu kudlulela ngalé kokusebenza. Ukumelelwa okungaqondakali kuwukuthi izikhulu ezikhethiwe noma abakhulumeli bathuthukisa ngentshiseko izithakazelo nezimiso zamalungu abo. Isazi sezombangazwe esimhlophe singamelela izithakazelo zomphakathi waBansundu ngokuphandle uma silwa njalo nezimiso ezisingatha ubandlululo lwesimiso sobuhlanga. Ngokufanayo, ummisi wemithetho wabesifazane angase angabheki phambili njalo ezimpikiswaneni zabesifazane.

Umfuziselo

I-message engokomfanekiso isebenza ngobukhulu obungokomzwelo nobungokwengqondo. Ummeleli angasebenza njengophawu lokufakwa, ukuba ilungu, noma ubuzwe. Uma iqembu elikweqisiwe libona othile “njengabo” esesikhundleni samandla, ingashukumisa ithemba ngokomthetho. Ngokuphambene, ukumelelwa okungokomfanekiso kungaba yize uma kungasekelwanga ngesenzo esiphansi, `ukuthambekela okubizwa ngokuthi “ubushiqela”.

Lezizilinganiso ezine zihlangene zinikeza uhlaka lokuhlola noma isiphi isimiso sokumelela. Zibuye zembule ukuthi kungani ukumelelwa kuvame ukuphikiswa: isimiso singathola amamaki aphezulu ngezindlela ezivamile (izimboni zilungile) kanye namazinga angokomfanekiso (ubuso obuhlukahlukene bukhona) kuyilapho buhluleka ngokudabukisayo ukuveza izimpawu (amaphoyisa asalimaza iqembu elimele).

Izinhlobo Zokumelela Emkhubani

Umelelo alukho kwezombangazwe kuphela, lugcwele kuyo yonke indawo lapho kwenziwa khona izinqumo nezindaba. Ngezansi sihlola izinhlobo ezinkulu ezithonya ukuphila kwansuku zonke.

Ukumelela Kwezombangazwe

Lokhu kuyindlela ebonakala kakhulu futhi efundwa ngokucophelela. Ukumelelwa kwezombangazwe kwenzeka lapho izakhamuzi zikhetha abantu ukuba benze izinqumo ezimele izishaya - mthetho, iziphathi, nezinkambiso zendawo. Izimo eziyinhloko zihlanganisa izimiso zokhetho (zokuqala-kwe-past vs. i-pastal memolial), imingcele yesifunda (i-germaning), ukuvota (ukubhalisa, imithetho ye-ID, ukuhlola indawo etholakalayo), nezimali zomkhankambiso. Izibalo zezombangazwe zisontwa yi-DBreciocke. Ngokwesibonelo, ngokwemininingwane ye-Brennat Center ye- Justi, ngo-20222. Maphakathi nohtts, uhhhhthi lwesizwe, nolwembutho lwesizwe ne-ID zibhekene izikhathi eziningi kakhulu futhi izimfuneko ze-ID ([FFBB:0] [12] [12]

Ukumelela Umphakathi

Izimpawu zezenhlalo ziphathelene nendlela amaqembu ahlukene amelelwa ngayo ezinkulumweni zeningi, ezinhlanganweni zomphakathi, nasezinhlanganweni zezenhlalo. Kuhlanganisa ukuba khona kwamazwi ahlukahlukene emabhodini esikole, amabhodi angenanzuzo, imikhandlu eseduze, namaqembu okuphatha izikhundla zomphakathi. Kubalulekile ngoba kulawula izimpikiswano eziqashelwayo. Uma kubusa isigaba esisodwa kuphela sezezezomnotho somphakathi, izidingo zezakhamuzi ezithola imali ephansi zinganganakwa. I-so zenhlalo futhi sisebenza ezingxenyeni eziyimibhoshobhi emhlane nje nge-inthanethi ye-intanethi kanye nokubhikishwa komphakathi.

Ukumelela Umthetho

Ukumelelwa kwesiko kubhekisela ekubonisweni kwamaqembu ne-CMC ku-media, ubuciko, ukuzijabulisa, nemfundo. Lokhu akubhekiseli nje “ekuziboneni” ebhayisikobhoni noma encwadini; kulololonga izimo zengqondo, izibalo, kanye nokuzisiza. I-USC Annenberg Inclusion Initation ilandele ukumelelwa kwefilimu iminyaka eminingi. Umbiko wabo 2023 utholé ukuthi nakuba izinhlobonhlobo zobuzwe nohlanga kumafilimu aphezulu, ukumelelwa kwabesifazane ezindima eziholayo nangemva kwekhamera kuhlala kuqinile, futhi abalingi abakhubazekile babonakala bengaphezu kwesithathu% yemisebenzi yokukhuluma ([[FLT:]]] USCUSCENUS, 2023[FLD:1]]).

Isimiso Sezomthetho Nezokufanekisela

Amazinhlangano kanye nezinhlangano zihlanganyela futhi ekumeleni (ngokulandela amabhodi abaqondisi, amaqembu abaholi, namakomiti okuqondisa. Ukugqugquzela ukuhlukahluka kwezindawo ngokwengxenye kuphathelene nokumelelwa kwezindawo ezichazayo (kuveza inani labantu abahlukene linesihlalo etafuleni) futhi ngokwengxenye ngokumelela okungangenisi (ukulandisa ngezinqumo zesisekelo sabathengi abahlukahlukene kanye nezingalo ezihlukene). Ukuhlolwa kwe-McKinsey nezinye iziqubulo kubonisa ukuhlangana phakathi kwezindawo zebhodi nemisebenzi yezezimali, nakuba ukuhlobana kwemigqabanisana kuyaphikiswana. Noma kunjalo, ukuveza ukuma kwemicimbi yezindaba kusekelwe kukho kokubili ukungakhethi nokusebenza okuhle nokusebenza.

Okwenza Ukumelela Kube Yizindaba

Ukumelela akuyona into yokunethezeka; kuyimfuneko yokuba kube nobulungisa, ukufaneleka nokubambisana kwezenhlalo.

Ukuba Umthetho Wentando Yeningi

Uma izakhamuzi zinomuzwa wokuthi izwi lazo limelelwe, zithambekele kakhulu ekuthembeni izinhlangano zikahulumeni, zivumelane nemithetho, futhi zihlanganyele ekuphileni komphakathi. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukubekwa phansi okuhleliwe kubangela ukungathembeki nokulahlwa. Ukuvela kwezinhlangano ze-populist emazweni amaningi kungabangelwa ngokwengxenye umbono wokuthi ezombangazwe ezinkulu azimeleli “abantu abavamile.”

Ukubuyisela Imithetho

Izimpawu zithinta ngokuqondile ukuthi yiziphi izinkinga ezixazululwayo. Abameli abahlanganyela isizinda somphakathi noma okuhlangenwe nakho komphakathi basengozini kakhulu yokusungula futhi balwele izimiso ezisingatha izinselele eziyinhloko zomphakathi. Ngokwesibonelo, izishayamthetho zabesifazane ngokwezibalo zisengozini kakhulu yokuxhasa izikweleti zempilo, ukunakekela izingane, nobudlova obusekelwe ebulilini. Lokhu akuyona indaba yokubaluleka komphakathi kodwa umbono: izazisa izinto eziza kuqala.

Ubulungisa Bezenhlalo Nokungakhethi

Ukwehliswa kwamaqembu athile okungokomlando nokuqhubekayo, [1] ama-racial amaqembu amancane, abesifazane, abantu abakhubazekile, abantu bomdabu, abadabu, okusho ukuthi ukumelelwa kuyindlela yokulungisa. Ngaphandle kwemizamo yamabomu yokuhlanganisa lamazwi, amaqembu amakhulu azoqhubeka nokulawula izindaba nemithombo yemali. Ukumelelwa kwemikhakha yezombangazwe, imithombo yezindaba, nezinhlangano kuyithuluzi eliyinhloko lokulungisa ukuwohloka kwamandla.

Ukuba Umniniyo Nokuba Umniniyo

Ukubona othile ozifanisa nesikhundla segunya noma embukisweni wezindaba okhuthazayo kuqinisekisa indawo yakho emphakathini. Lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu ezinganeni nakwabasha abanezizinda eziphansi. Ukuhlolwa kwezemfundo yezemfundo kubonisa ukuthi abafundi abafunda ngezibalo zomlando ezihlukahlukene nabaholi besikhathi samanje banezifiso eziphakeme zokuzicabangela bona siqu kanye nezemfundo.

Izinselele Nezithiyo Zokumelela Okuphumelelayo

Naphezu kokuqashelwa kabanzi kokubaluleka kwayo, ukumelelwa kweqembu kubhekana nezithiyo ezinkulu, hhayi nje izinkinga zobuchwepheshe kodwa izinkinga ezijulile zokwakheka nezomphakathi.

Izithiyo Zezenhlalo Nezomnotho

Ukugijima ngehhovisi kudinga imali, isikhathi, kanye nokuxhumana. Ezimisweni eziningi zezombangazwe, abazofunda ezizindeni eziphansi zezenhlalo nezomnotho balahlekelwa kakhulu. Izindleko zomkhankaso, isidingo sokuthatha isikhathi emsebenzini, nokungakwazi ukungena ezinhlanganweni ezinikezayo zonke izithiyo zokumisa. Ngenxa yalokho, izishayamthetho zemithetho zakhiwa ngokungenakulinganiswa abameli, abantu bezentengiselwano, nabezombangazwe abacebile kunezakhamuzi ezivamile. Lokhu kudala igebe elibonisa imibandela enjengeholo eliphansi, umthetho wezindlu, namanetha okuvikela umphakathi.

Ukungalingani

Abesifazane baphethe cishe amaphesenti angu-26 ezihlalo zephalamende emhlabeni wonke ngo-2024 ( Abesifazane, 2024). Nakuba lokhu kuyintuthuko emashumini eminyaka adlule, kukude kakhulu nobubanzi. Izici zisukela ekukhetheni okusobala kanye nasekuhlukunyezweni kwezindlela ezicashile ezinjengokulindele ukuba umuntu abe yindoda uma enakekelwa kanye “nokuhlakanipha.” Abesifazane babhekene nezindinganiso eziphindwe kabili ngobukhulu bekhono kanye nokufana okungavamile.

Umehluko Okhona Ngokobuhlanga Nobuhlanga

Kuyi-demokrati yezizwe eziningi, amaqembu amancane ancishisiwe ngokwengxenye yenani labantu bawo. Ngokwesibonelo, e-United States, ukumelelwa kwabamnyama nababhishobhi eSixhulumeni kuye kwanda kodwa kusancipha inani labantu abalinganayo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, isilinganiso samanani agxilwe kwezinye izindawo; imiphakathi eminingi incishiswe abamisi-mthetho abangebona abaphansi. Inkinga ibangelwa ukunqanda ukuvota, ukuvimbela amaqhinga, kanye nemingcele yolimi.

UGerrymandering noElectoral Manipiption

Ukukhipha imingcele yesifunda ukuze kuthandwe isigaba esisodwa noma iqembu kululaza ukumelelwa kweqembu elithile. Lapho izigodi zidonselwa ku- “pack” noma“crack” abavoti abambalwa, ikhono lazo lokukhetha abazozikhethela liyahlanekezelwa. INkantolo ePhakamileyo yase-U.S. inqume ukunqanda okukhulu kwe-gergermaninder kuyimpikiswano yezombangazwe ngaphandle kwegunya lenkantolo ye-guauthorist, ishiya amazwe ekwazithathela kuwo impumelelo encane. Izimiso zokumela izinhlelo ze-proportation zisetshenziswa kwezinye imibuso eminingi esebenzela imibuso ngokwezinga elithile, kodwa anezinselele zawo ngokuphathelene nezimfuneko zomnyango kanye nohlu lweqembu lokukhanya.

Inkinga yesithi “Ukuma Kuka-” vs. “Ukwenza Imisebenzi Ku-”

Inselele enkulu ecatshangelwayo igebe phakathi kokumelelwa kwencazelo (ukumele) kanye nokumelelwa kwe-octal. Abagxeki baphikisa ngokuthi ukuba nezikhundla ezihlukene ezinamandla akuqinisekisi imiphumela engcono. Isazi sezombangazwe esicebile samaBlack singase singameleli izithakazelo zomphakathi wamaBlack angenayo. Ngokufanayo, i-CEO yensikazi ingase ingafaki phambili imithetho esemthethweni yabesilisa nabesifazane. Lokhu “kuveza ngaphandle kokulandisa” kungaholela ekutheni umphakathi udwebeki izinkolelo.

Ukuhlola Izenzakalo Ekufanekiselweni Kwazo

Ukuze sibone lemisebenzi enamandla, sihlola izindawo ezintathu lapho ukumelela okubalulekile khona nokuphikiswayo.

Ukumelela Kwezombangazwe E - United States

I-U.S. isebenzisa isimiso sikahulumeni esinezingxenye zesifunda esisodwa nesokuqala-kuqala sokuvota. Lokhu kuvame ukwenza ukubusa okunezingxenye ezimbili futhi kungandisa ukuhlanekezelwa kokukhomba. I-2020 Censurence yembula ukuthi nakuba inani labantu base-U.S. lingu 18,7%, i- 8.9% kuphela yeSishaya-Procestingstings yayingu-Hispanic ku-2021. Abamnyama benza i-13% yabantu futhi babamba izihlalo zendlu ezingu 12.3% ukuba zibekwe phansi kodwa zikhonjwe eSihlalweni, lapho amaBlabhuthu asebenza khona. I-Gerrymanting ihlala iyimpikiswano engapheli; ngokweProrinceryman Project, izikhulu ze-Progiclatedssssssss, izikhululiwe kakhulu ukusebenzisa i-mead-evert enhlanganiseni e-productentern noma i-sssssspointerciption eziphikisa ezincinding. Inquisime. I-oldred, kodwa i-eviviving

Ukunqandwa kwe-voter kungomunye umngcele. Imithetho efuna ama-ID aqinile ezithombe, ukunciphisa amahora okuvota angaphambili, ukukhipha amavota, nokuvala izindawo zokuvota ezindaweni ezimbalwa ngokungenakuqhathaniswa kuthinta imiphakathi yemibala. Lezizenzo zivame ukuthethelelwa njengezinyathelo ezimelene ne-raud, kodwa ukuhlola ngokuqhubekayo kubonisa ukuthi ukukhohlisa kwevota akukho. Imiphumela yangempela iwukunciphisa ukuhoxa phakathi kwemiphakathi ethambekele ekuvoteleni iqembu eliphikisanayo.

Ukumelelwa Kwemithombo Yezindaba: IHollywood Nangalé Kwayo

Abameleli bezindaba bahlela ukunaka komphakathi. Ukuntuleka kwezinhlobonhlobo zezithombe zekhamera (iziqondiso, abalobi, abakhiqizi, ngokuqondiswe ngokuqondile kuthonya lokho okushiwoyo nendlela abalingiswa ngayo. USC Annenberg Inclusion Initive[]] uye wahlola amafilimu aphezulu ali-1200 kusukela ngo 2007 kuya ku-2022222. Ukuthola: kuma 20222, 32% kuphela ezindima zokukhuluma abanjwe amantombazane noma abesifazane (Naphezu kokuba abesifazane bengu 50% yabantu). Abesifazane kuphela abaqondisikazi ababenombala. I-LGBQ+ cishe abambalwa kakhulu ku-2% yamabhayisikobho, futhi lapho benziwa, babebekwe ngokwezindima ezisemgangathweni. Ingxoxo ebhalwe ngamafilimu ebanzi aphakeme kakhulu, i-debboard.

Ngohlangothi oluhle, imithombo yezokuxhumana nezindawo zokuxhumana ziye zakha izindlela ezintsha zokuveza nokusakaza okuqukethwe. Abakhi besango abazimele bangadlula abagcini besango, okuphumela ekulandiseni okucebile. Nokho, ubandlululo lwemithetho kanye nezimiso zokulinganisela kungavala amazwi abekwe kude.

Ukumelelwa Kwebhodi

I-Corporateod board yenza izinqumo ezihlelekile ezithinta izisebenzi, imiphakathi, nendawo ezungezile. Kodwa amashumi amaningi eminyaka, amabhodi ayemhlophe kakhulu, amadoda, futhi evelele. Ngo-202020, ukuphoqelelwa kwemidwe yezindawo ezihlukene kwanda kakhulu, ngokwengxenye ngenxa yokucindezelwa abanikazi bezinhlangano kanye nomthetho omusha kaNasdaq ofuna ukuba izinkampani zibe nezinkampani okungenani zodwa zomfazane nomqondisi oyedwa ohlukene noma ukuchaza ukuthi kungani kungahambi. Ngo-2024, inani labesifazane base-Fortual broad 500%, futhi abameleli abambalwa besizwe bafinyelela ku-3%, futhi abamelelikhulu abameleli abambalwa bafinyelele kunezigaba ezihlukene. Abagxeki abaningi baphikisa ngokuthi intuthuko ihlala iphansi kakhulu futhi abaqondisi abaningi abahlelwa ukuba babe nezibhodi (ibhodini elingaphezulu) ngaphandle kwesikhathi esiphelele sokusebenza. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukumele izigaba zezikhulu zezisebenzi zezisebenzi zezisebenzi zezisebenzi (CCEO, izigaba zezikhulu zezisebenzi zezisebenzi zezisebenzi zezisebenzi zezisebenzi zezisebenzi eziphambili.

Izinyathelo Zokuthuthukisa Umfuziselo

Ukuya embukisweni ongcono kudinga isinyathelo sokuzithandela ezingxenyeni eziningi. Akukho lushintsho oluyokwanela; kudingeka ushintsho lokwakha, ukwakheka, amasiko, kanye nolwezimo.

Izinguquko Ezimangalisayo

Ukusebenzisa izimiso zokuhlela zingaqinisekisa ukuthi amaqembu amancane anezihlalo ezimahle ngokwengxenye yawo yokuvota. Lokhu kuvamile e-Europe yentando yeningi. Ezinye izinguquko zihlanganisa ukuvota okulinganiselwe, okunciphisa imiphumela ephazamisayo futhi kukhuthaze ukwakhiwa kobunye. Ikhomishane yokuvota ngokulandelana inganqanda ukuvota. Ukuvota okuzenzekelayo kanye nokwanda kokwanda kokuvota. Izentengiselwano zomphakathi zinganciphisa imingcele yezimali ukuze zingenele esikhundleni.

Ukungenela Ngokomthetho Nangokwezimiso

Izimiso zokuthatha isinyathelo esiqinile, njengezihlalo ezigcinelwe abesifazane noma amaqembu angaphansi ezindlu zomthetho, ziye zaphumelela emazweni anjengeRwanda (lapho abesifazane benezihlalo zephalamende ezingamaphesenti angu-61). Ama-amessa ezinkampani aqashelwa kakhulu eYurophu. E-United States, iVoting Rights Act iseyithuluzi elibalulekile elingokomthetho elimelene nobandlululo lobuhlanga ekuvoteni, nakuba ukuphumelela kwayo kuye kwancitshiswa izinqumo zeNkantolo Ephakeme. Imithetho emisha ingagunyaza imibandela ehlukahlukene yezinkampanini nezinhlangano zezindaba.

Ushintsho Lwemithombo Yezindaba Nempucuko

Izinhlangano zemithombo yezindaba zingathatha inqubo yokuqasha nokuhlela imidlalo ehlanganisa ukuqasha, ziveze okuqukethwe ukuthi izibonakaliso ezingokoqobo zokuhlangenwe nakho okuhlukahlukene, futhi ziqinisekise ukuthi amashadi abonisa imiphakathi ahlanganisa. I- “Rooney Sce” esetshenziswa empondweni kanobhutshuzwayo webhola elinolwazi olunenzuzo(--"ifuna ukuba abaqeqeshi abambalwa bahlolwe izikhundla zokuqeqesha ikhanda", i-Audiences iklances ingasekela abakhi abakhi abahlukene ngokudla nangokuhlanganyela umsebenzi wabo.

Imfundo Namandla

Ushintsho lwesikhathi eside ludinga ukufundisa izakhamuzi ngamalungelo azo nangezindlela zokumelela. Imfundo ehlanganisa umlando wokudina nempikiswano yamanje ingashukumisela intsha ukuba ihlanganyele. Ukuhlelwa nokuhlelwa kobuholi bomphakathi kusiza abantu abakwehlulwayo ukuba bazuze amakhono nokuqiniseka ukuba bathathe isikhundla noma benze izindima ze-adaccom. Izinhlangano ezifana ne-Emerget ne-Anish no-Quith ukuba baqeqeshe abesifazane ukuba bangenele ihhovisi; izinhlelo ezifanayo zikhona kubantu abanombala no-LBTQ+ abalandeli.

Ikusasa Lokumelelwa

Ubuchwepheshe bunikeza kokubili amathuba nezingozi zokumelelwa. Izezobungane zikwazi ukuxhumana ngokuqondile phakathi kwabameleli nabameleli, zidlula izihlukuzo zezokuxhumana ezingokwesiko. Amahholo asedolobheni namapulatifomu okucela ngemishini kungandisa ukuthembisana. Nokho, amagumbi okukhipha i-algorithm, ukukhipha ulwazi, nokuhlukumeza i-intanethi kungaphazamisa ukumelelwa nokungathathi hlangothi. Ukuhlakanipha kobungcweti kakade sekusetshenziselwa ukuveza imiyalezo yezombangazwe ngisho namavidiyo ajulile, aphakamisa ukukhathazeka ngobuqiniso nokulandisa.

Kwezinye izingxenye zomhlaba, imihlangano yezakhamuzi, (izindawo ezikhethelwe izakhamuzi ngamabomu) ezifaka izimpawu ezingathonywa yizithakazelo zabashokobezi. Lemihlangano icabangela ukutusa futhi iye yasetshenziswa e-Ireland, eCanada, naseBelgium. Nakuba ingathatheli uhulumeni okhethiwe indawo yawo, zingathuthukisa ukumelelwa ngokuqinisekisa ukuthi izakhamuzi ezivamile zinendaba eqondile ezindabeni eziyinkimbinkimbi.

Isiphetho

Umfuziselo awusona isimo esikhona kodwa umkhuba oqhubekayo. Kudingeka ukuba uhlale uqaphile, uqaphile, futhi uvuselelwe. Umbuzo othi “Ubani okhuluma nawe?” awunampendulo eyodwa; ushintsha kuye ngomongo(cbic, amasiko, ezomnotho. Umphakathi omelele ngempela ungomunye lapho wonke umuntu enethuba elinengqondo lokuzizwa, ukuze azibone esemahholoni anamandla nasemasikweni amasiko, futhi azi ukuthi izithakazelo zakhe ziyasekelwa kakhulu. Ukufeza lokho kudinga ukuba sidlulele ngalé kwezimpawu zegama futhi sibhekane nokungalingani kwemizwa. Umsebenzi unzima, futhi awupheli. Kodwa imiphumela yokuhluleka ukuwenza, ukungalungi, ukuhlanganisa, ukuhlanganisa, ukuhlukanisa, ukuphathana, ukulingana.

Sonke sinendima okufanele siyifeze: njengabavoti, njengabasekeli bemithombo yezindaba, njengabaholi. Ngokuzayo uma ubuza ukuthi ubani onikhulumela, zinike isikhathi sokubuza ukuthi ubani ongenalo lelolungelo — nokuthi yini ongayenza ukuze ulishintshe.