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Chifukwa Chake Kukambitsirana Kwandale Zadziko Kumalingalira Monga Magawo Am’godi
Kukambitsirana kwa ndale zadziko kwakhala kodzala mowonjezereka mu America yamakono, ndi 65 peresenti ya Aamereka akusimba kuti kulankhula za ndale zadziko ndi anthu amene sagwirizana nawo kuli "kupsinjika ndi kugwiritsa mwala". Chitokoso cha ] kuti alankhule za ndale zadziko popanda kuyamba mkangano [ chakhala chowopsa kwambiri kwakuti anthu ambiri angopeŵa kokha makambitsirano ameneŵa. Komabe kupeŵeratu zimenezi kumakula kokha ndi kusamvetsetsa. Ndale zimayambukira miyezo yathu yakuya, zikhulupiriro, ndi Ichonde, zikumangirira mayankho a malingaliro amene angayambitse mwamsanga kutsutsana.
Malo akukhala otchuka kuposa ndi kale. Zosankha za ndale zadziko zimayambukira chisamaliro cha umoyo, maphunziro, mwaŵi wa zachuma, ndi zoyenera zapadera. Pamene wina atsutsa malingaliro athu a ndale zadziko, kungamveke ngati kuti iwo akutokosa kampasi yathu ya makhalidwe, luntha, kapena zokumana nazo zathu za moyo. Kuwonjezera mapulogalamu a za mayanjano, magwero a nkhani, ndi kuwonjezereka kwa kugaŵikana, ndipo sikudabwitsa kuti [[FLT: 0] kutsutsa ndale popanda kutsutsana. Komabe kuphunzira kuyendetsa makambitsirano ameneŵa nkofunikira kaamba ka democracy, maunansi, ndi kukhoza kwathu kwa onse kuthetsa mavuto.
Kumvetsa Zomwe Zimachititsa Kuti Anthu Azikangana pa Zandale
Chifukwa Chake Ndale Zimatipangitsa Kulimbana ndi Nkhondo
Zikhulupiriro zandale zimasonkhezera mbali imodzi ya ubongo monga ziwopsezo za munthu. Kufufuza kwa sayansi kwasonyeza kuti pamene malingaliro athu andale atsutsidwa, amygdala , chiwopsezo cha ubongo wathu chimawonekera monga ngati kuti tikuyang’anizana ndi ngozi yakuthupi. Izi zimasonkhezera kuyankha kodzitetezera: kugunda kwa mtima wowonjezereka, mahomoni otsendereza, ndi kuchepetsa zochita za cortex zapasadale.
Kukondera kumene kumasonkhezera mikangano ya ndale zadziko [ kumaphatikizapo:
- Kutsimikizira kulakwika : Timafunafuna chidziŵitso chotsimikizira malingaliro athu pamene tikukana umboni wotsutsana
- Kulingalira kotengedwa : Timagwiritsira ntchito luntha lathu kulungamitsa zikhulupiriro mmalo mwa kuzipenda mopanda liwongo
- malingaliro auchigamulo [1]: Timawona ndale kukhala "iwo." kupangitsa kulolera molakwa kukhala ngati kusakhulupirika
- Chiphunzitso cha Thupi : Anthu osiyanasiyana amaika patsogolo makhalidwe osiyana (kusamala, chilungamo, kukhulupirika, ulamuliro, chiyero), kuchititsa kusamvetsetsana kwakukulu
- Kutentha kwa moto : Umboni wotsutsana nthaŵi zina umalimbitsa zikhulupiriro zonyenga mmalo mofooketsa
Kuteteza Munthu Mwachibadwa
Zikhulupiriro zandale zakhala zogwirizana kwambiri ndi kudzidziŵikitsa. Pamene wina anena kuti "Ndine wosasintha" kapena "Ndimapita patsogolo," sakunena chabe zimene amakonda mwalamulo . Iwo akufotokoza kuti ndi ati. Kutsutsa ndale za munthu kumayesa kuyesa kudzidziŵikitsa, kuyambitsa njira zodzitetezera zimene zimayambitsa kudzitetezera mwakudzitetezera pofalitsa chidziŵitso chatsopano.
Kuphatikiza mfundo zimenezi kumafotokoza chifukwa chake kupenda mfundo kumalephera. Pamene anthu ayang'anizana ndi umboni wotsutsana, anthu sangodzitetezera okha. Kumvetsetsa mphamvu imeneyi n’kofunika kwambiri kwa kukhala ndi makambitsirano andale popanda kumenyana ndi , pamene kumasintha kusumika maganizo pa kuukirana ndi malo kuti amvetsetse munthu amene akumbuyo kwawo.
Mbali ya Kulingalira kwa Malingaliro
Munthu amene walimbana ndi inshuwalansi ya zaumoyo, osati chifukwa cha malamulo a boma, angachirikize anthu onse osamala thanzi lawo, koma chifukwa cha mavuto awo.
Kuzindikira maziko a malingaliro a zikhulupiriro zandale kumathandiza kulongosola chifukwa chake mikangano yanzeru imalephera. Kulankhula za ndale molemekeza kumafuna kuvomereza choonadi cha malingaliro chimenechi pamene mukuphatikizidwabe ndi ziyambukiro za lamulo.
Kumanga Maziko: Kukonzekera Pasadakhale
Kuganizira Zolinga Zanu
Musanayambe kukambirana nkhani zandale, fotokozani bwino zolinga zanu.
- Kodi mukudziwa mfundo ina?
- Kodi mumauzana maganizo anu?
- Kodi mungakonde kukambirana ndi ndani?
- Kodi mungasinthe maganizo a munthu wina?
- Kodi ndi kungosunga unansi mosasamala kanthu za kusagwirizana?
Kukhala woona mtima ponena za zolinga kupendeka kwa mbali. Ngati cholinga chanu n’chomvetsa osati kukopa, mudzamvetsera mosiyana. Ngati mugawana maganizo mmalo motembenuza, mudzayamba kulankhula mosiyana. mfundo zandale zakuya zayamba chifukwa chakuti anthu amaloŵa m’zonulirapo zosadziŵika bwino.
Kusankha Nthawi ndi Malo Oyenera
Kukonda kucheza ndi anthu kumakhudza kwambiri malo okhala:
Makonzedwe abwino a makambitsirano a ndale zadziko:
- Malo achinsinsi, osavuta kuwamvetsera
- Gawo limodzi lokha m’malo mwa gulu
- Ngati onse aŵiri ali odekha ndi osafulumirana
- Atadyera pamodzi chakudya kapena atakumana ndi zinthu zabwino
- Pazochitika monga kuyenda mochepetsa kuyang’anizana
Malo amene amawonjezera nkhondo [[FULT:]
- Malo ochezera a pa Intaneti amayankha
- Mapwando a banja lokhala ndi maganizo osiyanasiyana pa zandale
- Ngati muli ndi mowa
- Pa nthawi kapena nthawi yomweyo mutayambitsa nkhani
- Anthu akamachitira zinthu pagulu, amaona kuti ndi zoona
Kupenda Bwino Nkhani
Si nthaŵi iliyonse kapena munthu amene ali woyenera kukambitsirana zandale zadziko, kapena kusaina wina angakhale wokonzekera kukambitsirana komanga:
- Amafunsa mafunso okhudza maganizo anu
- Amavomereza kuti pali nkhani zambiri zovuta kumvetsa
- Amafuna kudziŵa maganizo osiyana
- Angakambirane nkhani zina modekha
- Iwo asonyeza kukhoza kutsutsana mwaulemu poyamba
Mbendera zofiira zimapereka lingaliro la kupeŵa nkhani zandale zadziko:
- Malo ochezera a pa Intaneti oipitsidwa posachedwapa
- Zimene zinachitika munthu wina akasemphana maganizo ndi mnzake
- Panopa tili ndi nkhawa kapena mavuto
- Kusakhoza kukambitsirana nkhani iliyonse popanda kukhala yandale zadziko
- Ndemanga zonga "Aliyense amene amakhulupirira X ali woipa kapena wopusa"
Mabungwe Okambitsirana Nkhani za Ndale Zomangirira
Yambani Mwaulemu ndi Mwaumunthu
Kuyamba kukambirana nkhani zandale mwaulemu kwenikweni kumasintha maganizo awo.
Njira zosonyezera ulemu
- Gwiritsirani ntchito dzina lawo m’malo mwa zizindikiro
- Vomerezani zimene anakumana nazo kukhala zogwira mtima
- Ayamikireni chifukwa chowauza maganizo awo
- Peŵani kugwedeza maso, kuusa moyo, kapena kugwedeza thupi
- Lankhulani nawo monga momwe mumafunira kuti wina akalankhule ndi okondedwa anu
Language yomwe imasonyeza ulemu
- "Ndikuona chifukwa chake mukuona choncho..."
- "Imeneyi ndi mfundo yosangalatsa imene sindinaganizirepo..."
- Mundithandize kumvetsa maganizo anu pa...
- Ndikukuthokozani kwambiri kugawana zimenezo ndi ine...
- "Mwalingalira bwino lomwe za ichi..."
Kudziŵa Kumvetsera Mwachangu
Kumvetsera kwabwino m’makambitsirano andale zadziko kumafuna zambiri kuposa kungoyembekezera nthaŵi yanu yolankhula. Kumatanthauza kuyesa mowona mtima kumvetsetsa osati zimene munthu amakhulupirira zokha komanso chifukwa chake iwo amakhulupirira.
Mapangano a kumvetsera kwa ndale zadziko kokangalika [:
- Chisamaliro chachikulu [: Kuchotsa foni, kuyang'ana m’maso moyenera, kupendekeka pang'ono
- Kubweza kumbuyo [1] : "Chotero chimene ndikumvera nchakuti mukudera nkhaŵa za..."
- Funsani mafunso omveka bwino : "Pamene munena kuti X, mukutanthauza..."
- Vomerezani malingaliro : "Imamveka ngati magazini ino ikudetsadi nkhaŵa/maupandu / amakusinthani"
- Kuweruza [: Gwiritsirani mtima kumvetsetsa musanapende
- Pezani nkhaŵa yaikulu [: Kuyang'ana kupyola pa malo ndi makhalidwe ndi mantha
[[FUL:0] Mafunso amene amalimbikitsa kumvetsetsa [:
- “ Kodi ndi zokumana nazo zaumwini zotani zimene zinasonkhezera kawonedwe kameneka?
- "Kodi ndi nkhaŵa yanu yaikulu yotani ponena za njira ina?
- Kodi mukuona bwanji zimenezi kukhudza anthu amene mumawaganizira?
- Kodi zotsatira zabwino zikanakhala zotani kwa inu?
- ‘ Mupeza kuti chidziŵitso chonena za nkhani ino?
Muzigwirizana pa Nkhani Yothandizana
Musanathetse kusagwirizana, dziŵitsani makhalidwe, nkhaŵa, kapena zonulirapo. Kupeza maziko ofanana m'ndale zadziko [1] sikumatanthauza kuyerekezera kusagwirizana kumene kulipo (imatanthauza kuzindikira kuti anthu ambiri amayanjana ndi zikhumbo zazikulu za chisungiko, kulemera, kulungama, ndi mwaŵi, ngakhale ngati sagwirizana pa njira.
Mitengo yosasintha ya kufufuza :
- Kufuna ana kuti akhale ndi moyo wabwino
- Kufuna kukhala ndi anthu otetezeka
- Kugwira ntchito zolimba ndi mwaŵi
- Kuteteza anthu ovutika
- Kusunga ufulu ndi zoyenera
- Kusiya dziko labwinopo kwa mibadwo yamtsogolo
Macheke opezera malo ogwirizana [
- Yambani ndi mapangano aakulu: "Anafe tonse timafuna kuti ana athu azipita kusukulu zabwino ”?
- Muyenera kuvomereza kuti: “Tikuda nkhawa ndi zachuma?
- Pezani zokhumudwitsa za wina ndi mnzake: “Aliyense wa ife sakhulupirira andale zadziko kotheratu ”
- Dziŵani adani ofala: "Ife tonse timatsutsa ziphuphu"
- Kuyamikira zinthu zabwino zimene ena achita:
Gwiritsirani Ntchito "I" Ndemanga ndi Zokumana Nazo Zaumwini
Kuuzana zimene mwakumana nazo ndiponso mmene mukuonera zinthu ndi mawu akuti "I" kumachepetsa kudziteteza ndipo kumachititsa kuti mukambirane bwino m’malo mokambirana.
Yerekezerani njira zimenezi [:
- Kulimbana: "Malamulo a chipani chanu anavulaza mabanja ogwira ntchito"
- Waumwini: "Ndimada nkhaŵa ndi mmene malamulo ameneŵa angayambukirire banja langa"
- Woimba mlandu: “Simusamala za malo okhala"
- Aliyense payekha: “Ndimada nkhaŵa ndi kusintha kwa nyengo chifukwa cha ana anga
- Kutheratu: "Nthanthi ya zachuma imatsimikiziridwa kukhala yolakwa"
- OFOTOKOZA: "M’zokumana nazo zanga zoyendetsa kabizinesi, ndawona..."
Nkhani za anthu zimayambitsa mikangano.
Funsani Mafunso M’malo Molankhula
Mafunso m'makambitsirano andalea amatumikira zifuno zambiri: iwo akusonkhanitsa chidziŵitso, kusonyeza chikondwerero, kupeŵa kuyambitsa kudzichinjiriza, ndi kulimbikitsa kusinkhasinkha. Funso lolondola lingakwaniritse zoposa mkangano uliwonse.
Mitundu ya mafunso a ndale zadziko opindulitsa:
[[FULT:0] Kufunafuna chidziŵitso [1]: "Unaphunzira kuti zimenezo? Ndingakonde kuŵerenga zowonjezereka.
Kufufuza kwa mlingo [1]: "Kodi chofunika kwambiri kwa inu ndi chiyani ponena za kope lino?
Kuyesa : "Kodi muganiza kuti zimenezo zimagwira ntchito motani?
Kuvumbula koyambirira: "Ngati munafunikira kusankha pakati pa X ndi Y, kodi ndi iti imene ikufunikira kuivumbula?
Kupeza malo a pulaneti [1]: "Kodi mbali za mbali ina ya mbaliyo zimatanthauzanji kwa inu?
KUSONYEZA : "Kodi muganiza kuti nchiyani chimene chingathetse vuto limeneli?
[[FUL:0] Mafunso opeŵedwa[[FL:1]:
- Mafunso ochititsa chidwi amene amabisa zinenezo
- Mafunso a Gotchcha okonzedwa kuti awakole
- Mafunso otonza
- Mafunso ocholoŵana a malingaliro opangidwa
- Mafunso aukali ofunsa mafunso
Njira Zotsogola Zolankhulirana Zovuta
Wachifwamba Ayandikira
Pamene kuli kwakuti "munthu wotsutsa" amapotoza malo a adani awo kuwagwetsa mosavuta, kuyandikira kwa "wachimuna" kumatanthauza kupereka nkhani yamphamvu kwambiri ya wina asanalankhule. Izi zimasonyeza chikhulupiriro chabwino ndi kuwona mtima kwanzeru.
[[FUL:0] Mmene mungaikire munthu m'makambitsirano a ndale zadziko [:
- Katchuleninso malo awo m’maumbidwe ake amphamvu
- Mwina anaphonya mfundo za m’nkhani yonseyo kapena kusiyanitsa zinthu
- Vomerezani nkhaŵa zomveka pa mkangano wawo
- Ndipo kokha pamene mupereka lingaliro lanu
- Mukambirane ndi munthu amene akutsutsana naye, osati kumangomuimba mlandu
Chitsanzo: "Ndikumvetsa nkhaŵa yanu ponena za chisamaliro cha boma si mtengo chabe . N’chifukwa chakuti mutetezere zosankha ndi kupeŵa maulamuliro amene angachepetse mphamvu. Zimenezi ndi nkhaŵa zomveka zimene dongosolo la zaumoyo lililonse lifunikira kuzisamalira..."
Kupsinjika Maganizo
Pamene makambitsirano andale ayamba, kukhala ndi njira zopatsirana kumaletsa mikangano:
[[ML:0] Njira za kuwonjezera [1]
- Muzilankhula mokweza
- Vomerezani malingaliro: "Ndikuona zimenezi kukhala zofunika kwambiri kwa inu"
- Tengani thayo: "Sindinanene bwino, lolani ndiyesenso"
- Mavesi opumula: "Ichi nchofunika kwambiri) kodi tiyenera kuchepetsa mphindi zisanu?
- Kubwererani ku zinthu zimene mumagwirizana: "Kumbukirani, tonse timafuna...
[[FL:0] Njira zokhazika mtima pansi za kupeyitsa [[FL:1]
- Muzipuma mpweya wosiyanasiyana mooneka bwino
- Mikono yosadulidwa ndipo muziima momasuka
- Sungani pang’ono kumbuyo kupanga thambo
- Perekani madzi kapena perekani malangizo oyenda
- Gwiritsirani ntchito mwansangala mosamala kutulutsa mkwiyo
Kusamalira Chidziŵitso Cholakwika Popanda Kukangana
Pamene wina agaŵana nkhani zonama, kutsutsana kwachindunji kaŵirikaŵiri kumabwezera. Kutsutsa nkhani zabodza zandale kumafuna kulipira:
[[FUL:0] Kufikira [[FL:1]:
- Yambani ndi choonadi: Iuzeni chimene chili cholondola
- Onani mwachidule bodzalo popanda kulibwerezanso
- Bwereraninso choonadi: Fotokozani mfundo yolondola
- Perekani magwero odalirika: Apatseni kumene mungatsimikizire
Njira zowongolera zowongolera [[FTL:1]
- "Ndiŵerenga chinthu china chosiyana ndi ichi] kodi tiyenera kuchiyang’ana pamodzi?
- Koma zimene ndaonazi sizifanana ndi zimene ndaonazo.
- "Ndinali kuganiza zimenezo mpaka ndinaphunzira..."
- "Intesting" gwero limene ndinawona linachita kanthu kenanso"
- "Tiyeni tione kuti tonse aŵirife ndife otsimikiza"
Kuyang’anira Zinthu Zosiyana
Nthaŵi zina kusagwirizana kwa ndale zadziko kumachokera ku malingaliro a dziko osemphana ndi chibadwa cha anthu, chifuno cha chitaganya, kapena makhalidwe abwino. Izi sizingathetsedwe mwa mfundo zenizeni kapena nzeru.
[[FLT: 0] Apache za kusiyana kwa dziko lapansi :
- Vomerezani kusiyanako mosapita m’mbali
- Kuchokera ku kusanthula: ‘ Unaziwona bwanji zinthu motere?
- Yesetsani kuchita zinthu mogwirizana ngakhale kuti muli ndi maganizo osiyana
- Muziganizira kwambiri malamulo enaake m’malo moganizira mfundo wamba
- Dziwani kuti kusiyana kwina n’kosatheka
Njira Zothetsera Vutoli
Kukambitsirana kwa Ndale Zabanja
Kulankhula zandale ndi banja kumapereka zitokoso zapadera: simungapeŵene, mbiri imasokoneza makambitsirano onse, ndipo mitengo imadzimva kukhala yapamwamba.
Maluso a banja-osavuta
- Ikani malire misonkhano isanayambe: "Tiyeni tidye chakudya popanda ndale"
- Gwiritsirani ntchito bwino mbiri ya banja lanu: “Kumbukirani pamene agogo anu aakazi anakumana ndi mavuto ofananawo?
- Chiyeneretsani kugwirizana kwa banja: "Ife ndife oyamba, ndale yachiŵiri"
- Muzigwirizana ndi achibale anu kuti muwathandize kukambirananso
- Khalani ndi mapulani othawa: Konzekerani kukonza zinthu zimene mukuona kuti zisintha kapena kutuluka bwino
[[FL:0] Pamene makolo ndi ana achikulire asemphana maganizo [:
- Vomerezani malingaliro a mbadwo wosiyana
- Kambitsiranani za chisinthiko: "Malingaliro anga asintha chifukwa..."
- Lemekezani zokumana nazo zawo pamene mukudzinenera nokha
- Ganizirani za ziyembekezo za adzukulu
- Ikani malire ponena za makambitsirano a ndale zadziko pa ana
Kukambitsirana za Ndale Zakuntchito
Kufufuza ndale pantchito [ kumafuna kusamala kwambiri koperekedwa kwa mayanjano aukatswiri ndi ziyambukiro zotheka za HR.
Zitsogozo za kuntchito :
- Dziŵani malamulo a kampani okhudza nkhani zandale
- Khalani ndi makambitsirano achidule ndi ang’onoang’ono
- Peŵani kukongoletsa kapena kuvala zovala zandale
- Musakakamize anzanu kuti azigwirizana nawo
- Kuika maganizo pa malamulo amene amakhudza anthu m’malo mwa anthu ena
- Samalani kwambiri pa nyengo ya masankho
- Ulemu umene anthu ogwira nawo ntchito sangapeŵe kukambitsirana kosayenera
[[FULT:0] Ngati ndinu manijala :
- Kusemphana maganizo kwachitsanzo
- Muzitseka mwamsanga chinenero chopatsa ufulu wolankhula
- Musagwiritsire ntchito udindo wanu kuchirikiza malingaliro andale
- Kutsimikizira kuti antchito onse amamva kukhala otetezereka mosasamala kanthu za ndale zadziko
- Kambiranani nkhani zina zokhudzana ndi nkhani za kuntchito
Umodzi wa Ndale Zandale ndi Zamanyuzipepala
Zigomeko zotsutsana pa nyuzi za anthu kaŵirikaŵiri zimakhala zaupandu makamaka chifukwa cha ziyambukiro za omvetsera, kutsekereza kwa malamulo a mkangano, ndi kulephera kulankhulana.
Mapangano a nkhani zandale za pa Intaneti :
- Sankhani mauthenga anu achinsinsi m’malo molankhula ndi anthu
- Dikirani kaye musanachitepo kanthu pa zinthu zotsekemera
- Kugwiritsa ntchito vidiyo kumafuna kuti muzikambirana zinthu zovuta
- Chezani musanagawitse
- Peŵani makambitsirano a ndale pamene muli ndi malingaliro
- Kulekanitsa mawu amodzi panthaŵi zovuta
- Musaiwale kuti zithunzithunzi za m’mafilimu zimakhalapo mpaka kalekale
[[FUL:0] Pamene mutaya malo a pa Intaneti :
- Kuukira kwaumwini kumayamba
- Anthu ambiri amadzaza
- Kukambitsirana kumakhala kosangalatsa
- Chikhulupiriro choipa chimaonekera
- Mumavutika maganizo
Kupalana Chibwenzi ndi Ndale
Kugwirizana kwa mayanjano kwakhala kofunika kwambiri, ndi anthu ambiri akumalingalira malingaliro andale kukhala osokoneza mapangano.
Kukulitsa kusiyana kwa ndale pamene kuli kuŵerengera deti :
- Kambiranani kaye mfundo zimene mumatsatira musanayambe kucheza ndi anthu a pagulu
- Muzikambirana nkhani zanu zokhudza ndale
- Dziŵani ngati kusiyana maganizo kuli kothetsa mavuto
- Pezani zinthu zimene simunachitepo zandale
- Kulemekeza malire a ndale zadziko
- Ganizirani ngati mungalemekezene kwa nthaŵi yaitali
- Kambiranani mmene mumachitira ndi kusiyana kwa ndale ndi ana amene mufuna
Pamene Muyenera Kukhumudwa: Kuzindikira Kukambitsirana Kopanda Makhalidwe
Mbendera Zofiira Zimene Kukambitsirana Sikudzabala Zochita
Nthaŵi zina njira yabwino koposa ya Kupeŵa mikangano ya ndale zadziko [ ndiyo kuzindikira pamene kukambitsirana kwagamulidwa:
Zizindikiro zotsutsa kuthetsa makambitsirano a ndale zadziko [:
- Kuukira kwaumwini kapena kutchula maina kukuyamba
- Kukula kwa volyumu ndi malingaliro mosasamala kanthu za kuyesayesa kwa kunyonyotsoka
- Iwo amangonena kuti anthu ena ndi onyenga
- Amakana kuvomereza mfundo zilizonse zomveka zimene mwanena
- Kukambirana kumakhala kothandiza m’malo momvetsa zimene akukambirana
- Moŵa kapena zinthu zina zimawononga kuzindikira
- Aliyense wa iwo amavutika maganizo
- Zigomeko zofananazo zozungulira zimabwereza
Mmene Mungathetsere Nkhani Zandale Mosangalala
[[MMWI:0] Njira zimene zimasunga maunansi :
Chiyamiko chotulukapo [1]: "Ndikuyamikirani kugaŵana malingaliro anu. Tiyeni tinene kanthu kena.
malire a nthaŵi [1]: "Ndifunikira kulingalira zimene mwanena. Kodi tingabwerezenso izi pambuyo pake?
pangano la kusagwirizana [1]: "Sindiganiza kuti tidzathetsa zimenezi lero, koma ndilemekeza kuyenera kwanu ku malingaliro anu.
Unansi wofunika kwambiri : "Ubwenzi / banja limeneli umatanthauza zambiri kwa ine kuposa kusamvana kumeneku.
Mphamvu yovomereza [1]: "Sindili ndi mphamvu ya kukambirana kofunika kwambiri kunoko"
pangano lapang'ono lomwe [1]: "Timagwirizana pa vuto ngakhale ngati sitikugwirizana pa zothetsera. Tiyeni tilisiye pamenepo.
Kuvomereza Mosagwirizana
Kutsutsa za ndale zadziko [ sikumatanthauza kutaya mtima] kumatanthauza kuzindikira malire pamene mukusunga maunansi:
- Kuvomereza motsimikiza kuti simudzagwirizana
- Kutsimikizira kufunika kwa munthuyo kuposa kwa ndale zawo
- Pezani njira zosakhala zandale
- Ikani malire ponena za makambitsirano a ndale zadziko amtsogolo
- Ganizirani zokumana nazo ndi zinthu zimene mumakondana
- Kumbukirani kuti maganizo amasintha pang’onopang’ono, osati mwa kukambirana kokha
Kumanga Luso Lakale Lolankhulana ndi Zandale
Kukulitsa Nzeru ya Maganizo
luntha la maganizo m'makambitsirano a ndale zadziko [ imakuthandizani kuyang'anira malingaliro anu pamene mukuyankha moyenerera kwa ena ':
[[FL:0] Luso lakuya la malingaliro [:
- Kudzikweza [1]: Kuzindikira zoyambitsa zanu ndi tsankhu lanu
- Kusintha kwa kudzikweza: Kulamulira mayankhidwe a malingaliro
- Tsala: Kumvetsetsa mikhalidwe ya malingaliro a ena
- Kuzindikira kwa chipinda : Kuŵerenga chipinda kumathandiza kwambiri
- Kutulutsa [1]: Kusunga zonulirapo zopindulitsa mosasamala kanthu za kugwiritsidwa mwala
Kukulitsa nzeru za ndale zadziko [:
- Magazini yonena za zoyambitsa zandale
- Khalani osamala pokambirana
- Kukulitsa chifundo posonyeza malingaliro osiyana
- Pezani chidzudzulo pa njira yanu yokambitsirana
- Kuphunzira kugwiritsa ntchito mawu a thupi ndi kugwiritsa ntchito mawu osongoka
Kukulitsa Zakudya Zanu
Chidziŵitso cha ndale zadziko chotchuka [ chimawongolera mkhalidwe wa kukambitsirana mwa kupereka lingaliro lokulira:
- Ŵerengani nkhani za m’nkhani zosiyanasiyana zandale
- Funafunani kuloŵetsedwa m’ndale za dziko lonse za U.S.
- Tsatirani opereka ndemanga olingalira amene simugwirizana nawo
- Muziwerenga mabuku m’malo mowerenga nkhani
- Phunzirani mbiri ya nkhani yonse
- Muziphunzira zinthu zambiri m’malo mopita kumaphunziro otchuka
- Chenjezerani mfundo za kumbali yanu
Kudzichepetsa
Kudzichepetsa kwauphunzitsi kumatanthauza kuzindikira kuti mungakhale mukulakwa pamene mukusunga zikhulupiriro zanu:
- Muyenera kuvomereza ngati simukudziwa kanthu kena
- Sinthani malo pamene umboni ufuna
- Vomerezani kucholoŵana ndi malonda
- Dziŵani kuti ndinu wokondera ndiponso kuti pali zimene simungathe kuchita
- Yang’anirani kuti anthu oganiza bwino angatsutse
- Funso lofuna kudziŵa chifukwa chake ena amaganiza mosiyana ndi ena
Chiyambukiro cha Kutakata: Chifukwa Chake Kukambitsirana Kuli Kofunika
Kulimbitsa Demokalase
Democracy imadalira pa nzika zimene zingakambirane mopindulitsa. Pamene tingolankhula za ndale ndi awo amene amagwirizana nafe, timalephera kumanga mapangano, kupeza zololera, ndi kulamulira bwino. Kulangiza makambitsirano andale zadziko [ ndi luso lachikhalidwe monga kuvota.
Kuchepetsa Kusintha kwa Magazi
Tikamagwiritsa ntchito njira zandale pokambirana moona mtima ndi anthu, timalimbana ndi mphamvu zimene zimasokoneza anthu a ku America.
Kusunga Maunansi
Kuphunzira kuthana ndi kusiyana kwa ndale kumagaŵanitsa mabanja, kuthetsa maubwenzi, ndi kuyambitsa mavuto a kuntchito.
Kukula kwa Munthu Mwini
Kugwirizana mwaulemu ndi malingaliro osiyanasiyana andale kumakulitsa kumvetsetsa, kutsutsa malingaliro, ndi kukulitsa malingaliro osuliza.
Kulimbitsa Ubongo Kuti Ukhale Wothandiza
Maseŵera Olimbitsa Thupi
Lembani mfundo yolimbikitsa kwambiri pa mfundo imeneyi ndipo mukhoza kuigwira mogwira mtima.
Chizoloŵezi Chosonyeza Kufunika Kwake
Musanayambe kukambirana nkhani zandale, funsani munthu wina kuti akuuzeni mfundo zimene mukuona kuti n’zofunika kwambiri kuti muyambe kuyendera mfundo zandale.
Vuto la Kachilomboka
Mfundo zitatu zoona zimene mumakhulupirira kuti n’zoona, kuphatikizapo zimene andale kapena anthu ena amene amakulimbikitsani.
Kumvetsera
Mu nkhani yanu yotsatira ya ndale zadziko, therani mphindi 10 zoyambirira kumvetsera ndi kufunsa mafunso. Musaganizire malingaliro anu kufikira mutamvetsetsa bwino lomwe awo. Onani mmene zimenezi zimasinthira mphamvu.
Mapu Ofala
Ndi munthu amene sagwirizana ndi ndale zadziko, pangani mapu owonekera a zinthu zonse zimene mugwirizana pa zinthu . ponse paŵiri zandale zadziko ndi zosakhala zandale zadziko. Pezani ku izi pamene makambitsirano apsa.
Kumaliza: Njira Yopitira Patsogolo mwa Kukambitsirana
Kuphunzira njira yolankhulira za ndale popanda kuyambitsa mkangano sikuli kupeŵa makambitsirano ofunika kapena kuyerekezera kusagwirizana. Kuli kwakuti kuli ndi maluso a kuloŵa ndi zofunika zazikulu za demokrase: nzika za malingaliro osiyana zogwirira ntchito pamodzi mosasamala kanthu za kusamvana. Mapangano a ndale zadziko achipambano alionse. Kumene magulu onse aŵiri amasiya malingaliro omveka ndi olemekezeka ngakhale popanda kugwirizana.
Njira zosonyezedwa pano . Kuyambira kumvetsera mokangalika ndi kupeza maziko ogwirizana, kuyambira kufunsa mafunso kufikira kudziŵa pamene angatsutse . Si njira za kulankhulana zokha. Izo zili maluso a democracy ofunika kuti munthu adzilamulire yekha. Pamene tiyamba makambitsirano a ndale zadziko mmalo mwa kulimbana, ndi anthu mmalo mwa chidani, titsanzira mtundu wa ndale zimene tifuna kuwona.
Kukambitsirana kwa ndale zadziko nthaŵi zonse kudzabweretsa mavuto chifukwa chakuti ndale zadziko zimapereka mayankho a mafunso ofunika onena za mmene tikhalira pamodzi. Koma kusagwirizana sikuyenera kutanthauza kulimbana. Kusagwirizana sikumafuna kusalemekeza. malingaliro osiyana samafuna mayanjano osweka. Mwa kugwiritsira ntchito maluso ameneŵa, tingakhale ndi makambitsirano a ndale zadziko athu ofunikira pamene kuli kwakuti kusungitsa maunansi a anthu athu kumafunidwa.
Cholinga si kuthetsa kusagwirizana kwa ndale, chifukwa chakuti maganizo a anthu akusiyana, amalimbitsa demokrase. Cholinga n’chakuti anthu asamagwirizane: mothandiza kwambiri, mwaulemu kwambiri, ndiponso mopindulitsa kwambiri. M’nthaŵi imene kugawikana kwa ndale kukuoneka ngati kosatheka, kukambirana kwachipambano kulikonse kumene kulipo ndiko kupambana kwa pang'ono kwa chikhalidwe cha demokrase.
Pitirizani kukambirana ndi munthu mmodzi amene simukugwirizana naye pa zandale koma musamamusamale.
Kumbukirani: Kulankhula ponena za ndale zadziko popanda kukangana kuli luso limene limawongolera machitidwe. Kukambitsirana kulikonse kumaphunzitsa kanthu kena ponena za kugaŵikana. Kusagwirizana kulikonse kwaulemu kumalimbitsa minofu ya demokrase. Nthaŵi iriyonse ya kuzindikira kusiyana kulikonse imatsimikizira kuti Aamereka angadziloŵetsebe mopindulitsa mosasamala kanthu za kusagwirizana kwakukulu. Mtsogolo mwa demokrase yathu kungadalire pa kukhoza kwathu kudziŵa maluso ofunika a zaumoyo.
Kaamba ka zowonjezereka pa kukambitsirana kwa ndale zadziko, lingalirani kuchezera [[FLT: 0] Institute ya Chivil Discour [1] kapena kufufuza Angelo a Braver shaver shopu za [[FLT: 3] pa kutha kwa dzuŵa.
