Izakhamuzi eziningi zinomuzwa ojulile wokukhathazeka ngokuqondisa komphakathi wazo noma izwe. Zibona izinkinga zokwenza kube nzima ukuthonya izikole, ukuwohloka kwendawo ezungezile, ukungalingani kwezenhlalo, futhi zizwa ithonya lokuthatha isinyathelo. Nokho, igebe phakathi kokunakekela impikiswano nokwazi ukuthi zingayisingatha kanjani ngokuphumelelayo. Ibhuloho elinamandla kakhulu. Inqubo yamabomu yokuthonya inqubo yomphakathi kanye nokuhlela izinto ezikhona phakathi kwezezombangazwe, ezomnotho, nezenhlalo. Nakuba kungase kubonakale njengendawo yabashicili bemishini nababhikishi bemishi bemali, isakhampanezelela isakhampasi sotshane, isahlala sinamandla amakhulu futhi sikhona amandla okushintsha ide embusweni yentando yeningi. Lesiqondiso sinikeza ukuthutha okuwusizo, ukuthutha ngezindlela ezisebenzayo, ukuthutha ekufezeni izinhlelo zakho, ukuqinisekisa izindaba zakho, lapho uqaphela izindaba zakho.

Yazi Imbangela Yakho

Isisekelo sanoma yimuphi umzamo ophumelelayo wokuzibophezela okucaciswe kahle nokugxiliswe ngokujulile. Lokhu akukona nje ukuthatha isihloko esiyinhloko emaphephandabeni; kungokokwazi impikiswano ethinta izindinganiso zakho ezingundoqo nokuhlangenwe nakho kwakho. Uma i-divocacy yakho isekelwe ekukhandleni okuqotho, kukusekela ekuphazamiseni nasekuthuthukeni okuthatha kancane okuphawula umsebenzi wenqubo.

Ukusuka Ekukhathazekeni Kuya Ekuzibophezeleni

Abanye bafunda ukuthi iziphi izindaba ezikucasulayo, ezibangela ukudabuka, noma ukukhungatheka. Izindaba ezisephephandabeni lendawo zikwenza uqaphele ngokugcwele. Yini ekwenza uhlale uhleli ebusuku? Abanye, liyizinga lemfundo etholwa yizingane zabo. Abanye, kungenxa yokuntula indlu efinyelelekayo noma usongo lwendawo ehlongozwayo egcwele indawo eseduze komakhelwane. Lokhu kuhlobana okungokomzwelo yikhampasi yakho. Uma uke wathola izindawo ezimbalwa ezibanzi, cabanga ngomlando wakho siqu. Ingabe wena noma othile omthandayo uthonywe ngokuqondile yile mpikiswano? Izindaba zomuntu siqu zinamandla amakhulu angathi sína. Basebenzisa izibalo eziyinkimbinkimbi futhi bashukumisa abenzi bezomthetho ngendlela okungaqondakali okungeke kwenzeke ngayo.

Ukungagxili Kakhulu Entweni Engaba Nethonya Elikhulu

Abasekeli abasha abavamile bazama ukusingatha inkinga ebanzi kakhulu. "Ukuqeda ubumpofu" noma "ukuyeka indawo ezungezile" kuyimigomo emihle, kodwa mikhulu kakhulu ukuba ingasetshenziswa isakhamuzi esisodwa noma iqembu elincane. Abasekeli abaphumelelayo bafunda ukuchaza inxenye eqondile, engakwazi ukumelana nenkinga enkulu. Ngokwesibonelo, esikhundleni "sokulungisa isimiso semfundo," bagxila "ekwethezeleni kakhulu ngemva kwezinhlelo zesikole esigodini sakho" lesisisekelo esincane senza umgomo wakho uphumelele futhi uphumelele. Kukuvumela ukuba ucwaninge futhi wakhe umfelandawo ethile ekhonkolo.

Ukushintsha Amakhono Nengcebo Yakho

Ukuzihlolela okuqotho kuyithuluzi eliwusizo. Imaphi amakhono ayingqayizivele owaletha etafuleni? Ungumlobi onekhono, isikhulumi somphakathi esinekhono, umhloli wemininingwane, noma umhleli womphakathi? Uyakwazi yini ukungena kulwembu lwezisebenzi, uhlelo oluvumelanayo, noma imithombo yokuxhasa imali? Ukudweba izinto zakho ngokumelene nezidingo zembangela oyikhethile kukusiza ukuba ubone indima engcono kakhulu ongayidlala. Uma ungumcwaningi othulile, unganikela ngokubhala amaphepha amhlophe. Uma ungumxhumanisi wezenhlalakahle, ungaphumelela ekwakheni iqembu le-vockication. Ukuqonda inzuzo yakho kuqinisekisa ukuthi uyasebenza futhi kunciphisa ingozi yokutubeka ukutubeka.

Zifundise Ngendaba Nesimiso

Impatho injini yokuzilawula, kodwa ulwazi luyipetroli. Abasekeli abaphumelelayo bachitha isikhathi esiphawulekayo ekubeni ochwepheshe beqiniso emfunweni wabo. Lokhu kudlulela ngalé kokufunda izihloko ezimbalwa zezindaba. Kuhilela ukuhlaziywa okujulile kwenkinga, izimbangela zayo eziyinhloko, amakhambi ahlongozwayo, kanye nesimo esithile sezombangazwe lapho kwenziwa khona izinqumo.

Ukuqonda Inqubo Yokwenza Isinqumo

Ngaphambi kokuba uthonye isinqumo, kumelwe wazi ukuthi ubani osenzayo. Ingabe indaba inqunyiwe ebhodini lesikole sendawo, umkhandlu wedolobha, isishaya-mthetho, noma inhlangano kahulumeni? Ngazinye zalezi zindikimba zisebenza ngaphansi kwemithetho ehlukene, izintambo zesikhathi, namaphuzu okucindezela. Layisha ungenise uhlelo lwenhlangano yendikimba ehlangeneyo. Funda imizuzu yabo kanye nohlelo lokuhlela. Funda amagama abameleli bakho abakhethiwe nezabelo zabo zekomiti. Ukuqonda indima yabasizi abayinhloko, ovame ukuphakamisa kakhulu. Lokhu "ukuqondisa" ukuqondisa izincwadi zakho, ukushayela, ukushayela, nokuhambela imishini ebanzi. Isibonelo, ushintsho kwesimiso sombuso kungadinga ukuqondisa ukuqondisa ikomiti ethile ye-athopopries. [FLD] [FL][0]

Ukuqonda Izinkinga Nemininingwane

Udinga ukukwazi ukwenza indaba ephoqelelayo. Lokhu kudinga ukuqoqa ukwaziswa okuvela emithonjeni enegunya. Bheka imibiko yontanga, imibiko kahulumeni (njengeHhovisi Lokulandisa likahulumeni), kanye namaphepha amhlophe avela kubantu abanolwazi olungenalukholo. Ukuqonda okukhulu kwezibalo eziyinhloko .Amanani athintekile, inani labantu, amazinga empumelelo amakhambi ahlongozwayo . Okubaluleke kakhulu, kukuvumela ukuba ulwe nokwaziswa okunganembile ngokuphumelelayo. Nokho, ulwazi lulodwa lungawanqobi usuku. Kumelwe ufunde ukuhlanganisa la maqiniso ngendaba. Indaba ngendlela ehlobene nezingamanani omenzi wesinqumo nomphakathi. Ishadithayela nokwaziswa kungakunikeza amandla kakhulu, kodwa okuzizungezile kungenza amathuluzi.

Ukufunda Kukuphikiswa Nakubo

Ukwazi izinhlangano nabantu abangase bamelane nemizamo yakho. Yiziphi izimpikiswano zabo eziyinhloko? Ukuqonda isikhundla sabo kukuvumela ukuba ulungiselele ukumelana nokuhlasela okuphumelelayo. Okubaluleke ngokufanayo ukuthola abangane bakho. Ubani omunye osebenza kulendaba? Kungase kusungulwe izinzuzo, amaqembu emfundo, amaqembu emfundo, noma abaholi bezama ukuhlanganisa imigomo yakho. Ukufinyelela kulamaqembu kukuvumela ukuba ugweme ukuzama ukuphindaphindeka, usebenzise ukucwaninga okukhona kanye nemifelano, futhi wakhe izivumelwano ezinamandla kakhulu. Izwi elihlangene lingasekukhulu kakhulu.

Hlanganyela Nomphakathi Wakini

Ukuzitika kuyinto engokwemvelo engokwenhlalo. Nakuba isenzo somuntu ngamunye sibalulekile, isenzo somphakathi sinamandla okususa isisekelo samandla adonsela phansi kunoma iyiphi inkinga. Ukuhlanganyela nomphakathi wakho kwakha inzuzo yezombangazwe edingekayo ukuze kushintshwe. Kuguqula ukukhathazeka komuntu siqu kube umthetho womphakathi.

Ukwakha Nokuhlanganyela Ezindabeni Zokuthengiselana

Inhlangano egxile ekuxhaseni isikole mayelana nenhlangano yothisha bendawo, inyunyana yothisha, iqembu lezebhizinisi elikhathalela ukuthuthuka kwemisebenzi, kanye nenhlangano esekelwe ekuhleleni izenhlalo. Lenhlangano yokholo inamandla ngoba yenza kube nzima ngabenzi bemithetho ukulahla lendaba njengenzuzo encane "ekhethekile". Ukuhlangana kwesivumelwano sesikole esikhona kuyindlela esheshayo yokwenza impumelelo. Uletha amandla akho namakhono eqenjini eselenzile kakade ekuhleleni isisekelo sezenhlalakahle. [FL: 0] Umphakathi we-National of Notlivective [Foctive:1] unikeza icebo elingcono kakhulu lokuqondisa indlela ephumelelayo yokusebenza.

Ukubonisa Ukulalela

Ukuhlanganyela akukona nje ukuxoxa; kuwukulalela. Ukuba khona njalo emihlanganweni yehholo ledolobha, izikhawu zomkhandlu wedolobha, nemihlangano yesikole kuyindlela enamandla yokuqondisa. Kuwuphawu lokukhetha izikhulu ukuba zibukele umphakathi. Uma ukhuluma kule mihlangano, yisho ngokufingqiwe, inhlonipho, futhi ungazihloniphi. Ukuphendula kwasobala kuyithuba lakho lokuveza ubuso nendaba kulendaba. Lokhu kubalulekile futhi kulandelana nokulalela kanye. Hamba umnyango-mnyango oya endaweni ohlala kuyo, unganikezi inkulumo elungiselelweyo, kodwa ukubuza abantu ukuthi bacabangani ngalendaba. Ukulalela kwakha ithemba futhi kwembula lokho okushiwoyo ngomphakathi. Lokhu kubalulekile ekucwebiseni isigijimi sakho.

Imiphakathi Ehamba Ngemishini

Ama-operatein angamathuluzi abalulekile asetshenziswayo namuhla ekusebenziseni ulwazi olusemthethweni. Amaqembu e-Facebook, i-Priterdoodoo, kanye nama-comput asekelwe ku-mqoka avumela ukuxhumana okusheshayo nokuhlelwa. La mapulatifomu angcono kakhulu ekuhlanganyeleni ulwazi, ukuhlela izenzakalo, nokuqoqa abasekeli ukuba bameme ucingo olusheshayo. Nokho, ukubhalisa i-injini kuphumelela kakhulu uma ihlangene nesenzo sokusebenza ngaphandle kolayini. Isicelo se-inthanethiwe izinkulungwane zikhona, kodwa sinamandla kakhulu uma izithunywa zalezo ziveza ukuthi zithunyelwe ngokushesha. Sebenzisa amathuluzi omshini wobuchwepheshe ukuze kudlulise ukuhlanganisa isibopho sangempela sekhaya, hhayi esikhundleni saso.

Ukuxabana Nokungavumelani

Umphakathi ophilile uhlukene. Iqembu lezemfundo eliphumelelayo liveza ukuhlukahluka komphakathi eliwufunayo. Lokhu kusho ukufinyelela ngenkuthalo kubantu bezizinda ezihlukene, ubudala, kanye nokuthonya kwezombangazwe abahlanganyela umgomo othile. Ngokungenakungatshazwa, kuyoba nokungavumelani phakathi kweqembu ngezindlela, ukuthumelelana imiyalezo, noma amasu. Ukumisa imithetho eyisisekelo yengxoxo ephumelelayo. Ukugxila emgomweni ohlanganyelwayo futhi uphathe ukungavumelani njengamathuba okuqinisa icebo, hhayi njengezingxabano zomuntu siqu. Iqembu elinokwehlukana elikwazi ukumelana ngokunelisayo liyakwazi ukumelana nokuphumelela kakhulu neqembu elingaphansi kokucindezela.

Thatha Isinyathelo Esihlelekile Nesiqinisiwe

Ukuqamba, imfundo, nokuhlangana komphakathi kuyisici esilungiselelayo. Isinyathelo silapho ukuqamba uzungu kuba yinto engokoqobo. Isenzo esisebenzayo asiyona into ezenzakalelayo, iwusizo, futhi isekelwe. Kuwumkhankaso, hhayi isenzakalo esisodwa. Zonke izenzo kufanele zikhethwe ngoba zikwenza usondele emgomweni wakho oqondile, ongaba yimpumelelo.

Ubuciko Bokudlala Ngokuqondile

I-Lobbing", ixoxisana ngokuqondile nesikhulu esikhethiwe noma izisebenzi zazo, ingumthetho oyisisekelo nezindlela ezibalulekile. Umhlangano owenzelwe ukudlulisa izimfaduko. Lungisa indlela ecacile, efingqiwe "buza" ulethe iphepha elilodwa lekhasi. Siphathele ngendaba yomuntu siqu. Zihloniphe ngesikhathi sazo futhi ulalele umbono wazo. Uma bevuma ukukusekela, babuze ngokuqondile ukuthi bazokwenza kanjani (iphepha lomgunyazo, ikhokhiso ngayiphi indlela, inzuzo ethile, ibone izimali). Uma bengavumelani noma bengahambisani, bambonge ngesikhathi sabo futhi banikeze ukwaziswa kwakho. Landela ngokuphawula ukuthi uphindaphinda isihluthulelo sakho.

Ukubhala Izincwadi Nezincwadi Eziphumelelayo

Ukuxhumana okulotshiwe kuhlala kuyingxenye eyinhloko yokubhalisa. Lapho ubhalela ummeleli, imithetho embalwa eyinhloko iyasebenza. Okokuqala, zichaze njenge-atmark. Okwesibili, zichaze ngokunembile ngendaba nangesenzo ofuna ukuba uthathe (umz., "Uyebo eHouse Bill 1234"). Okwesithathu, ukwenza umyalezo ube nomyalezo ngendaba yakho siqu noma umbono. Izinhlamvu azisebenzi kakhulu kune-imeyili ekhethekile. Yigcineni ikhasi elilodwa noma ngaphansi. Gqoka entweni eyodwa. Nakuba i-mediatorism ilula, i-imeyili noma incwadi ebhalwe ngesandla ithwala ubukhulu obukhulu obukhulu kakhulu ngeposi yezomthetho oyayayamukelayo. [FFL:0]

Ukuqeda Isiyaluyalu Semithombo Yezindaba Nezinhlabamkhosi Zomphakathi

Umthetho womphakathi uhlela indlela yokucabanga. Ukwenza umphakathi uqonde umbono womphakathi ngemithombo yezindaba kuyisu elinamandla elingaqondile lokulawula izigebengu. Ukubhalela umhleli (ITLE) wephephandaba lendawo yakini kungumthetho ophakeme, owehlisayo. Bafundwa kabanzi ngabenzi bezimiso. Op-dif ivumela ukunyukela kakhulu. Ukwakha ubuhlobo nentatheli emboza isibhamu sakho ("ukusibekela) isango) kungaholela ezindabeni ezifundisa umphakathi futhi zifake ukucindezela kwabenzi bezomthetho. Imikhankampane yezelelwa yezokuxhumana esebenzisa ama-hathtag ingaphakamisa futhi ukuqapha, kodwa iqaphele amagumbi okugeleza. Umgomo we-mephuzi we-voccopy ufinyelela kububanzi, i-octixvicism.

Ukuhlela Izenzakalo Nesenzo Esiqondile

Izenzakalo ezifana nemihlangano yemikhosi, ihholo ledolobha (limenywe nguwe), izibani zekhandlela, noma ukumasha okunokuthula kufeza izinjongo eziningi. Banika abasekeli, bakhange ukunaka kwemithombo yezindaba, futhi babonise ukusekela okukhulu kwesizathu sakho sokuba abahleli bezimiso. Ukuhlela isenzakalo okuphumelelayo kudinga ukuhlela ngokucophelela: ukuvikela imvume, ukuhlela izikhulumi, ukuqinisekisa ukuphepha, nokuqondisa amakhandlela. Isenzo esiqondile, njengokuhlala ngaphakathi noma umfana oshisekayo, icebo elingcono kakhulu elisetshenziselwa ukwenza ukuphazamiseka nokuphoqelela. Kufanele kuthathwe njengengxenye yecebo elikhulu kuphela uma eminye imikhondo iphele, futhi kudinga ukuqonda okucacile izingozi ezingokomthetho ezihilelekile.

Ukunikela Ngokuzithandela Nokunikeza Inkonzo Eqondile

Ngezinye izikhathi ukuqasha okunamandla kakhulu kubonisa lokho okungenzeka ngenkonzo eqondile. Uma usekela izinkonzo ezingcono kwabangenamakhaya, ukuvolontiya endaweni yokukhosela kukunika ulwazi olusemzileni kanye nokwethembeka. Kukuhlanganisa nabantu ozama ukukusiza futhi kukunikeze izindaba zokwehluleka nokuphumelela kwesimiso. Lokhu kuthuthukisa ubuqhawe bakho futhi kukuvimbela ekubekeni amakhambi azwakalayo enengqondo kodwa ahlulekayo ukuwenza.

Linganisa Intuthuko Yakho Uvimbele Ukutubeka

Ukuqapha ngokuvamile kuwumjaho webanga elide, hhayi ukuthatha umjikelezo. Ukushintsha kwenqubo kungathatha iminyaka, ngisho namashumi eminyaka. Kubalulekile ukuchaza ukuthi i"wing" ibukeka kanjani ezitejini ezihlukene futhi ijwayeze ukukwazi ukusekela ijubane lakho ukuze wena neqembu lakho ningahlala isikhathi eside.

Ukuchaza Nokugubha Uwino Olufushane

Uma umgomo wakho oyinhloko uwukudlulisela umthetho wezwe, ukuwina okufushane kungaba ukwenza iphephandaba lendawo ukuba linyathelise i-op, likholise ummisi-mthetho oyinhloko ukuba axhase le mithetho, noma anqobe ukuvota kwekomiti. Ukugubha le zenzakalo ezithatha iqophelo kugcina ukuziphatha okuhle. Kufakazela abasekeli bakho ukuthi amandla abo aveza imiphumela. Gcina "umdlali wesitokhwe" kuzo zonke izinyathelo ezincane ozithathileyo. Leli ikhambi elinamandla lokudambisa ukuduma okufika lapho uwina kakhulu kubonakala kukude.

Ukuthuthukisa Umzamo Osekelayo

Isizathu esivame kakhulu sokuhluleka kwemizamo yokuzibamba ukukhathala. Abantu banikeza konke abanakho ngokuphelelwa amandla bese bencipha. Imikhankaso ephumelelayo izithatha ngokwayo. Idala ikhalenda elinezikhathi zokusebenza okukhulu (njengesimiso sokuhlela) kanye nezikhathi zomsebenzi ophansi (njengokuphumula nokwehlisa). Qeqesha abaholi abasha ukuba bahlanganyele umthwalo. Yakha isiko elihloniphekayo. Iqembu labantu abangu-20 abanikeza umuntu ngamunye amahora amabili ngesonto linamandla kakhulu futhi lisekela abantu abazonika amahora amahlanu ahamba ngenyanga.

Ukushintsha Icebo Lakho

Njalo hlelani isikhathi sokubuyela emuva nibuze ukuthi, “Ikhona yini esikwenzayo? ” Ingabe sihlangana nabantu abalungile? Ingabe isigijimi sethu siyaphika? Ingabe simelana ngokuphumelelayo nokuphikiswa? Sithembekile ngalokho okungasebenzi futhi okuzimisele ukujika. Indlela ehlulekayo ukuveza imiphumela ayikona ukuhluleka ngokokuziphatha; yithuba lokufunda. Ukuzimisela ukujwayela kuyimfanelo engcono yokuphumelela yokulwa nenhlangano yomsebenzi elwela amalungelo omphakathi ekusebenzelani.

Ukunqoba Izithiyo Ezivamile Zokungalawuleki

Wonke umsekeli ubhekene nezithiyo. Ukuzilindele lezi zinselele nokuzihlela kuyisihluthulelo sokuzimela. Nakhu okunye kwezithiyo namasu avame kakhulu okuzinqoba.

Ukubhekana Nokunganaki Nokungabi Namandla

Umuzwa wokuthi "akukho lutho oluyoke lushintshe" mhlawumbe iyisithiyo esikhulu. Lomuzwa uhlaziywa ngamabomu yilabo abazuzayo esimweni esikhona. Ikhambi elingcono kakhulu lokunganaki lisenzo. Ukuhlela iqembu lomakhelwane ukuba lithathe udoti emgwaqweni onganakiwe. Ukunqoba okuncane, okuqinile njengokuthola uphawu olusha lokuyeka olufakiwe. Ukubonisa ukuthi ushintsho lungenzeka nganoma yiliphi izinga kuvuselelwa umuzwa wenhlangano. Ukukhumbuza iqembu lakho ukuthi yonke izinhlangano zobulungisa ezinkulu emlandweni zaqala ngeqembu elincane labantu abenqaba ukukholelwa ukuthi lolu shintsho alunakwenzeka.

Ukulinganisela Imithombo Yengcebo Nesikhathi

Izakhamuzi eziningi azizona izishisekeli zesikhathi esigcwele. Zinemisebenzi, imikhaya, neminye imithwalo yemfanelo. Lokhu kunqanda kuyinto engokoqobo, kodwa kungaba usizo. Abantu abanesikhathi esilinganiselwe bathambekele ekugxileni nasekusebenziseni kangcono kunalabo abanesikhathi sokuchitha. Sebenzisa isikhathi esilinganiselwe. "Nginemizuzu engu-15. Ngingabhala i-imeyili eyodwa futhi ngihlanganyele i-posi eyodwa yezembuyiselo zezembubhiso. Ukuhlangana ngokuqondile nenkomfa yezisebenzi noma ukubhalela i-op kunebuya elingcono kakhulu kunehora lokuhlela umqulu ngezingxoxo ze-inthaneti. Liverage imithombo yakho inayo. "Nginayo imizuzu engu-15. Ngingabhala i-email eyodwa futhi ngihlanganyela i-temfost yomhlangano, i-pluetal ye-panel-panernernern ekwazi ukukhalela ingcebo yakho.

Ukubhekana Nokuphikiswa Nokugxekwa

Uma uzama ukushintsha isimo, uzobhekana nokuphikiswa. Lokhu kungathatha uhlobo lokugxeka umphakathi, ukuhlasela komuntu siqu, noma ukuhlasela kwezombangazwe. Ukulungiselela kwakho isigaba "sokuzifundisa" yisihlangu sakho lapha. Namathela emaqinisweni nasendabeni yakho. Ungazichathiseli wena siqu, gcina ugxile kulendaba. Uma ukuphikiswa kululaza isimo sakho, kusilungise ngokuzolile nangokucacile. Khumbula ukuthi ukuphikiswa kuvame kusho ukuthi uyasebenza. Uma ungenalo usongo, bebengeke bachithe amandla abo ekuphikisa.

Izwi Lakho LinguMklamo Wokushintsha

Izakhamuzi akuwona umdlalo oyisibukeli. Umsebenzi osebenzayo, oqhubekayo wentando yeningi. Izinyathelo ezibekwe kulesi siqondiso `ukuveza imbangela yakho, ukuzifundisa, ukuthatha isinyathelo somphakathi wakho, ukuthatha isinyathelo sokuthatha isinyathelo, nokusekela umzamo wakho wokulungisa ibalazwe eliqinile lokulungisa umehluko obonakalayo. Akudingeki ube umsekeli wezombangazwe, umnikeli ocebile, noma umkhulumeli wesisho esinethonya elinamandla ukuze ube ummeleli ophumelelayo. Udinga nje isibindi sokunakekela, isijeziso sokuthatha isinyathelo sokusebenza kanye nabanye. Amandla okulungisa umphakathi wakho nezwe lakho awekho ezandleni zezindlu ezikude, kodwa kudinga izwi elihleliwe. Qala omunye umuntu.