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Isisekelo Sokuhlanganyela Ngokwentando Yeningi

Isivumelwano somthetho sidala itshe eliyikhomba noma isiphi isikhulumi esinempilo. Uma izakhamuzi zingena emphakathini zingena emahholo agcwele, esikhungweni somphakathi, noma ibhodi lezingxoxo ze-mitapo(izenza okungaphezu kokukhuluma nje). Zibumba izimiso, izilinganiso, futhi zakhe ukuhlakanipha okuhlanganisayo okuqondisa izinqumo zendawo nezobuzwe. Nokho abantu abaningi bayanqikaza ukuphakamisa amazwi abo, bengaqiniseki ngenqubo noma besaba ukuxabana. Ukuqonda indlela yokulungisa, ukuxhumana, nokuhamba kulezindawo kuguqula ukunqikaza, kube nokuhlanganyela okuphumelelayo.

Imibono yomphakathi ayiyona nje inqubo eqanjiwe, lapho abaholi abakhethiwe bezwa khona izimpawu zabantu abangomakhelwane babo, nalapho abantu abavamile bengabangela khona ushintsho olungavamile. Lesiqondiso esengeziwe sihamba kuzo zonke izigaba zokuveza umbono wakho ezindabeni zomphakathi, phela kusuka ekuqondeni izinhlobo ze-orum ezikhona ukuze kufundwe ubuciko bokuthonya inkulumo nobuchwepheshe banamuhla ukuze bufinyelele kakhulu.

Okwenza Izwi Lakho Libaluleke Ekuphileni Ngobunye

Ikhono lokuthonya ukwenza izinqumo alilona ilungelo eligcinelwe abavukeli noma abezombangazwe. Kukaso sonke isakhamuzi. Uma ukhuluma emphakathini, ufeza izinhloso eziningana ezibucayi:

  • [ Ithonya lobuProthelist - Izikhulu zivame ukulungisa iziphakamiso ezisekelwe ekuqondiseni ngokuqondile okuvela emalungwini omphakathi.
  • Ukuzwa uRaising – Indaba eyodwa yomuntu ingalungisa futhi umagazini futhi ihlanganise ukusekela okubanzi.
  • [[[QT:0] Ukwakha okuhlangene – ukuxoxa ngokuhlanganyela kukhuthaza ukwethembana nokuxazulula izinkinga eziningi.
  • ukuboshelwa kwemali [ - Ubufakazi bomphakathi bugcina abaholi benecala ngezithembiso nangezenzo zabo.
“ Umbuso wobudenda awuwona umdlalo wesibukeli. Kudinga izakhamuzi ukuba ziveze, zikhulume, futhi zihlale zinolwazi.” — Marian Wright Edelman

Ngaphandle kokuhlanganyela ngokuzikhandla, izimiso zingakhetha amazwi aphakeme kakhulu noma ahleleke kakhulu kunokuba azuzise. Ngokuhlanganyela, uqinisekisa ukuthi leyo miqondo ehlukene − kuhlanganise eyakho − guqula izinqumo ezithinta indawo ohlala kuyo, umkhaya wakho, nekusasa lakho.

Ukuqonda Indawo Ebukekayo: Izinhlobo Zemibukiso Yomphakathi

Akuyona yonke imidanti eyakheka elinganayo, futhi indlela ngayinye inikeza izinzuzo nezinselele ezihlukile. Ukwazi indawo kukusiza ukuba ukhethe indawo efanele yokwaziswa nendlela ozoyisebenzisa ngayo.

Imihlangano YamaHholo Omuzi

Lena imibuthano engokwesiko engokwesiko lapho izikhulu ezikhethiwe noma abameleli benhlangano benikeza khona izimemezelo futhi bathathe imibuzo phansi. Amahholo edolobha anikeza amandla okubuka amehlo ngokuqondile nokushaya iphimbo, awenza afanelekele ubufakazi obungokomzwelo noma obuphakeme kakhulu. Nokho, angasabisa abakhuluma kuqala noma abakhulumisa kakhulu.

Izikhungo Zomsebenzi Zomphakathi Namaqembu Afuna Ukugxilisa Ingqondo

Izingxoxo ezincinci nezithatha kalula, lezi ziqephu zivumela ukuxoxa kakhulu. Zivame ukuhlanganisa amaqembu ahlukene, ukubhekana nemisebenzi, nokuxazulula izinkinga ezihambisanayo. Ababambi-mphikisi bangakha ubuhlobo nabenzi besinqumo kanye nezakhamuzi ezikanye nabo. Ukudayisa akubonakali kahle − iziphetho zakho zingafinyeleli izilaleli eziningi.

Ukuqulwa Kwecala Komphakathi

Imicimbi ehlobene nezenzo ezithile zomthetho noma zokulawula. Abashicileli babhalisa kusengaphambili, banamathela emingceleni eqinile yesikhathi, futhi bangase babhekane nemibuzo evela ebhodini. Izindaba zomphakathi zinezinga elingokomthetho; amarekhodi aba ingxenye yerekhodi elingokomthetho. Bafuna ukulungiselela kahle nephimbo elizolile nelinegunya.

Izingxoxo Zase - Internet Nezindawo Ezingokoqobo ZamaHholo Edolobha

Ama-operate andisa ngendlela ephawulekayo. Ama-platform anjengezingosi zedolobha elinikezelwe, i-Septdoo, noma ngisho ama-parecter azimele avumela ukuthatha inxaxheba okungaguquguquki. Amahholo asemadolobheni asuka eSoftware noma eMicrosoft Asusa izithiyo zendawo. Lezizindawo zitholakala kulabo abanezinselele zokuhamba noma abangakwazi ukunyakaza kodwa zidinga ukunakekela ngokucophelela ezimisweni zobuchwepheshe neziphazamiso zesizinda.

Imizamo Yokusakaza Imithombo Yezindaba

Amaqoqo e-Facebook, i-twitter - metal, i-Istagram menu, ne-Tik Tok yamavidiyo angandisa isigijimi ngokushesha. Imithombo yezindaba yezenhlala-khaya ingcono kakhulu ekwakheni ijubane futhi ifinyelele inani labantu abasebasha. Nokho, kungaba yindawo futhi ebangela ukuqanjwa kwezindaba ezingalungile nokuhlaselwa. Ukusetshenziswa ngendlela engcono kudinga ukuthunyelwa kwemiyalezo ecacile nesikhumba esiqinile.

Ukulungiselela Isigijimi Sakho: Cwaninga, Nilalele Futhi Nibhale

Ukuya emphakathini ungazilungiselele kunjengokunikeza inkulumo ungayazi indaba.

Cwaninga Lempikiswano Ngokuphelele

  • Funda ngokugcwele inqubo noma umthetho ohlongozwayo.
  • Hlola ukusakazwa kwezindaba zendawo, imibiko kahulumeni, kanye nocwaningo oluzimele.
  • Ukuqonda umlando: Yaphakama kanjani le ndaba?
  • Butha imininingwane − izibalo, ucwaningo lwezezimali, noma ukuhlola kwezezimali kwemiphakathi elinganayo.

Yazi Izilaleli Zakho

  • Ingabe ukhuluma nomeya, ibhodi lesikole, ikhomishane yezokwakha, noma umkhandlu wedolobha?
  • Ulimi lwakho lungase ludida izilaleli ezivamile, kuyilapho ukunganaki ngokweqile kungakwenza ubonakale ungenalwazi phambi kweqembu lochwepheshe.
  • Kungase kudingeke unikele izivumelwano noma wakhe imifelandawonye.

Ukulungisa Impikiswano Yakho

Umyalezo onamandla unezingxenye ezintathu: inkinga ecacile, ikhambi elishukumisayo, kanye nokuhlobana komuntu siqu. Sebenzisa isithi “Intoni, Manje Iyini”. Chaza ukuthi iyini impikiswano, kungani ibalulekile emphakathini, nokuthi siyini isenzo ositusayo. Qokelela indaba ethile noma isibonelo esiguqula imininingwane.

“ Izinombolo zixhwalekile, kodwa izindaba ziyanamathela. Uma uhlanganyela indlela isimiso esithinta ngayo ukudla kwasesikoleni kwengane yakho noma indlu kamakhelwane wakho, wenza ikhonkthi elingabonakali.” — I-communications Profector Antand Giridhadadas

Izinyathelo Zokukhulumisana Eziphumelelayo Ze - podium Yokukhuluma

Ngisho nocwaningo olungcono kakhulu alunikezi khono lokunikeza, kodwa lusebenzise kahle ukuze kuqashelwe futhi kuhlonishwe.

Vula nge - hook

Imizuzwana yakho yokuqala engu-10 inquma ukuthi izilaleli zilalele noma ziphume. Qala ngeqiniso elishaqisayo, umbuzo ongathathi mpendulo, noma umfanekiso ocacile. Ungaqali ngo- “Igama lami ...” bese uchitha isikhathi ngama-openthing. Ziveze, sho igxobo lakho kulendaba, bese uthinta iphuzu eliyinhloko ngokushesha.

Kugcine Kuhlangene

Ama-foum amaningi alinganisela isikhathi esiqinile", avame ukuba nemizuzu emibili kuya kwemithathu. Hlonipha lokho. Sika igama ngalinye elingadingekile. Sebenzisa imisho emifushane. Namathela empikiswaneni eyodwa eyinhloko esekelwe ebufakazini obubodwa noma obubili.

Sebenzisa Izinhlobonhlobo Zomsindo Nolimi Lomzimba

  • Ukukhuluma okunyakazisayo kubangela izilaleli ukuba zilahlekelwe yinkulumo.
  • Ake ume ngemva kwamazwi abalulekile ukuze ubavumele bangene ngaphakathi.
  • Uma ukhona ekhaleni, bheka ikhamera.
  • Gwema ukunyakazisa izingalo, ukuwela izingalo, noma ukushayana ngamaphepha.

Hlala Uzolile Futhi Unenhlonipho Lapho Ubhekene Nomlilo

Ukulindela ukungavumelani. Abaphikisi bangase baphazamise, bangawabuza izisusa zakho, noma bawashaye indiva amaqiniso akho. Ungalithathi iphuzu. Yamukela iphuzu labo kafushane, bese ubuyela emuva empikiswaneni yakho. Isibonelo: “Ngiyaqonda ukuthi abanye benu bakhathazekile ngezindleko. Ngingakubonisa ukuthi imali egcinwe isikhathi eside ibaluleke kangakanani kunemali egciniwe.” Ukulondoloza ukuzola kukwenza uthembeke ngisho nakulabo abangavumelani.

Ukunqoba Izithiyo Ezivamile Zokuhlanganyela

Ukuqaphela lezi zithiyo kuyisinyathelo sokuqala sokuziqeda.

Ukwesaba Ukukhuluma Emphakathini

Glossophobia (ukwesaba ukukhuluma) kuthinta abantu abangaba amaphesenti angu-75. Ukulwa nakho:

  • [ prakthiza ngokuphindaphindiwe[ - Ukwema phambi kwesibuko, uqophe, noma ukhona kumngane.
  • [[UMTL:0] Ngena eqenjini [ - Izinhlangano ezinjengeziphathi ze-Toast zinikeza indawo esekelayo ukuze wakhe ukuzethemba.
  • Sebenzisa amanothi ngokuhlakanipha - Amakhadi ombhalo onezinhlamvu angcono kunokufunda umbhalo ophelele.
  • frame shack – chaza izivemvane njengenjabulo, hhayi ukwesaba. Umzimba wakho ulungiselela ukusebenza.

Ukungaqapheli

Izakhamuzi eziningi azizi ukuthi ama - forum aqala nini noma kuphi.

  • Zibophelele edolobheni lakho noma emapheshanani e - email.
  • Landela ukulandisa kwezenhlala - kahle kwezezindaba zikahulumeni wendawo.
  • Hlola amabhodi okwaziswa komphakathi emitatsheni nasezikhungweni zokuzilibazisa.
  • Inethiwekhi ekusebenzelaneni nomphakathi noma amaqembu akhuthaza ukuxhaphaza.

Izihloko Ezitholakalayo

Isithiyo esingokomzimba, solimi, noma sezobuchwepheshe singahlukanisa amaqembu ancishisiwe. Amakhambi ahlanganisa ukucela ukuchazwa kolimi lwezandla, ukusekela izindawo ezizosetshenziswa ngesihlalo sabakhubazekile nokuphikelela ngezinto ezihunyushwe. Uma kungenzeka, zimisele ukusiza abanye ukuba banqobe le migoqo.

Isikhathi Esinzima

Abazali abasebenzayo, izisebenzi ezisebenza ngeshifu, nabanakekeli ngokuvamile abanakuya emihlanganweni yasemini noma yakusihlwa.

Ubuchwepheshe Obungantengantengi Obungasiza Ekuhlanganyeleni Ngokujule

Amathuluzi emishini andisa izinga lokuhlanganyela komphakathi futhi nansi indlela yokuwasebenzisa ngokuhlakanipha.

Iqhinga Lezokuxhumana

  • Khetha indawo-mqoka eyodwa noma ezimbili lapho izilaleli zakho ozihlosile zisebenza khona. Ingxoxo yezimiso idlalwa kakhulu; amaqembu eFacebook achumayo ngenxa yimpikiswano yendawo.
  • Sebenzisa isikhala esithinta umphakathi wakini (isib. #DoromeBridget, #SchoolSafety).
  • Hlanganisani izincwadi ezingokomthetho noma izihloko zezindaba ukuze nisekele lokho enikushoyo.
  • Ukuphendula ngenhlonipho kungazuza abantu abaguqukile.

Ukunxusa Nokuthandwa Kwezixuku Nge - Internet

I-Platforms enjengoGuqulo.org ikuvumela ukuba uhlanganise izignesha ngokushesha. Nakuba izicelo zodwa zingayishintshi indlela yokusebenza yomphakathi, zibonisa umzwelo womphakathi futhi zingacindezela izikhulu ukuba zihlele ukuqulwa kwecala noma ziphinde zithathe izinqumo.

Ukubhala Ngezwi Elide

I-body ehlolwa kahle engosini yezindaba yendawo noma esiteji esisesitejini sakho ingafinyelela izilaleli ezizinikezele. Yisebenzise ukuze ungene jule kakhulu kunokuba ukhulumisa isikhathi esivunyiwe. Hlanganisa izixhumanisi emithonjeni, izinto ezibonayo, kanye nezimemo ezibonwayo. Izingxenye ezithi zibhalwe kulezo zigqebhezana ziyazinciphisa zona ngokwazo.

AmaHholo Edolobha Asendaweni Efanele

Omasipala abaningi manje bagoqela imihlangano futhi bamukele imibuzo ngengxoxo. Hlanganisa ngenkuthalo: bhala umbuzo wakho ngokucacile, gwema ukuphindaphinda, futhi “njenga” imibuzo yabanye ukuze baphawule ukusekela. Uma ungenisa ihholo lakho eliyikho lomuzi, sebenzisa amathuluzi afana ne-Flammentout ukuze ufanise ingxoxo yeqembu elincane.

Ukulinganisa Ithonya Lakho Nokulandela

Ukukhuluma kuyingxenye nje yezibalo. Ukuze wenze ushintsho oluhlala njalo, kumelwe ulandele imiphumela futhi uqinise amandla.

Bhala Yonke Into

Qopha umhlangano (uma uvunyelwe) noma bhala amaphuzu anemininingwane. Qaphela ukuthi obani abakhulumela futhi baphikisa, yimiphi imibuzo eyaphakanyiswa, nanoma yiziphi izibopho ezenziwa izikhulu.

Phishekela Abaenzi Besinqumo

Thumela i-imeyili noma incwadi ehloniphekile ibonga indawo yohlu ngesikhathi sazo futhi uphinde ubhale amaphuzu akho ayinhloko. Hlanganisa amaxhumela ekusekeleni ukucwaninga. Zicelele ukukhonza eqenjini lomsebenzi noma unikeze ukwaziswa okwengeziwe. Umuntu siqu ulandela ngokwenza izakhamuzi ezishisekayo ngokuhlukanisa abavukeli abahamba ngemoto.

Imibono Yama - computer Emisha

Izwi elilodwa lingashaywa indiva; iqembu labahlabeleli alikwazi. Hlanganisa nabanye abazakho. Yakha iqembu elisebenzayo, hlela imihlangano yasikhathi sonke, futhi uhlukanise imisebenzi: ukucwaninga, ukudlulisa, ukusakaza, imithombo yezindaba, nokuhlanganisa. Ukuhlanganisa ithonya lakho kwandisa ithonya.

Amasu Athuthukile: Ukuhluzeka Kwengqondo, Ubuciko, Nokusabela Okungokomzwelo

Njengoba udlulela ngalé kweziyisisekelo, usebenzisa amasu asendulo angenaluzwela ukuze uthonye ngisho nezilaleli ezingabaza.

Ethos, Pathos, Logos

  • Isikhombo[ – Ukumisa ukwethenjelwa. Xonda isizinda sezifundo zakho zobuchwepheshe, okuhlangenwe nakho, noma izibopho zomphakathi.
  • [[UMTL:0] Pathos – Amandla omzwelo. Sebenzisa ulimi olucacile nezindaba zomuntu siqu, kodwa gwema ukuxhaphaza.
  • Logos- - Isicelo sokuqonda. Patha izimbangela ezicacile kanye nomphumela okusekelwe ngemininingwane.

Ukulindela Izimpikiswano

Ngaphambi kokuba ukhulume, bhala izimpikiswano ezinamandla kakhulu zesikhundla sakho. Ceba ukuphikisa ipaki ngalinye. Ngokwesibonelo, uma usekela ipaki esikhundleni sendawo yokupaka imoto, lindela izimpikiswano ngokulahlekelwa kwemali nemithombo yamanje exhasayo. Ukukhuluma ngokuphikisa kubonisa ukucophelela nenhlonipho.

Sebenzisa Amandla Kathathu

Abantu bakhumbula othathu. Ukuhlela indlela okhuluma ngayo ngamaphuzu amathathu ayinhloko. Ngokwesibonelo: “Lelicebo aliphumeleli ekulondekeni, ekulinganiseni, nasekukhokheleni imali.” Izibonelo ezintathu zizizwa zibanzi kodwa zingenakukhungathekisa.

Izibonelo Zezwe Langempela Zokuhlanganyela Okuphumelelayo

Ukufunda ezindabeni zempumelelo kukhuthaza futhi kuyafundisa.

  • [ Izimoto zobugqila zizolile: Iqembu labazali ePortland, e-Oregon, laba khona emihlanganweni yemikhandlu yedolobha izinyanga eziyisithupha, benikeza ukwaziswa ngesivinini nangezinga lengozi. Ngobufakazi obuphikelelayo nokwakha izakhiwo ezihlangeneyo, bafaka imali emalini ngenxa yamagagasi nezimoto ezinqamulene.
  • Ukushintsha kwe-Curricuum: Umfundi wasesikoleni esiphakeme eTexas walungiselela inkulumo enemizuzu emithathu ehambisana nobufakazi obunikeza ubufakazi obungalingani nobesizwe ngempilo yengqondo. Ukubukeka kwakhe ngenhlonipho kodwa enomdla phambi kwebhodi yesikole kwaholela ekuthatheni uhlelo olusha lwe-menu.
  • Isenzo sobuzwe: Uthisha othathe umhlalaphansi eMichigan wasebenzisa i-foum yedolobha lakhe ukuposa imibuzo yamasonto onke ephathelene ne-PFAS engcolisekayo. Ukuba khona kwakhe kwemishini ye-mini engaguquki kwaphoqelela idolobha ukuba likhiphe imiphumela futhi ekugcineni lifake izimiso zoku-filtration.

Imithombo Yangaphandle Yokufunda Ngokujule

Ukuthembisana ngesithembiso kungukuhlakanipha okungalolwa, uhlole lezinhlangano nabaqondisi abadumileyo:

Isiphetho: Umphumela Owumshayabhuqe Wezwi Lakho

Umphakathi wonke ungaba nethuba lokulawula isimiso sokulunga, ukusebenza kahle, noma uzwela. Umbono wakho, usekelwe ngokucwaninga nangokucacisa, ungaguqula izingqondo, izinto eziza kuqala, futhi ushukumisele abanye ukuba bahlanganyele engxoxweni. Umsebenzi awulula. Kudinga ukulungiselela, isibindi, nokuzimela. Kodwa okunye kuwukuthula, futhi kushiyela abanye izinqumo.

Qalisa ingcosana. Khetha umagazini owodwa owukhathalelayo. Thola umphakathi olandelayo ophethe ngalesosihloko. Lungisa isigijimi sakho. Lungiselela. Lawula. Phofu futhi. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, izwi lakho elilodwa liba ingxenye yeqembu elikhulayo eligcina ukubusa ngentando yeningi kunesibopho sokufeza izinhloso zalo eziphakeme.

Umphakathi wakho awudingi nje kuphela ukuvota kwakho, kodwa izwi lakho.