Izibalo zidweba uhlaka lwenkinga, kodwa izindaba ziyidweba ngemibala ephelele. Isicelo esigcwaliswe kuphela ngamaphuzu okwaziswa kanye nezimfuno ezingabonakali singazwa kukude. Ngokuluka izimpawu zobufakazi nokulandisa komuntu siqu, uguqula isicelo sakho ohlwini olulula lwezicelo ube ucingo oluqinile, oluhlolwa umuntu olufuna ushintsho. Lesiqondiso sihlola indlela yokuthola, ubuciko, kanye nendawo ukuze ufakaze ukunxusa kwakho, umsekeli ojulile, futhi ekugcineni siqhubele phambili umkhankaso wakho.

Okwenza Ukuvivinya Nezindaba Zomuntu Sidinge Impumelelo Ethandwayo

Abantu bahloselwe ukulandisa. Ukucwaninga kwezengqondo kubonisa ukuthi siqonda izwe kangcono ngezindaba kunemininingwane eshayelweyo. Indaba eshukumisayo ingadlula izivikelo ezisemzimbeni futhi ikhulume ngokuqondile ngomuzwa womfundi wozwela nobulungisa. Yingakho izicelo ezihlanganisa ngokuphumelelayo izici zokulandisa ziwenza ngcono kakhulu kunalezo ezithembele kuphela emaqinisweni omile.

Amandla Omphumela Wesisulu Esingenakugwenywa

Izazi zezomnotho nezazi zokusebenza kwengqondo ziye zabhala "imiphumela engenakungatshazwa" amashumi eminyaka. Abantu bathambekele kakhulu ekuthatheleni umuntu ongashadile, ophawuliwe kunasemqulwini wezibalo ongaziwa. Isicelo esisekelwe endabeni yomkhaya othile othintekayo singabangela uzwela olungaphezulu nesenzo kunohlu lwezibalo ezichaza usizi olusakazeke kabanzi. Lokhu akulona iphutha ekucabangeni komuntu; kuyisici esibonisa indlela esixhumana ngayo ngokomzwelo. Isehlakalo esidala sibhunga phakathi kwegebe phakathi kwezwe elinethezekile nolwendaba ephuthumayo. Uma uhlanganisa ukulandisa okushukumisayo ngemininingwane ecacile, uhlanganisa kokubili inhliziyo nengqondo.

Ukwakha Uzwela Nokuphuthuma

Uma umfundi exhumanisa nokuhlangenwe nakho okukhethekile kwendaba − umzali olahlekelwa ukukwazi ukungenela ukunakekelwa kwabantwana, umnini webhizinisi omncane obhekene nomthetho ongafanele, isiguli uphika ukuphathwa ngokugxeka − sazi izigxobo. Izibalo zingazisa, kodwa izindaba zikhuthaza. Zidala umuzwa wokuphuthuma okungaveli kuwo amaqiniso kuphela. Ngokubeka ubuso negama kulendaba, wenza kube nzima ngabasekeli ukuba bangayinaki izindleko zomuntu.

Ukwanda Kokukhumbula Nokuhlanganyela

Abantu bakhumbula izindaba esikhathini eside ngemva kokukhohlwa amapesenti nezinsuku. Ukulandisa okunamandla kuyinto ewusizo kakhulu. Uma umsekeli efunda ubufakazi obushukumisayo, bathambekele kakhulu ekuhlanganyeleni isicelo ngenethiwekhi yabo siqu, bachaze { ibalulekile. Leligama elinombala we-oth-moth liyigugu. Isicelo esigcwele amaphuzu ezinhlamvu kanye nenhlamvu ye-garbon singathola iscan esheshayo, kodwa isicelo ngenhliziyo yomuntu sihlangane, sixoxiswe, futhi sithathele.

Ukunikeza Ubufakazi Obuyiqiniso Bomphakathi

Kulenkathi yokungaqiniseki ngezinhlangano nangegunya, ubufakazi bomuntu siqu bunesilinganiso esikhulu. Izimpawu zokuthi lena impikiswano ethinta abantu bangempela, hhayi nje imbangela engabonakali eshonelwe inhlangano ekude. Bakha ithemba. Lapho abasayini bebona ukuthi abanye baye baqhubekela phambili ukuze bahlanganyele ukungenwa kwabo, kunciphisa isithiyo ukuze bajoyine kulenhlangano.

" izinqolobane ziyizikhali ezinamandla kakhulu enqolobaneni yomholi. — UDkt. Howard Gardner, isazi sokukhula.[[FL:3]

Ukuze ungene nzulu kakhulu kuyisayensi yezinzwa engemva kokuthonya ukulandisa, funda lesihloko seHarvard Business Review nge kungenxa yesizathu esenza ubuchopho bakho buthande ukulandisa indaba enhle.

Lapho Ungathola Khona Izindaba Eziyiqiniso Nezivivinyo

Ukuthola izindaba ezilungile kudinga ukuqashelwa futhi usebenzise inhlonipho, nokwazi ukubhekana nenhlekelele. Umphakathi wakini uyikhokha elikhulu kunawo wonke. Qala kubantu asebethembisene umshado kakade, kodwa ungesabi ukwandisa ukuphenya kwakho.

Hlanganyela Nomphakathi Wakho Wama - coral

Uhlu lwakho lwe-imeyili, abalandeli bezokuxhumana, nezisebenzi zokuzithandela zamanje ziyisiqalo esikhulu. Thumela isicelo esiqondile, esibonisayo ucele ukuba bahlanganyele okuhlangenwe nakho kwabo. Yisho ngokuqondile ngalokho ofunayo. Esikhundleni "sabelana indaba yakho," zama: "Ungumzali oye wazama ukuthola ukunakekelwa kwabantwana okungafinyeleleki edolobheni lakithi? Sifuna ukuzwa ukuthi le nkinga ilithinte kanjani ikhono lomkhaya wakho lokusebenza nokuchuma." Ukucaciswa kunciphisa umthwalo wokuhlakanipha komlandisi wendaba futhi kuveza imiphumela eqondile.

Umngane Nezinhlangano Eziyizisebenzi

Ukungatholi nzuzo noma amaqembu omphakathi asebenza kulendaba ngokuvamile anemithombo ejulile yokuthembana nezindaba ezisuzishilo kakade. Ukubambisana nawo kungaqinisekisa ukuthembeka nokujula kwesicelo sakho. Bangakusiza futhi ukuba usebenzise izihloko ezibucayi futhi uqinisekise ukuthi ufinyelela izigijimi zezindaba ezingokokuziphatha. Ubuhlobo obuhleliwe bungasiza futhi ekukhuliseni isicelo sokugcina ezinhlanganweni zabo.

Hlola Izirekhodi Zomphakathi Nezinqolobane Zezindaba

Kuzo zonke izimpikiswano, amacala, ubufakazi bukahulumeni, noma imibiko yezindaba yendawo iqukethe ukulandisa komphakathi okunamandla. Ungacaphuna lokhu ngokunikeza okufanele. Ingcaphuno evela enkantolo noma indaba yendawo yomuntu othintelwe yilendaba inganezela ulwelwesi oluqinile lwesiqinisekiso somuntu siqu. Ngaso sonke isikhathi qinisekisa umthombo wokuqala kanye nomongo ngaphambi kokusebenzisa ukwaziswa komphakathi.

Hlakulela Ukuzithoba Okuqaphile Ngokunakekela

Uma ubhekene nendaba ehilela ukulimala, ukulahlekelwa, noma ukucwaswa, unesibopho sokuvikela ababali bezindaba zakho.

Indlela Yokuqoqa Izifundo Zokuhlola Ngejubane

Indlela oqongelela ngayo indaba ithonya kakhulu amandla ayo nokuba yiqiniso kwayo.

Imibuzo Evulekile Yobuciko

Kugweme ukubuza imibuzo, kodwa kunalokho, sebenzisa lokho okushukumisa ukuzindla kanye nemininingwane. Nazi izibonelo eziningana eziphumelelayo:

  • “Ungachaza yini isikhathi esithile lapho le ndaba yathinta khona ukuphila kwakho kwansuku zonke?
  • “Yini into othanda ukuba izwe libe namandla, na?”
  • “Uthemba lini na? Naphezu kwale nselele na?”
  • “Lokhu okuhlangenwe nakho kuyishintshile kanjani indlela enibona ngayo izwe na?”

Lemibuzo ibangela ukuba ulandisa indaba ahambe phambili, embula imininingwane okungenzeka awukaze ucabange ukuyibuza.

Ukuxoxa Ngenhlonipho

Uma uqhuba ingxoxo ephilayo (umakhalekhukhwini, ividiyo, noma umuntu), qala ngokwakha ubuhlobo. Chaza ngokucacile inqubo. Bakhumbuze futhi ungavala noma yimuphi umbuzo noma ume nganoma isiphi isikhathi. Lalela ngaphezu kokuba ukhuluma. Vumela ukuthula; ngokuvamile kushukumisela abantu ukuba bahlanganyele ukuqonda okujulile. Uma ulandisi wendaba ekhuluma ngokuphambana ngokomzwelo ukhuluma ngomuzwa wokuthi “amandla," ungabuza, "Yini eyaba yindlela yokungaqondi kahle?" Lemininingwane ecacile yenza indaba icace futhi iqondakale.

Ukuthola Ukuvunyelwa Okufanele

Lokhu akunakwenzeka. Ngaphambi kokuba usakaze noma iyiphi indaba, kumelwe ube nemvume ecacile, oyazi kahle. Lokhu kusho ukuchaza ngokunembile ukuthi indaba izosetshenziswa kanjani futhi kuphi, umbhalo wesicelo, imithombo yezokuxhumana, cindezela ukhiphe, njalonjalo. Thola imvume ecacile yokusebenzisa igama labo, isithombe, namagama aqondile. Uma umthengisi angase abhekane nokungasheshi (umzk., iziqondiso zokubukeza ezisekelwe kumphakathi ezisekelwe kumthetho [FL:] i-comnm], noma isikhonzi esigxeka inhlangano), sinikeze imvume yegama ne-ethonsim. nikeza indlela yokuba babukeze umshini wokugcina inqubo ngaphambi kokunyatheliswa. Lokhu kukuvikela ngokomthetho futhi kwakhe ukwethemba okujulileyo. Uma uhlela iziqondiso ezicubukisiwe kulokhu, iziqondiso ezingokomphakathi ezinjenge-''''''[FLT]

Ukukhetha Isokudla

Nakuba ubufakazi obubhaliwe bungaba namandla, ividiyo emfushane noma isiqophi somsindo ngokuvamile iveza umzwelo nobuqiniso ngokuphumelelayo. Uma usebenzisa ividiyo, yigcine ingaphansi kwemizuzwana engu-90. Ngaso sonke isikhathi nikeza i-screen egcwele ukuze ungenise u-explor, phenya kahle injini, futhi unikeze abasekeli abakhetha ukuyifunda. Ukusondela okuhlukahlukene. / faka isitini sevidiyo futhi unikeze i-transclip ngezansi.

Ukuhlelela Ukuqonda Nezwi

Uma nje unezitayela eziluhlaza, zihlele ngokucophelela. Susa ama-tangent kanye nokuphindaphinda ama-prace, kodwa gcina izwi lokuqala lendaba nengaphakathi elingokomzwelo lingaphazamisekile. Ungafaki amagama emlonyeni wabo noma ushintshe incazelo yolwazi lwabo. Uma ingcaphuno ayinembile ngokohlelo kodwa idlulisela iqiniso elinamandla ezwini lesikhulumi, yigcine. Ukuqiniseka kunamandla kunolimi oluphelele. Uma ungaqiniseki, hlola uhlelo ngomlandisi wendaba kuqala.

Ukusekela Isicelo Sakho Somphumela Ophakeme

Lapho ubeka khona indaba yakho indaba njengaleyo yendaba ngokwayo. Ukulandisa okubekwe kahle kusebenza njengekhothamo eliqinile laso sonke isicelo, kuqondisa umfundi ekuxhumaneni ngokomzwelo ekuvumelaneni okunengqondo ukuba aqondise isinyathelo.

Umthofu Onendaba

Ukuvulwa kwesicelo sakho yindawo yendabuko yezwe ephambili. Kunokuba kuqalwe nge "Thina, isakhiwo esisayinwe..." noma isishwankathelo esomile senkinga, siqala nge-vignette ephoqelelayo. Isigaba esisodwa, esinamandla esazisa umuntu oyinhloko noma umphakathi othintekayo sithatha ngokushesha ukunaka. Kunikeza abafundi isizathu esingokomzwelo sokukhathalela ngaphambi kokuba ubacele ukuba bavumelane nenkinga ethile. Isibonelo: [FLT: 0]" I-MARIA ivuka ngo- 4:30 KUMSONTOLA ukuze bathathe amabhasi amabili ukuze bathathe umsebenzi wakhe njengempilo yasekhaya. Ube nesizathu sokukhushukuma eminyakeni emithathu. Ngenyanga edlule, waphinde waqasha.[FLD:1] [FLD] [FLD]

Ibhuloho Lisuka Kokuhlangenwe Nakho Komuntu Liya Enkingeni Yesimiso Somzimba

Ngemva kwesithiyo esingokomzwelo, sishintshela ezimpikiswaneni ezinengqondo. Sebenzisa ukwaziswa, izenzakalo zomthetho, nemibono engochwepheshe ukubonisa ukuthi indaba kaMaria ayisona isenzakalo esingavamile kodwa ingxenye yokwehluleka kwesimiso okusakazeke kabanzi. Yilapho usungula khona "isizathu" esibangela isidingo. Bonisa isikali senkinga uma ugcina ubuso bukaMaria busengqondweni yomfundi. Lenhlanganisela ye-patos nezimpawu inamandla kakhulu futhi kunzima ukuyilahla. Indaba ingu-"INKAQONDISO" kodwa ukwaziswa yi-"ubufakazi." Udinga ukuba womabili abenzi besinqumo.

Sebenzisa Izici Eziwubufakazi Obusekelayo

Kuyo yonke indikimba yesicelo, faka izingcaphuno ezimfushane, ezinamandla ukuze uqinise amaphuzu aqondile. Umusho obekwe kahle othathwe ebufakazini ungasebenza njengesiphetho esiphelele sempikiswano enengqondo. Sebenzisa izigqebhezana ezifingqiwe ukuze ubeke lezi zizathu ngokuhlukanisayo. Lezimpawu kumfundi ukuthi zihlangana nendaba yokuqala. Siqinise ukuthi umusho onamandla kakhulu ngaphakathi komcaphulo ukuze uqondise iso lomfundi.

Ukuphela Ngokuphinde Ubizwe Ukuba Athathe Isinyathelo

Buyela emuva esigabeni somuntu esiphethweni sakho. Qikelela abafundi ukuthi abantu bangempela abanamagama angokoqobo, ubuso, nemikhaya bayazibala ngomphumela. Lokhu kuqinisa izigxobo njengoba benza isinqumo sokugcina sokusayina noma ukuhlanganyela. Ucingo lokuthatha isinyathelo kufanele luzizwe njengokunwetshwa okungokwemvelo kwendaba. Isibonelo: " Maria akumelwe akhethe phakathi kokukhokha nokunakekela iziguli zakhe. Sayina lesisicelo namuhla ukuze sifune iholo elifanele lezisebenzi zethu eziyinhloko zempilo yasekhaya."

Imikhuba Emihle Kakhulu Yokubhala Nokubonisa Izindaba Zomuntu Siqu

Indlela obeka ngayo indaba ekhasini ithinta amandla ayo nokufundwa kwayo.

Ifomethi Yokuhlolwa

Abantu bafunda ngokushesha kuyi-inthanethi. Kumelwe uhloniphe isikhathi sabo nobude besikhathi. Sebenzisa izigaba ezimfushane (imisho engu-2-4). Sebenzisa umbhalo oyisidala [ ukuqokomisa umugqa obaluleke kakhulu kubufakazi. Sebenzisa imigqa efingqiwe ukuze unqamule umbhalo omde. Udonga lombhalo, noma ukhazimula kangakanani, uzokhishwa. Indaba ehlelwe kahle izofundwa.

Hlonipha Isithunzi Somlandisi

Lona umthetho obaluleke kakhulu kulo lonke lolu hlelo. Ungaxhaphazi usizi ngenxa yethonya elingokomzwelo. Yisho ngenhlonipho indaba, ugxile emandleni omuntu, ekubekeni amandla, ukuqina, nenhlangano, hhayi nje ukuhlupheka kwakhe. Ukwakha ubuhlobo nabaxoxeli bakho, ungabusebenzisi njengezinto zokukukhuthaza emkhankasweni wakho. Gwema "izithombe ezingcolile zobulili ezingcolile" noma ukulandisa okukhubaza abantu.

Ukulinganisela Okungokomzwelo Nangempela Kuyakhanga

Nakuba indaba inamandla, akuvamile ukuba kwanele ukuthonya umenzi wezimiso noma umniki oqaphile.

Gcina Izwi Liyiqiniso

Melana nesifiso sokufaka i-project. Uma besebenzisa igama elithile lendawo noma isifaniso esiyingqayizivele, bagcina. Lemininingwane yenza indaba izizwe iyiqiniso futhi inamandla kakhulu. Hlela ukuze ucace futhi ulinganise uhlelo lolimi ukuze uqinisekise ukuthi ikhona, kodwa ulondoloze izwi eliyingqayizivele le-techthesi. Uma besebenzisa igama elithile lendawo noma isifaniso esiyingqayizivele, yenza ukuba indaba izwakale iyiqiniso.

Izihibe Ezivamile Okumelwe Zigwenywe

Ukwazi lezi zihibe kuyokusiza ukuba ulondoloze ukwethemba, ubuqotho nokuphumelela, ngisho noma unezinhloso ezinhle, kulula ukwenza amaphutha lapho uhlanganisa izindaba zomuntu siqu.

  • Ukudlula i-Reader ngezindaba Eziningi kakhulu: Okungaphezulu akungcono ngaso sonke isikhathi. Izindaba eziningi ezinemininingwane zingaba ezithuntulisayo futhi zithambisa umyalezo wonke. Indaba eyodwa noma ezimbili ezithuthuke kakhulu, ezithinta umuntu ngamunye ngokuvamile ziphumelela kakhulu kuneshumi nambili leshumi elinesihlanu lesithathu, elivamile. Khetha izindaba ezimelela kahle kakhulu impikiswano eyisisekelo futhi zikhulise amazwi ayingqayizivele.
  • Ukuqondisa i-Core Ask: Indaba kumele ifeze umgomo wesicelo. Ithuluzi lokuthonya, hhayi ukuphela kwayo ngokwayo. Qiniseka ukulandisa konke ngokuqondile noma ngokungaqondile ngandlela-thile ngalesinyathelo ofuna umfundi asithathe, ukuxhumana nommeleli, noma ukuhlanganyela umkhankaso. Uma indaba ingalisebenzisi icebo, inqume.
  • Indaba engasekelwe ekufakeni idata: Indaba engenakho ukusekela izingozi zokukhishwa njengeyodwa, yokungahloniphi okungokomzwelo. Ukwaziswa okungenandaba kunganakwa njengezinto ezingabonakali futhi okungenangqondo. Kufanele ube nakho kokubili. Lendaba inikeza "isizathu," futhi ukwaziswa kunikeza "isizathu manje" kanye "isizathu esibaluleke kubo bonke abantu""
  • Ukuzimisela Ukulandela I-Prosetelliers: Uma umsekeli ethatha isinyathelo esilula sokuhlanganyela nawe indaba yabo, bafaka imali emkhankasweni wakho. Ungaphumi ngemva kokunyathelisa isicelo. Bafukula ngentuthuko, bahlanganyele ithonya indaba yabo, futhi bameme ukuba bahlanganyele ezigabeni ezilandelayo zomkhankaso. Lokhu kwakha ukwethembeka nemali ejulile yomphakathi.
  • Ungeneko: Uma usebenzisa ubufakazi bevidiyo, njalo zihlanganisa izihloko ezihlotshiswe ngokulinganayo ne-transcription. Qinisekisa ukuthi ubufakazi bakho obulotshiwe bunemibala ephezulu engafani nesizinda futhi busebenzisa ubungakanani bombhalo obufundekayo. Ukwenemba akuyona ingxenye engemva kokucabanga; kuyingxenye engundoqo yomkhankaso wobulungisa nophumelela. Izihloko ezisebenzayo zokulandisa izindaba eziphelele, hlola imithombo ye-Statuatic Colition proning [[FLT:]

Isiphetho: Ukuvumela Amazwi Angempela Ahole Indlela

Ukunikeza ubufakazi obuqanjiwe nezindaba zomuntu siqu akulona nje isu lokuthuthukisa ukusayinwa; kuyingxenye eyinhloko yokwakha umzabalazo oqotho nongaguquguquki. Kugxilisa yona kanye izicelo kubantu ukuba basize futhi basekele wonke umkhankaso ngokuhlangenwe nakho okungokoqobo. Ngokuwucosha ngokucophelela, ngokuqoqa, nangokukunikeza ngokuhloniphekayo lokhu kulandisa, wenza incwadi engesona nje isisusa esinamandla kodwa ejulile.

Uma abenzi besinqumo bebona ubuso, bezwa igama, futhi beqonda isigxobo somuntu siqu, isignesha esicelweni sishintsha ukusuka ekubeni i-Procect ibe yisenzo esinamandla sobunye. Imininingwane itshela izwe ukuthi kunenkinga enkulu. Izindaba ziphoqelela izwe ukuba likhathale. Amazwi alabo abathinteke ngokuqondile akhanyise indlela. Bayimpahla yakho engcono kakhulu, ikhampasi yakho yokuziphatha, nesizathu somkhankaso wakho.