Ukutyelela indawo yokuhlala yasebukhosini okanye ukuya kumsitho obandakanya amava obomi obubom. Noko ke, ivela ngomaleko wesithethe nomthetho onokuthi uzive ungoyiki. Ukuqonda isimilo kunye nemithetho enxulumene nezi ziganeko akungokuba nomthetho onzima onxulumene nezi ziganeko, kukubonakalisa intlonelo yelifa elineenkulungwane nabantu abaneziqu zelifa. Ukuba uyahamba kwibhotwe, ukuya kwiqela lomyezo, okanye ukudibana nokumkani ekwisikhundla sobuchule, esi sikhokelo sinika ulwazi olubalulekileyo ukuze uhambele phambili ngezo zihlandlo ngobubele nangentembelo.

Ukuqonda Iqela: Iziqu Nentlobo Ezifanelekileyo Zedilesi

Isiseko sesimilo sobukumkani sixhomekeke ekuyazini indlela yokuthetha namalungu olawulo lookumkani. Le mithetho iyahluka-hluka kuxhomekeka kwisibizo nelizwe, kodwa imigaqo ethile ikwimimandla ephakathi kweMikhosi Yasebukhosini kunye nemikhosi emininzi yaseYurophu.

UMongami: UKumkani okanye UKumkanikazi

Xa uthetha nomlawuli olawulayo, sebenzisa i- “Mongameli” kwintlanganiso yokuqala nasemva koko njenge-“MA’M” (evakaliswe ukuba athelele ukumkanikazi okanye u-“Nkosi” kukumkani. Xa uzisa abanye, yithi, “Mphathi, ndingazise [gama]." Ebhala, oonobumba baqala ngo-“Mongameli" kwaye baphela ngo-“Ndinembeko yokuhlala, uSomandla oyena mntu uthobekileyo nothobelayo.” Ukuthetha, kuphephe ukusebenzisa u-“Mphathi wakho”; kuqhelekile ukutshintshela ku-“ Ma’am" okanye “Nkosikazi emva kwentetho yokuqala.

Amanye Amalungu Obukumkani Amalungu Eentsapho: IPrinces, UKumkanikazi, IDukes, NoDu caches

Amalungu entsapho yasebukhosini (umz., iNkosana yaseWales, iDuke yaseCambridge) ibizwa ngokuba “Ubukumkani Bakho” ekuqaleni, ngoko njengo-“Nkosi” okanye“Mayam.” Ukuba umntu uphethe i-demom ekhethekileyo (umz., iNkosana yase-Sussex" iyamkeleka, nangona“ iRoyal" ihlala ingumgangatho waloo kumkani Yakho ephezulu". Kuwo kumkani wasemzini, khangela amasiko asekuhlaleni.[1] Inkosi yaseYurophu isebenzisa “Inyukrwelelo Lwakho" okanye“ i-Serene-asterne" ngeGreaster' ” xa kuthandabuzeka, ukusondela okukhuselekileyo kukusebenzisa “ubukumkani bakho kunye nomkhosi wakho ophezulu" nokukhokela.

IGama leSihloko neNtlalo-ntle

Asinguye wonke umntu onesihloko esisebenzayo. Marquesses, iindlebe, ii-vanots, kunye neebhari zibizwa ngokuba “Nkosi [isiHloko] kunye nabafazi babo besithi“ Intloko.” Iinkwenkwezi kunye namadama zibizwa ngegama lawo lokuqala elingaphambi kwe “Nkosi” okanye“ Dame. Kubalulekile ukusebenzisa “ukumkani” kwabo bangeyonxalenye yentsapho yasebukhosini; inkosi engeyoyakumkani ngu“ Yakho Grace,” hayi “Ubukumkani bakho Obuphezulu."

Ikhowudi yokunxiba efunekayo kubandakanyeko lobukumkani

Isinxibo esifanelekileyo yenye yezona ndlela zibonakalayo ukubonisa intlonelo. Iziganeko zasebukhosini zisoloko zinemithetho yokunxiba ecacileyo, kwaye ukunamathela kuyo akunakusetyenziswa. Isitshixo kukunxibeka kakuhle, ukuthomalalisa, kunye nesithethe `ukunganxibi nxitywa ngokungaqhelekanga ngaphandle kokuba isimemo sichaza ngokucacileyo.

Iintambo Ezimhlophe Neemvuthuluka Zangokuhlwa

Isidlo sesidlo selizwe kunye nezomsitho sibiza iqhina elimhlophe (amadoda: ijazi yeseyile, ijazi elimhlophe, ihempe elinamaphiko, iqhina elimhlophe lomphambili; amabhinqa: ingubo yobusuku obude, ngokufuthi ngeglaves). Le yeyona mithetho yendlela yokunxiba esesikweni kwaye ayifane ifuneke ngaphandle kwimicimbi yezobuzwe okanye yemithendeleko. Abafazi kufuneka baphephe amagxa ngaphandle kokuba ingubo emhlophe ibandakanya uthandelo okanye isongwe; iigloves ziyanxwa zize zisuswe kwaye zisuswe ekudleni.

Isinxibo Sasekuseni Nendlela Eqhelekileyo Yokunxiba

Ngeziganeko zasemini ezifana neTroophing the Color, Royal Ascot, okanye amatheko egadi, isinxibo sakusasa siqhelekile kumadoda: ibhanti yemisila (okanye inqwelo yokubopha), ibhulukhwe enemicu, ingubo ephezulu (ukwamkeleka kwezinye iziganeko). Abafazi banxiba iimpahla zosuku ngeminqwazi okanye ii-fashoni, ngokufuthi ngemisonto. Ihemline kufuneka ihambe okanye ihambe ngaphantsi kwedolo. Izigqubu ziyafuneka kumabhinqa emini emini; ukuzisusa akuyo akuyo ngaphandle komhobe wesizwe okanye kwindawo yokunqula.

Imicimbi yeshishini neMihla

Kukugagana okungephi okusemthethweni .ukutyelela kobukhosi kwintlanganiso yoncedo, yolwamkelo, okanye yentlanganiso yeshishini, `a suti yamadoda nempahla entle okanye isuti ye-troser yamabhinqa ifanelekile. Iintambo zilindelekile ngaphandle kokuba kuchazwe ngenye indlela. Kuphephe iijean, abaqeqeshi, kunye negama eliqaqambileyo. Kwane "simemo esiqhelekileyo" izimemo ezibonisa ukuba ibhatyile nebhulukhwe eziciweyo; ungaze uthathe izithuthi okanye izihlangu ezivulekileyo zamkelekile.

Ukuqinisekisa ukuba ufikelela kumgangatho, jonga ukhokelo lwasemthethweni kwiwebhsayithi yendlu yasebukhosini. Kwiziganeko zeBritane, iRoyal Collection Trust inikela icebiso elineenkcukacha ngokunxiba iindwendwe zebhotwe namasiko.

Imibuliso Nobungqina Bokuqala: Iibhoti, Iibhunga, Nezandla

Isibuliso esiqhelekileyo somlawuli nonyuko lwasebukhosini sisaphetha (amadoda) okanye i-cestrate (abafazi). Noko ke, lo mthetho uphucukile kakhulu kumashumi eminyaka akutshanje, kwaye ukuxhawulana kuqhelekile ngoku, ingakumbi kwiimeko ezingezomthetho.

Ukuqubuda Okanye Ukungaqubudi

Amadoda aqhuba umphambili wentamo: utyekelo olufutshane lwentloko esuka entanyeni, lungagobeki luphelele. Magxathu athe nkqo namehlo ehla. Abafazi bagoba emva komnye, baguqa kancinane, bagcina umva uthe tye. Ubunzulu behempe abugwegwesi; ukuthoba okuncinane kwanele. Zombini ezi zenzo zisetyenziswa xa kudibana nokumkani, naxa kusuka.

Kuqheliselo lwangoku, ukuxhawulana okuqinileyo, okunesidima kwamkelekile ngokulinganayo, ingakumbi kwiindawo ezikuzo. Undoqo kukulinda ukumkani ukuba aphakamise isandla sakhe kuqala. Musa ukuqala ukuxhawulana. Ukudibana kwamehlo nokuncuma kufanelekile. Sebenzisa idilesi elungileyo (“Ukumkani wakho" okanye“Ubuphezulu Bakho Bokumkani”) xa uthetha kuqala, jikela ku-“Ma’am” okanye“ Nkosi.”

Incoko i-Etiquette

Ookumkani baqeqeshelwe ukukhulula iindwendwe, kodwa ufanele ugcine iindibano ezithile. Umntu wasebukhosini makakhokele incoko. Kuphephe ukubuza imibuzo yobuqu, ukuxubusha ngezopolitiko okanye unqulo, okanye ukuphakamisa imixholo ephikisayo. Zigcineni iimpendulo ezifutshane kodwa zidibene. Musani ukuyongeza incoko (ukuba ikumkani ibonakala ihamba, hleza. Kukwakho ububele ukuphepha ukucela izithethe okanye iifayile zobuqu ngaphandle kokuba umninimzibo. Lo mthetho ukhulule kwezinye iimeko, kodwa ngezihlandlo ezicwangcisiweyo, ungafumani mvume.

Ukuziphatha kwimicimbi yasebukhosini nakwiziganeko zikawonke-wonke

Xa utyelela amabhotwe, iinqaba okanye usiya kwimibhiyozo, ukuziphatha kwakho kubonakalisa wena nelizwe lakho.

Ebudeni Bohambo Neziganeko Zezindlu Ezivulekileyo

Musa ukuchukumisa ifanitshala, iimpahla, okanye izinto zokuhombisa ngaphandle kokuba uvunyelwe ngokuphandle. Hlala ngasemva kwentambo kunye nemiqobo. Ukufota kusoloko kuthintelwa ngaphakathi kumagumbi karhulumente ukwenzela ulondolozo nokhuseleko; soloko ukhangela okanye ubuze abasebenzi. kwiindawo apho ukufota kuvumelekile, kuphephe ukusebenzisa iflash okanye ii-rapy. Ifowuni ezithulelwneyo kwaye uthethe ngokufihlakeleyo. Ukuba udibana nelungu lentsapho yasebukhosini ngexesha lokhenketho, musa ukusondela kuzo ngol_ukusoloko zikhona ngesizathu sabucala.

Kwiziganeko ze-Ceremonial (Ukubopha, Ukuvula kweRhulumente, njl.njl)

Yima ngethuba lengoma yesizwe nangayiphi na imihobe yasebukhosini. Susa iminqwazi nemihombi. Musa ukuqhwaba umhobe ngaphandle kokuba abanye bewenza. Ngexesha lomboniso okanye lemijikelo, uhlale uhleli yaye unentlonelo. Ukuqhwaba kufanelekile kwimiboniso yasemkhosini okanye xa intsapho yasebukhosini idlula, kodwa lindani ukukhokela isihlwele. Kuphepheni ukukhwaza okanye ukuphakamisela iiflegi ngendlela ephazamisayo. Ukuba ningaba ningaba nindwendwe kwisikhululo sokubuka, nihlala phantsi ngaphandle kokuba iqela lasebukhosini limi.

Amatheko Asegadini Nabezonwabisayo

Kutheko lomyezo wasebukhosini, kunxibe ngendlela ecwangcisiweyo (isinxibo sakusasa okanye usuku ngeminqwazi). Xa ufika, unganikwa igosa elikwilayini yokwamkela. Intsimbi okanye umphambili njengoko uxelelwa. Emva koko, ukhululekile ukudibana nokunandipha izizobisi. Musa ukuya kukumkani ngaphandle kokuba umenywe. Ukuba ubona ilungu lentsapho yasebukhosini lihamba emaphandleni, ungalivuma ngenothi nje kancinci, kodwa ungaphazamisi. Kuyamkeleka ukusondela ukuba ubumenyiwe ukuba ubuye ukuthetha nazo, kodwa lilinde ukuba uzakukwazi ukuqhuba.

Ukufota nokukhuthaza uluntu

Imithetho ephathelele ukufota iyahluka. Kwiziganeko zikawonke-wonke, ukuthatha imifanekiso yokumkani kudla ngokuvunyelwa, kodwa musa ukusebenzisa umbane ngexesha leentetho okanye ixesha lobuntlola. Ungaze uthathe iifoto ngexesha lomnxeba wokwamkela okanye xa uziswa, ulindeleke ukuba unikele ingqalelo epheleleyo. Musa ukuthumela imifanekiso evala ubumfihlo okanye ebonisa ezinye iindwendwe ngaphandle kwemvume. Iintsapho ezininzi zasebukhosini zinikela imifanekiso esemthethweni; kusoloko kungcono ukusebenzisa ezo. Kumaziko eendaba, sebenzisa ulwimi olunentlonelo kwaye uphephe ukuvala intsapho yasebukhosini kwizithuba zobuqu ngaphandle kokuba isenzelwa nguwonke wonke yaye injalo.

Ukufumana Izipho Nezikhonkwane Zoxabiso

Ukunika ibhotwe isipho yinto elula. Izipho azilindelwanga kwaye zingalahlwa ukuba ziyangqubana nokhuseleko okanye umthetho. Ukuba unqwenela ukunikela isipho, sikwenze sincinane, sifanekisele, sifane nokubaluleka kwenkcubeko okanye kobuqu. Kuphephe nayiphi na into yezobupolitika, exabisa imali, okanye eyonakala. Iincwadi, imisebenzi yezandla, okanye iminikelo yobubele egalelwa egameni lokumkani ilungile. Xa unikela, sebenzisa zombini izandla uze unikele inkcazelo emfutshane. Ukumkani udlulisela eso sipho kwi-adi emva kokuba wamkelekile. Ungacatshukiswe ukuba ayivuleki phambi kwakho.

Kwiziganeko eziqhelekileyo, kufuneka kunikelwe izipho kunobhala wabucala. Ungaze unike umntu isipho ngexesha lomxeba wokwamkela. Kunjalo, yiya kwilungu lendlu ngaphambi okanye emva kwesiganeko.

Uguqu-guquko lwenkcubeko kwiiNdawo

Ngoxa intsapho yasebukhosini yaseBritani isaziwa kakhulu, imonarch eyahlukeneyo inezithethe ezahlukileyo. Ukuba utyelele ilizwe elinentsapho yasebukhosini (umz., iNetherlands, iSweden, iJapan, iThailand), uphando lwemithetho yasekuhlaleni.

Ukungavisisani Kwemali Enye NeYurophu

ENetherlands, umlawuli ubizwa ngokuba “ngukumkani wakho” kwaye ukuxhawulana kusezantsi; ukuxhawula nokubophelela intonga akufunwanga. ESweden, umphambili omfutshane usetyenziswa kodwa umthetho oqhelekileyo unqabile ngaphandle kwemibhiyozo yenkundla. EJapan, uMlawuli akakhe athethe ngqo; ulandela ulwalathiso lwegosa. EThailand, umlawuli uhlonelwa kakhulu `````````nawuthobekayo). Usoloko uqwalasela ukuziphatha kwabemi basekuhlaleni. Umthetho wendalo yonke: ungaze ubambe umlawuli, kwanakanye nokubulisa, ngaphandle kokuba baqala ukunxibelelana.

Eqhelekileyo

Amalungu aselula eentsapho zasebukhosini adla ngokuthabatha uthotho olungakumbi, kodwa ufanele uwenze impazamo kwisenzo sokugcina isithethe. Ukuba ubambana nawe enkosini ehamba-hamba, oko kulungile, kodwa musa ukuphuma kwisihlwele ukuze uqalise ukuxhawulana. Le migaqo inye iyasebenza: yiba nentlonelo, uncume, uze ugcine incoko ifutshane.

Iimpazamo Eziqhelekileyo Ofanele Uziphephe

  • [[UMTL:0] Ukuphatha i-rom. Kwanomthi okhanyayo kwingalo ungaqondwa njengoqheleke kakhulu. Ukugcina izandla zakho kuwe ngaphandle kokuba umenyiwe.
  • [[UMTL: 0] Ujiko lomqolo wakho. Xa uhambo lwasebukhosini ludlula, kuphephe ukujika umqolo wakho ngokupheleleyo, okanye ukulinda de badlule. Oku kubalulekile kwiziganeko apho ikumkani iqhubekeka khona.
  • Iziganeko zasebukhosini zikwimicimbi ehloniphekileyo. Gcina ilizwi lakho liphantsi kwaye uphephe nakuphi na ukuphazanyiswa.
  • [[FLT: 0] Ukususa izihloko ezingalunganga. Ukuba akuqinisekanga, buza u-adis ngobulumko okanye ngokungagqibekanga ku-“Ubuphezulu Bakho Bobukumkani.” Kungcono ukuba ube sesikweni kakhulu kunokuba uqheleke kakhulu.
  • [[FLT: 0] Ikhowudi yokunxiba ephiniweyo. Ukuba isimemo sithi "impahla yentyambo yexeko," awufiki kwisuti yeshishini. Ibonisa ukungahloneli isihlandlo.
  • uthatha iifoto ezingacetyiswanga. Kwimimiselo yabucala okanye engeyoyonto, ukufota kusoloko kwalelwe. Kwanaselubala, sukufota abantwana okanye abalindi ngaphandle kwemvume.

Isiphelo: Njengendlela yokubonisa Intlonelo

Isimilo sobukumkani singabonakala sibalulekile, kodwa entliziyweni yayo kukubonisa uxabiso ngesithethe, iquade, nabantu abawumelayo. Ngokulandela le mithetho, ubonisa ukuba uyasixabisa isihlandlo kunye nabantu odibana nabo. Iimpazamo azifane zidityaniswe ngokukhalimela esidlangalaleni . "Ookumkani baqeqeshelwe ukuba babe nobubele", kodwa ukwenza umsebenzi wakho wesikolo wasekhaya kuqinisekisa amava agudileyo, angenakulibaleka. Ukuba utyelele iBuckingham Palace, ukuya kumtshato wasebukhosini, okanye ukudibana nenkosana kwisiganeko sokunikela uncedo, mayikhokele imbeko nembeko yakho.

Ukuqhubeka ufunda, jonga imithombo enegunya enje i-webhsayithi yobukhosi yaseBritane esemthethweni yenkcubeko yenqanawa okanye Debrett isikhokelo sobukumkani kwisimilo [. Ukuqonda okungakumbi kungafumaneka ku [[FLT:] umhlaza wendlela yolawulo lobukumkani [[FLT]] [[FLT]] no Isikhokelo sobuKromK]. Ukuqonda le mithetho izakukunceda uqhube nayiphi nayiphi intlanganiso yokumkani ngentembelo kunye ne-poise.