Kule mihla intlukwano ekhulayo, ukukwazi ukuncokola ngembeko nangemveliso akukhange kube sisixhobo esibaluleke nakancinane. Ezi ngxoxo — nokuba zenzeka kwiholo yedolophu, ngasesidlweni, okanye ngamanani e-fomati — zingundoqo obalulekileyo wokuthabatha inxaxheba kwedemokhrasi. Xa zenziwe ngokuphumelelayo, ingxoxo yoluntu ihamba ngaphaya kwengxoxo nje kwaye ibe sisixhobo sokwakha ukuqonda, inkqubo yokulungisa, nokuqinisa amaqhina phakathi kwabantu. Kodwa abantu abaninzi bayathandabuza ukuthetha, bengaqinisekanga ngendlela eya kwabelana ngayo ilizwi labo ngendlela eya kuvalwa nokuhlonelwa. Eli nqaku linikela ukhokelo olucacileyo lokuqhuba iingxoxo zoluntu, ngokunempumelelo, ngenkqubo yonxibelelwano, ukuva, ukusetyenziswa kobugcisa, nokufumana imiqobo.

Injongo Yencoko Yabantwana

Iingxoxo ze-Covic zicwangciswe okanye zixutyushwa ngokungacwangciswanga ezigxininisa kwimibandela echaphazela uluntu, uhlanga, okanye ibutho labantu elibanzi. Injongo yazo eyintloko asikokuphumelela impikiswano kodwa kukukhulisa ukuqonda kwiimbono ezahlukeneyo nokuvelisa izisombululo ezimanyeneyo.

  • [[FLT: 0] Ukuhlanganisa koluntu ngokwenza izithuba ezabelweneyo apho abantu abaneemvelaphi ezahlukeneyo banokudibana khona.
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Ukuqonda ezi nzuzo kunceda abo bathatha inxaxheba bacinge ngentsingiselo yencoko kunokuba bafune “ukulwa.” Xa bonke abantu beqonda ukuba iziphumo zikokufunda kunye nesenzo esinokwenzeka, isandi siyatshintsha sisuke sisukele ekulweni.

Yazi Imfundiso Yakho: Isiseko Somyalezo Onempumelelo

Ngaphambi kokuba uthethe noluntu, zinike ixesha lokuqonda ukuba uthetha nobani.

Ubomi Nobomi

Ubudala, umgangatho wemfundo, izibiyeli zengeniso, nendawo yelizwe konke kusimo sonke esijonga indlela umntu acinga ngayo ngomxholo. Incoko emalunga nemali yokuhambisa uwonke-wonke iza kuhlala ngokwahlukileyo kakhulu kwi-odokisi elizimeleyo lemoto kunokuhlala nomfundi wasekholeji oxhomekeke kwiibhasi. Uzibuza, “Ziziphi iingcinezelo nezinto eziza kuqala ezibumba ubomi balo mntu?” Iza kukunceda ukuba wenze ulwimi nemizekelo yakho.

Imilinganiselo yokuziphatha Nezinto Ezibonwa Lihlabathi

Ukuba uyakwazi ukubona ukuba ngabaphi abantu abaya kubaphulaphuli abakuxabisayo, unokusibeka ngendlela evakalayo isigidimi sakho. Ngokomzekelo, imigaqo yemozulu inokusetyenziswa njengekhusela izizukulwana zexesha elizayo (ukufuna ukubonakalisa inkxalabo) okanye ukunciphisa ukuchitha imali (ukufuna ukuhlawula ityala).

Ukulingana Kolwazi Neenkolelo Ezikhoyo

Gauge indlela abaphulaphuli bakho abanolwazi ngayo ngalo mbandela. Kuphephe ukugxambulisa ukuba bangamachule kodwa kuphephe ukuba bangamachule ukuba batsha. Ngaphezu koko, lumkela ucalucalulo oluqinisekisayo: abantu bathanda inkcazelo exhasa iimbono zabo ezikhoyo. Ukuxhasa, ukuvuma into enye kuqala ngaphambi kokusungula ugcino-lwazi olutsha okanye olucelw ’ umngeni.

Iindlela Zonxibelelwano Ezakha Iibhulorho

Xa uqonda abaphulaphuli bakho, inyathelo elilandelayo kukukhetha indlela yokudlulisela isigidimi sakho.

Ucace Nokululula

Sebenzisa ulwimi olucacileyo kwaye uphephe amagama obugcisa ngaphandle kokuba uwachaze. Endaweni yokuthi “Sifuna ukwenza isakhiwo esinentabalala yokubophelela,” yithi:“Sifanele senze icebo elivumela bonke abantu — ukusuka kubemi ukuya kubaphathi bezoshishino — banenxaxheba kwisigqibo.” I-"I-colar inciphisa umthwalo wengqondo kubaphulaphuli kwaye yenza iingongoma zakho zikhumbuleke.

Ukuphulaphula Ngokukhutheleyo

Unxibelelwano sisitrato esihamba macala amabini. Ukuphulaphula ngenyameko kuthetha ukunikela ingqalelo epheleleyo, ukushwankathela oko ukuvileyo, nokubuza imibuzo ecacisayo. Umzekelo: “Ndikuva usithi uxhalabele ukwanda kwerhafu yempahla — ngaba ichanile?” Xa abantu beziva bephulaphule ngokunyanisekileyo, bakulungele ngakumbi ukuqwalasela ezinye iimbono.

Ukuthetha Ngembali Njengesixhobo Esikhuthazayo

I-data iyodwa ayifane itshintshe iingqondo; amabali anxibelelene neemvakalelo. Xela amava amafutshane anxulumene nobuqu abonisa isizathu sokuba le ngxaki ibalulekile kuwe. “Ndikhumbula xa isikolo sentombi yam saphulukana nodweliso lwayo ngenxa yoqingqo-mali — kungelo xesha endaqonda ukuba kufuneka sixhasa imfundo ngokwahlukileyo.” Ingxelo echukumisayo yenza iingxaki ezingaqondakaliyo.

Ukubuza Imibuzo Evulekileyo

Imibuzo engenakuphendulwa ngo- “ewe" okanye“no" imema ukucamngca nokuncokola. Umzekelo, endaweni ye-“Awuqondi ukuba sifanele sinciphise ukukhutshwa kwegesi?” Buza: Ngawaphi amanyathelo ocinga ukuba alungile kakhulu ekunciphiseni umsi okhutshwayo kwingingqi yethu?” Imibuzo ephelisiweyo ibonisa umdla nentlonelo ngomntu ocingayo.

Ukulawula ulwimi lomzimba nolwethu

Kwanakwimimiselo yenyani, i-oyile, ime ngokukhululekileyo. Ukugcina ukuma okuvulekileyo, ukungxola ukubonisa ukuganana, nokugcina isandi esivakalayo. Kuphephe ukuwela iingalo, ukuncwina, okanye ukuphakamisa ilizwi, okunokubonisa ukhuseleko okanye ungquzulwano. Ubukho obuzolileyo, obuzinzileyo buqinisekisa abanye ukuba incoko ikhuselekile.

Ukwenza Okusingqongileyo okukhuselekileyo nokuqulethweyo

Enoba uyayithanda intlanganiso yasekuhlaleni okanye uncokola nje, unokuba luncedo ukuba ukhuselekile ukuba ungazichasi, okanye usoloko uthetha nabo.

Yenza Imithetho Esisiseko

Ekuqaleni kwengxoxo ecwangcisiweyo, cwangcisa ukulindela okucacileyo. Imithetho eqhelekileyo iquka oku: “Umntu uthetha ngexesha,”“ Hlonipha amava abanye nokuba anivumelani,” kwaye “UKosis ngemibandela, hayi ukuhlasela kobuqu.” Le mithetho ayizozozothe nje; ikhusela abathathi-nxaxheba abasenokuba noloyiko ngokuthetha.

Khuthaza Ukuba Nenxaxheba Ngokufanelekileyo

Lumka kwimisebenzi yamandla. Kwiqela, amanye amazwi asenokulawula ngoxa amanye ehlala athulile. Ngokungxama umema abathathi-nxaxheba ukuba babelane, usebenzisa amabinzana afana nothi “Ndingathanda ukuva kumntu ongakathethi.” Kwimimiselo ye-intanethi, sebenzisa iifomati ezijikelezayo ze-librobin okanye ucebise wonke umntu ukuba abe nethuba.

Ukucinga Ngobuhlungu Nokwenzakalisa

Ezinye imicimbi zoluntu — njengogonyamelo lwamapolisa, ukunyanzeliswa kwabantu abavela kwamanye amazwe, okanye amalungelo okuzala — zinzulu kakhulu kwaye zinokubangela ukuba abantu bavakalelwe ngokunzulu ngokweemvakalelo. Ziqonde ezi ngxelo zisuka nje. Kuphephe ukuchaza ngokucacileyo kwaye unike abo balapho imvume yokuwushiya umcimbi xa ufuneka. Indlela yolwazi oluchaphazelekayo ibonisa intlonelo ngokusebenza ngokweemvakalelo okubandakanyekileyo ekuncokoleni.

Ukuqonda Ubuchule Beencoko Ezidityanisiweyo

Azikho zonke iincoko zoluntu ezijongene nento efanayo. Ukuqonda iifomati ezahlukeneyo kunokukunceda ukhethe indawo efanelekileyo yelizwi lakho.

Enye-enye Incoko

Le yeyona ndlela yokuthetha esondeleyo, ivumela ukuphulaphula ngokunzulu nokwakha ulwalamano. Ngokufuthi, incoko enye nommelwane okanye nomntu osebenza naye iyakwazi ukutshintsha indlela yokuqonda isebenza kakuhle kunentetho kawonke-wonke.

Incoko encinane yeQela

Iincwadi, imibutho esekuhlaleni, namaqela anxibelelanayo emsebenzini adla ngokungenisa incoko. Le mimiselo iyangenelwa kumongo owahlukeneyo kunye nokuthelekisana ngokuqhubekayo. Ucelomngeni kukuphepha ukucinga ngokulinganayo — kuqinisekisa ukuba iimbono eziphikisanayo ziyamkelwa.

Iindawo Zombutho Nokwakhiwa Kwezidolophana

Ezi ziganeko zikhulu zenzelwe ukusetyenziswa kwebutho labantu kwimibandela ethile. Ukuze uphumelele, ulungiselele intetho emfutshane, ufike kwangoko ukuze uhlole indlela ovakalelwa ngayo, uze uphulaphule ezinye izithethi ngaphambi kokulungisa iinkalo zakho. Iifosili zikawonke wonke zifuna ukuhlonelwa kwemida yexesha.

Unxibelelwano lwamanani

Xa usebenzisa i - Internet, uthetha nomntu omnye, unikela inkcazelo engakumbi, uyakwazi ukunikela inkcazelo ephosakeleyo okanye ubonise ubutshaba.

Ubuxhakaxhaka obucocekayo bobandakanyeko olunwenwayo

Ubugcisa buye batshintsha incoko yoluntu, nto leyo ebangela ukuba abantu bathathe inxaxheba kwiimeko zomhlaba nakumanani abantu.

Ukukhetha Iplatform Efanelekileyo

Amaqonga asebenzisa iinjongo ezahlukeneyo. I-media ye-Projekthi (Ingqungquthela, i Facebook, i-Profile, i-Purtem) ilunge kakhulu kunikezelo olukhawulezileyo kunye nentluphecano kawonke-wonke. iibhodi zengxoxo zengxoxo (INTP] [FLT]] Incoko edityanisiweyo) ivumela ixesha elide, i-iiingcingo yevidiyo idityaniswa no-' (yandisa, Jitsi) i- jongana-kudibana kobumbo oluncinane kwaye iyalingene kwiqela lengxoxo. Fanisa iqonga kwimikhwa yakho kunye nobunzulu bencoko yakho.

Imithetho-siseko yokulwa neZibhedlele zentlokoma

Ii-algorithm ezininzi zezentlalo media zibonakalisa abasebenzisi bazo izinto eziqinisa iinkolelo zabo ezikhoyo, zidala amagumbi eentlokoma. Ukuphikisa oku, ukubandakanyeka ngabom kwimithombo eyahlukeneyo kwaye wabelane ngomxholo onika inkcazelo ecacileyo. Xa udibana neplatifomu engavumelaniyo nawe, sukuwuphembelela umnqweno wokuyicinezela — yisebenzise njengesiqalo sokufuna ukwazi.

Ukubhala kwamanani kunye nokuchonga kwenyaniso

Intambulelo isasazeka ngokukhawuleza kwilayini. Phambi kokwabelana ngolwazi, qinisekisa ukusebenzisa amanxuwa athembekileyo ajonga inyani anje Snopes okanye FactCcock.org[. Xa udibana neengxelo ezingachananga, zilungise ngokuzolileyo kwaye unike uqhagamshelwano kumthombo othembekileyo. Kuphephe ukudibanisa umntu owabelanayo impazamo; endaweni yoko, yifake njengeqela lomgudu wokufumana izibakala.

Izixhobo ezifana [[NTL: 0] Intetho yeCommon kunye nohlanga lwendawo yembutho yencoko yababini ye Deliteration[[FLT: 3] inikeza isiseko kunye nezibonelelo zokunika ingxubusho ezisebenzayo kwi Internet. Qwalasela ezi zikhokelo xa uceba isiganeko esizizodwa.

Ukoyisa Olona Ncedo Luqhelekileyo

Kwaneyona ngxoxo igcinwe kakuhle ingaba yimiqobo. Ukulindela le mingeni kukuvumela ukuba ulungiselele iimpendulo ezigcina incoko yakha.

Ukuthetha Okuphosakeleyo Nenkcazelo Engachananga

Xa umntu ethetha into engeyonyani, phepha impikiswano ekhawulezileyo. Endaweni yoko, vuma ukuba ikho inyaniso, ngoko ujonge kwinkcazelo echanileyo. Umzekelo: “Ndiyaqonda ukuba kutheni loo manani ebonakala esothusa — ndandicinga okufanayo de ndijonge ugcino-lwazi kwi-Census Bureaual. Eyona ngxelo yabo yakutshanje ibonisa utyekelo olwahlukileyo." Ukulungiselela imithombo kwaye ucele umntu ukuba ayihlolisise kunye.

Ukulawula Iimvakalelo Ezinamandla

Iimvakalelo asilulo utshaba lwencoko; luphawu lokuba imixholo ibalulekile. Xa umntu enomsindo, nqumama kwaye aqinisekise iimvakalelo zabo. Yithi, “Ndiyayibona lento ibalulekile kuwe. Makhe sithathe ithutyana ukuva indlela ovakalelwa ngayo." Xa imvakalelo ivunywa, ungayibuyisela kakuhle incoko kumbandela okhoyo. Itechniques ifana nokuphefumla ngokunzulu okanye ukucebisa imposiso emfutshane inganceda ukubuyisela isandi.

Ukuqhubana Nobutshaba Okanye Ukholo Olubi

Asingabo bonke abathathi-nxaxheba abaza kuncokola benolwazi oluphangaleleyo. Bambi bangayiphazamisa ngabom incoko ngogonyamelo okanye ngokuyihlasela. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, kujoliswe kwakhona kwimithetho yomhlaba. Ukuba le ntshukumo iyaqhubeka, kwamkelekile ukuphelisa ingxoxo ngokuzolileyo: “Andiqondi ukuba siyakwazi ukuba nentsebenziswano enemveliso ngoku. Masiphinde siphinde sibuye.” Ukukhusela intlalo yakho kwaye okoko kwabanye abathathi-nxaxheba kubaluleke kakhulu kunokuqhubeka nententelelano enobungozi.

Amandla Alawulayo Amabala

Xa umntu othile enegunya elingakumbi kunabanye abantu, amazwi abo anokulawula. Abameli kufuneka bathethe amazwi angenamandla kakhulu — umzekelo, ngokubanika ixesha elongezelelekileyo lokuthetha okanye ngokubacela ukuba bajonge izinto ngendlela efanayo kuqala. Ukuba unelungelo, khumbula ukuba ufumana indawo engakanani na uze uqhelisele ukuphulaphula kunokuthetha.

Isuka kuNxibelelwano iye kwiNdlela

Unxibelelwano olungakhokeleleli kwisenzo lungadimaza kwaye lungabi nanjongo. Ukuqinisekisa ukuba uthembisene ngoluntu lunempembelelo, lungiselela amanyathelo acacileyo alandelayo.

Ukubhala Nokubelana Ngeziphumo

Emva kwentlanganiso yencoko yababini, shwankathela iincam ezingundoqo zesivumelwano, ukungavumelani, kunye neengcamango ezintsha. Yabelana ngesi sishwankathelo nabathathi-nxaxheba kunye nabenzi besigqibo abanamandla okwenza. Iirekhodi ezibhaliweyo zinika ubunzima bencoko kwaye zinika isiseko sencoko yexesha elizayo.

Ukwakha Iimali

Enye incoko ingatyala imbewu, kodwa inyathelo eliqhubekayo lidla ngokufuna iqela. Memela abathathi-nxaxheba abanomdla ukuba bathelele iqela elisebenzayo, uluhlu lokuposa, okanye intlanganiso elandelelwayo. Ingqungquthela yokwandisa isandi ngasinye kwaye yandise uxinzelelo lotshintsho. Umzekelo, incoko enxulumene nokhuseleko lwepaki isenokuguquka ibe ngumbutho odibana namalungu ebhunga lesixeko.

Isiphumo Somlinganiselo

Beka usukelo olulungele imigudu yakho yokuncokola, lusenokuquka inani labantu oza kufikelela kubo, ukwamkela inkqubo entsha, okanye ukwanda kwabantu abahlukahlukeneyo abaya kwiziganeko zexesha elizayo.

Ukulungiselela Iincwadi Zokufunda Eziqhubekayo

Gcina uqhubeko luhamba ngokubelana ngeencwadi, amanqaku, kunye neevidiyo ezinika ubunzulu bokuqonda amanqaku. Inxuwa lenkqubela-phambili yaseMelika kunye Iqumban Institute [[[FLT: 3] inikeza uhlalutyo lwenkqubo olunokwazisa iingxoxo ezibhekele phaya. Khuthaza abathathi-nxaxheba ukuba babe ngabaxhasi abanolwazi ngokunxulumana nabo nemibutho yezentlalo-ntle.

Ukukhuthaza Imikhwa Yesicombululo

Incoko yoluntu ephumelelayo asisosiganeko esinye; ngumkhwa oqinisa ixesha. Ukuxhasa ukuganana:

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  • Imodeli yesimilo [[FLT: 1] ufuna ukubona: qhubeka uphulaphula, ufunde, kwaye ulungelelanise indlela yakho yonxibelelwano.

Isiphelo

Ukuncokola ngentlalo-ntle akuyonto ilungileyo nje kuphela kodwa yimbopheleleko kulawulo-moya olusebenzayo. Ngokuqonda abaphulaphuli bakho, ngokusebenzisa unxibelelwano olucacileyo nolwemfesane, ukwenza iindawo ezikhuselekileyo, kunye nobugcisa obusebenzisa iziyobisi, unokuba nesabelo kwilizwi lakho ngeendlela ezenza umahluko. Incoko nganye ingumqobo wokwakha — enokuthi ikwazi ukwahlula ibhulorho, ukukhuthaza intlonelo, nokuvelisa intsebenziswano ezakufuneka ukuze kubekho utshintsho olunentsingiselo. Kwixesha elizayo unokuba nethuba lokuthetha ngemibandela yakho, khumbula ukuba ilizwi lakho, elibunjwe yimigaqo, linokuba namandla okunceda abantu bafeze oku.