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Amalungelo omphakathi akha isisekelo somphakathi olungile nolinganayo, nokho adinga ukuqapha njalo nokuhlanganyela ngenkuthalo kumalungu omphakathi wonke ukuze ahlale evikelekile futhi ephoqelelwe. Nakuba imithetho nezinhlangano zinikeza isisekelo salenkululeko eyisisekelo, ekugcineni kuwumthwalo wemfanelo wezakhamuzi ngabanye ukusekela, ukuvikela, nokuthuthukisa amalungelo ezakhamuzi ekuphileni kwazo kwansuku zonke. Ukuqonda indima yakho kulomzamo oqhubekayo akukona nje ukwazi amalungelo akho ngokuqaphela ukuthi izenzo zakho, izwi, nesibopho sakho kungadala kanjani ushintsho olunenjongo emphakathini wakho nangalé.
Isivikelo samalungelo omphakathi asiwona umzamo owenziwe ngaphandle ongase ushiyelwe kuphela kubenzi bomthetho, abashisekeli, noma ezinhlanganweni zokuphatha izikhungo. Wonke umuntu ozuza kulezi sivikelo futhi unomthwalo wemfanelo wokuqinisekisa ukuthi adlulisela kuwo wonke amalungu omphakathi, ikakhulukazi labo ababhekene nemingcele eqinile nobandlululo. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ungumuntu osenesikhathi eside ehlala khona noma omusha emphakathini wakini, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ubhekene nobandlululo noma uye waphila nelungelo, unendima ekhethekile nebalulekile yokufeza ekwakheni indawo ebanzi lapho wonke umuntu angachuma khona.
Ukuqonda Amalungelo Omphakathi: Isisekelo Sokulingana
Amalungelo omphakathi ayisisekelo angokomthetho nangokwenhlalo avikela abantu ekucwaseni nasekuqinisekiseni ukuphathwa ngokulinganayo ngaphansi komthetho, kungakhathaliseki izici zomuntu siqu njengohlanga, ibala, inkolo, ubulili, umsuka wesizwe, ubudala, ukukhubazeka, noma ezinye izigaba ezivikelwe. Lamalungelo aqinisekisa ukuthi wonke umuntu uyakwazi ukufinyelela amathuba afanayo, izinkonzo, kanye nesivikelo esiyisisekelo somphakathi wentando yeningi.
Umqondo wamalungelo omphakathi uhlanganisa isivikelo esikhulu esithinta cishe zonke izici zokuphila kwansuku zonke. Inkululeko yokukhuluma ivumela abantu ukuba baveze imibono yabo nezinkolelo ngaphandle kokwesaba ukuziphindiselela kukahulumeni. Ilungelo lokuvota liqinisekisa ukuthi zonke izakhamuzi ezifanelekayo zingahlanganyela enqubweni yentando yeningi futhi zizimisele ngendlela ezilawulwa ngayo. Ukutholakala kwemfundo, umsebenzi, indawo yokuhlala, nezindawo zomphakathi kusho ukuthi amathuba kufanele atholakale ngenxa yesidingo nesidingo somthetho noma izimpawu eziwubandlululo.
Isivikelo ekukhetheni sihlanganisa nokuvimbela izenzo ezicatshangelwe kakhulu zobandlululo. Ikhuluma futhi nangokungalingani okungase kufakwe ezimisweni, emikhubeni, nasezinhlanganweni. Ukuqonda amalungelo omphakathi kusho ukuqaphela kokubili izivikelo ezicacile eziqinisekiswe umthetho kanye nezindlela ezicashile zokungalingani okungabonakala kuzo emphakathini. Lokhu kuhlanganisa imiqondo yokuqonda enjengemiphumela ehlukanisayo, lapho izimiso ezibonakala zingalimaza ngokungenakuqhathaniswa amaqembu athile, nobuhlanga, lapho imikhuba yokungavumelani nomthetho ifaka khona ezikhungweni zenhlangano.
Umlando Wamalungelo Omphakathi
Amalungelo omphakathi esiwajabulela namuhla awumphumela wamakhulu amaningi eminyaka omzabalazo, ukuzidela, nokulawulwa abantu abaningi kanye nezinhlangano. Kusukela ekuqedweni kobugqila kumzabalazo wabesifazane, kusukela e-Civil Rights Movement of the 1960 kuya ekulweni okuqhubekayo kwe LGBTQ + ukulingana namalungelo okukhubazeka, isizukulwane ngasinye siye sakhela umsebenzi walabo abafika ngaphambili. Ukuqonda lomlando kusisiza ukuba siqaphele ukuthi sifike kangakanani futhi umsebenzi usadinga kangakanani.
I-Civil Rights Act ka-1964, iVoing Rights Act ka-1965, iSivumelo somthetho sango-1990, kanye noMthetho we-Fair House Act ka-1990 ophethe impumelelo yemithetho engokomthetho eyafaka iziqondiso eziningi ezithathwa kalula. Nokho, lemithetho ayivelanga ngokuzenzakalelayo , yabangelwa ukuhlelwa kwezinhlangano, izinyunyana zotshani, izinselele zomthetho, nesibindi sabantu abenqaba ukwamukela ukungalungi. Ukuqaphela lelifa kusikhumbuza ukuthi intuthuko yamalungelo omphakathi idinga ukubophelelwa okunelisayo futhi umsebenzi wokuvikela lamalungelo awusoze waphela ngempela.
Amalungelo Omphakathi Enkathini Yanamuhla
Nakuba kuye kwenziwa intuthuko enkulu, izinselele zamalungelo omphakathi ziyaqhubeka ziguquka ekhulwini lama-21. Izinkinga ezinjengokuvota, ukulandisa, amalungelo okufuduka, inkululeko engokwenkolo, ukuvikela ubulili, nokufihla imfihlo kwamanani zimelela imingcele yanamuhla emzamweni oqhubekayo wokulingana. Ubuchwepheshe buye baveza izici ezintsha zemibuzo yamalungelo omphakathi, kusukela ekuthambekeleni kobucukubhede bemithetho eyimfihlo ekuhloleni imicimbi yezenhlalo kuya enkundleni yezekelo yezokuxhumana ekukhulumeni.
Ukuqonda amalungelo omphakathi namuhla kusho ukuhlala waziwa ngezinkinga ezihlala isikhathi eside eziphikelelayo nezivelayo ezidinga izindlela ezintsha namakhambi.
Indlela Onganikela Ngayo Elungelweni Lomphakathi Wakini
Ukunikela ekuvikeleni nasenkundleni yomphakathi wakho akudingi ukuba ube ummeli, umshisekeli, noma isikhulu esikhethiwe. Kunezindlela eziningi izakhamuzi ezivamile ezingawenza ngazo umehluko obalulekile ngezenzo zazo zansuku zonke, ngokukhetha, nangokuthembisa. Isihluthulelo siwukusuka ekuqapheni okungenzi lutho uye ekuhlanganyeleni ngenkuthalo, usebenzisa noma yiziphi iziphi izinto, amakhono, namasimu onawo.
Zifundise Nabanye Ngezindaba Zamalungelo Omphakathi
Imfundo iyisisekelo sokuphumelela kobungcweti nokubambisana. Ukuthatha isikhathi sokufunda ngomlando wamalungelo abantu, izindaba zamuva, nokuhlangenwe nakho kwemiphakathi ehluzekile kukwenza uhlonyiselwe ukubona ukungabi nabulungisa, uhlanganyele ezingxoxweni ezinolwazi, futhi uthathe isinyathelo esifanelekile lapho kudingeka. Lemfundo kufanele iqhubeke futhi ithathwe emithonjeni ehlukahlukene nasemibonweni.
Qalisa ngokufunda izincwadi, izihloko, nemibiko evela ezinhlanganweni zamalungelo abantu ezidumile nasezazini. Izinhlangano ezifana ne- American Civil Liberties Union, iNAACP, iSouthern Poverty Law Center, ne Human Rights Watch zinikeza imithombo ewusizo nokwaziswa ngezindaba zamalungelo abantu zamanje. Lalela amaproduces, amabhukwana, nokufunda amabhukwana, nokuya ezifundweni noma ezinhlabeni ezihlola amalungelo omphakathi nge-engile.
Okubaluleke ngokufanayo ukufunda ngokuqondile kubantu abanamalungelo omphakathi asengozini kakhulu. Funda izenzakalo kanye nokulandisa kokuqala, landela amazwi ahlukene emithonjeni yezokuxhumana, futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, lalela lapho abantu behlanganyela okuhlangenwe nakho kwabo ngobandlululo noma ngokungabi nabulungisa. Loluhlobo lwemfundo lusiza ukuba kukhule uzwela nokuqonda okungaphezu kwemibono ecatshangelwayo ukuze kuqashelwe ithonya langempela lokwephulwa kwamalungelo omphakathi.
Uma usufundile, xoxa ngalokho okufundile nabanye ojwayelene nabo. Yiba nezingxoxo namalungu omkhaya, abangane, nozakwabo ngezindaba zomphakathi. Uma uthola ukwaziswa okunganembile noma ubandlululo, sabela ngamaqiniso nangozwela. Funa amathuba okuxoxa ngama-albust, amaqoqo engxoxo, noma izenzakalo zemfundo ezihlanganisa abantu ukuze bafunde futhi bacabange ngezindaba zokulwela amalungelo omphakathi.
Ukuhlanganyela Ezigijimeni Nezingxoxo Zendawo Ezithuthukisa Ukulingana
Ukuthembisana komphakathi kubalulekile ekudaleni ushintsho oluhlala njalo endaweni. Ukuba khona emibuthanweni, ukumasha, amahholo, amahholo edolobha, nama-ormen abonisa ukusekela komphakathi amalungelo omphakathi futhi kusiza ekwakheni umfutho wezinguquko zezimiso kanye nokuguqulwa kwezenhlalo. Lezizenzakalo zinikeza futhi amathuba okuhlangana nabantu abanezingqondo kanye nezinhlangano ezisebenzela imigomo efanayo.
Izindawo eziningi zinezenzakalo zaminyaka yonke ezikhumbula izenzakalo ezibalulekile zamalungelo omphakathi, njengemikhosi yoSuku, izenzakalo zokuziqhayisa, noma imikhosi yoSuku Lobuzwe. Ukuhlanganyela kulezi zenzakalo kubonisa ubunye futhi kusiza ukugcina izindaba zamalungelo omphakathi zisobala emphakathini.
Ngaphandle kokuya ezimpikiswaneni, cabangela ukuhlanganyela ngenkuthalo ezingxoxweni zomphakathi eziphathelene nezindaba zamalungelo omphakathi. Hlanganisa amakomiti endawo noma amabutho emisebenzi agxile ekukhetheni, ekwahlukahlukaneni, nasekuhlanganisweni. Hlanganisa ezikhathini zokuphendula obala lapho ohulumeni bendawo becabangela izimiso ezithinta amalungelo omphakathi. Yiba khona emihlanganweni yesikole, izikhawu zemikhandlu yedolobha, kanye neminye imikhandlu yomphakathi lapho kwenziwa khona izinqumo ezithinta amalungelo namathuba omphakathi.
Uma unolwazi noma unolwazi oluhlobene nezindaba zamalungelo omphakathi, ucela ukukhuluma ezingxabanweni zomphakathi, emashabhu ahola, noma izingxoxo ezilula. Ukuxoxa ngolwazi lwakho nombono kungasiza ekufundiseni abanye futhi ukhuthaze isenzo. Ngisho noma ungazibheki njengochwepheshe, ukuzimisela kwakho ukuveza imizwa yakho, ukulalela, futhi ubonise ukuzimisela komzabalazo futhi ukhuthaze abanye ukuba benze okufanayo.
Izinhlangano Ezisekela Amalungelo Omphakathi
Izinhlangano zamalungelo omphakathi zifeza indima ebalulekile ekuvikeleni nasekuthuthukiseni ukulingana ngokunikeza imvume, ukugunyaza, imfundo, nokuhlela umphakathi. Lezinhlangano zidinga ukusekela ngokwezimali, izisebenzi zokuzithandela, nokusekela umphakathi ukuze ziqhubeke nomsebenzi wazo obalulekile. Ukuzisekela kungenye yezindlela eziqondile zokunikela ekuvikeleni amalungelo omphakathi emphakathini wakini nangaphandle.
Ngisho neminikelo emincane yanyanga zonke ingaba negalelo elikhulu uma ihlanganiswa nokusekelwa abanye. Izinhlangano eziningi zinikeza izinhlelo zamalungu ezinikeza iziqondiso ezihlaziya umsebenzi wazo namathuba okuhileleka ngokwengeziwe.
Ngaphandle kokusekela ngokwezimali, nikeza isikhathi namakhono akho ezinhlanganweni zamalungelo omphakathi. Amaqembu amaningi adinga usizo ngemisebenzi yokuqondisa, ukuhlela izenzakalo, ukuthatha izenzakalo, ukucwaninga, noma eminye imisebenzi esekela umsebenzi wawo. Uma unamakhono obuchwepheshe ezindaweni ezinjengomthetho, ezokuxhumana, ezobuchwepheshe, noma ukuqoqa imali, cabangela ukunikeza izinkonzo ze-probono ezinhlanganweni ezingase zingabi namali yokuqasha izisebenzi kulezi zindawo.
Lapho lezi zinhlangano zikhipha izixwayiso noma zibiza izikhulu ezikhethiwe, zisabelana ngemisebenzi yezinhlangano zamalungelo abantu ngokuhlanganyela izinto ezikuqukethe kuyimithombo yezindaba yezenhlalo, ukuya ezindaweni ezikuyo, ukukhuthaza ukuxhumana nezikhulu ezikhethiwe, ukusabela ngokushesha nokukhuthaza izimfashini zakho ukuba zenze okufanayo. Loluhlobo lokuzikhuthaza lubalulekile ekusunguleni ukucindezela kwezombangazwe okudingekayo ukuze kuthuthukiswe izimiso zamalungelo omphakathi.
Lapho Uphawula Ubandlululo Noma Ukwelashwa Okungenabulungisa
Enye yezindima ezibaluleke kakhulu ongazifeza ekusekeleni amalungelo omphakathi ukukhuluma lapho ubona ubandlululo noma ukuphathwa ngokungafanele. Ukuthula lapho ubhekene nokungabi nabulungisa kungachazwa njengokuvunyelwa noma ukuvunyelwa, kuyilapho ukungenela (nezindlela ezincane), kwenza umehluko omkhulu kumuntu ohlolwayo futhi kungasiza ekumiseni izimiso zomphakathi zokuthi ubandlululo alumukeleki.
Uma ubona ubandlululo emphakathini, hlola isimo ukuze uthole indlela ephephile nephumelela kakhulu yokungenela. Ngezinye izikhathi ukungenela okuqondile kuyafaneleka, njengokuphikisana ngokuthula nezinkulumo noma izenzo zobandlululo. Ngezinye izikhathi, ukungenela okungaqondile kungase kuphumelele kakhulu, njengokuhlola umuntu oye wahlaselwa, ukubhala lokho okwenzekile, noma ukubika isenzakalo kuziphathimandla ezifanele.
Yazi indlela yokubika ukucwaswa ngezindlela ezisemthethweni. Uma ubhekana nokucwaswa emsebenzini, emakhaya, emfundo, noma ezindaweni zomphakathi, ungabhala izikhalo zikahulumeni ezifanele njenge-Uncimel Accomplication Commission, i-Divince of House and Urban Development, noma ikhomishane yezelungelo lomphakathi. Imiphakathi eminingi futhi inezimemezelo zokulwela amalungelo abantu ezihlola ukucwasana.
Izenzakalo zobandlululo ezibhalwe phansi ngokucophelela, kuhlanganise nezinsuku, izikhathi, izindawo, abantu abahilelekile, nanoma iziphi iziphi izenzakalo. Le zincwadi zingaba bucayi uma kudluliswa izikhalo ezingokomthetho noma kuthathwa isinyathelo esingokomthetho. Uma ufaka ubufakazi bokucwaswa komunye umuntu, babuze ukuthi bangathanda ukuba usize kanjani. /5 Abanye abantu bangafuna ukuba ubike isenzakalo, kuyilapho abanye bengase bakhethe ukusisingatha ngokwabo noma bakhathazeke ngokuphepha.
Zijwayeze Ukuziphatha Okuhlukile Ekuphileni Kwakho Kwansuku Zonke
Ukusekela amalungelo ezakhamuzi akukona ukuthatha isinyathelo sokukhetha ngokweqile − futhi kungokokwakha indawo ehlala abantu abahlukene ekusebenzelaneni kwakho kwansuku zonke nasezinqumweni zakho. Lokhu kusho ukuhlola ubandlululo lwakho, imibono ebekela inselele, nokwenza ukukhetha okuqotho okukhuthaza ukulingana nokuhlonipha bonke abantu.
Emsebenzini, sekela imisebenzi yokuqasha ehlanganisa abantu, isinxephezelo esilinganayo, nezimiso ezisekela izisebenzi ezihlukahlukene. Uma usesimweni segunya, qinisekisa ukuthi amathuba entuthuko akhona kubo bonke abafanelekayo kungakhathaliseki isizinda sabo. Yenza indawo yamaphimbo ahlukene emihlanganweni nasemazindleleni zokwenza izinqumo, futhi sebenza ngenkuthalo ukulwa nanoma yiziphi izindlela zokuzihlukanisa noma ukubeka indiva oziqaphelayo.
Ekuphileni kwakho siqu, yenza ukukhetha okusekela amabhizinisi nezinhlangano ezizinikele emalungelweni omphakathi nasebuseni. Yenza amabhizinisi ayizidlakela, usekele izinkampani ezinezenzo eziqinile nezinqala, futhi ugweme ukusekela amabhizinisi ahlanganyela emikhubeni yokulahla isimilo. Sebenzisa amandla akho okuthumela umyalezo ngezindinganiso ofuna ukuzibona zibonakala emphakathini wakini.
Qaphela ulimi olusebenzisayo kanye nemibono oyenzayo ngabanye. Gwema ukubheka abanye njengabo, uhloniphe amagama abantu akhethiwe namagama amabizo-gama, futhi uzimisele ukufunda nokuzivumelanisa nezimo lapho wenza amaphutha. Ukuveza indawo ezungezile kusho ukuvuleka ekunikezeleni iziqu futhi uzimisele ukukhula futhi uthuthukise indlela osebenzelana ngayo nabanye.
Sebenzisa Imfundo Yakho Ukuze Usekele Amalungelo Omphakathi
Ukuqamba kungelinye lamathuluzi anamandla kakhulu akhona okuvikela nokuthuthukisa amalungelo omphakathi. Izinqumo kuzo zonke izinga(ukusukela emabhodini ezikole zendawo kuya emahhovisi kahulumeni) kuthinta inqubo yelungelo lomphakathi nezokugcinwa. Izikhundla zokucwaninga ezindabeni zamalungelo omphakathi, amarekhodi abo aphathelene nokulingana nokufakwa kwezindawo, kanye nokuzimisela kwabo ukuvikela imiphakathi esengozini.
Ungabambi isibopho sakho somphakathi kukhetho lukamongameli. Ukhetho lwendawo luvame ukuba nethonya eliqondile ekuphileni kwakho kwansuku zonke nasemphakathini, luthinta yonke into kusukela emikhubeni yamaphoyisa kuya ezimisweni zesikole kuya ekubekeni izinqumo ezingaqhubeki phambili noma zibeke inselele. U Vote okhethweni oluyinhloko, okhethweni olukhethekile, nemikhankaso yokulinganisela, futhi lukhuthaze abanye ukuba benze okufanayo.
Ngaphandle kokuvota ivoti, qinisekisa ukuthi abanye bangalisebenzisa ilungelo labo lokuvota. Zivotelele ukuvota, siza abantu ukuba baqondise izimfuneko zovoti, bacele ukuthatha uhambo oluya ezindaweni zokuvota, noma basebenze njengezisebenzi zokuvota. Imizamo yokusekela ukungenela ukuvota nokumelana nezindlela ezibangela imigoqo yokuvota, ikakhulukazi emiphakathini ebhekene nokucindezelwa ngokomlando.
Ukuzihlanganisa Neziphathimandla Zendawo Nohulumeni
Ukuthembisana ngokuzikhandla nalezizinhlangano kubalulekile ekuqinisekiseni ukulandisa, ukusekela izimiso ezingakhethi, nokwakha ubuhlobo obungaholela kushintsho oluhle. Nakuba ngezinye izikhathi kungase kwesabise ukuzihlanganisa nezikhulu zikahulumeni noma ukugcinwa komthetho, khumbula ukuthi embusweni wentando yeningi, lezizinhlangano zihloselwe ukukhonza umphakathi futhi kufanele zithathe isinyathelo ezithinta umphakathi.
Yiba Khona Futhi Uhlanganyele Emihlanganweni Yeningi
Imihlangano yomkhandlu wedolobha, iziqephu zebhodi yesifunda, imihlangano yesikole, nezinye izikhungo zomphakathi zinikeza amathuba ukuba amalungu omphakathi aqaphele ukwenza izinqumo zikahulumeni futhi akhulume izinkathazo zawo. Le mihlangano ivame ukuvulekela umphakathi futhi ihlanganisa isikhathi sokunikeza izinkulumo zomphakathi ezihlobana nezinhlelo noma izindaba zomphakathi.
Yenza umkhuba wokuya emihlanganweni ethinta amalungelo omphakathi emphakathini wakini. Lokhu kungahlanganisa izingxoxo eziphathelene nemali esetshenziswayo yomnyango wamaphoyisa nezimiso, imithetho yezindlu ezilungile, imithetho emelene nokungahlangani, imithetho yesikole, noma ukuxhasa izimali zezinkonzo zomphakathi. Ngisho noma ungakhulumi phakathi nomhlangano, ukuba khona kwakho kubonisa isithakazelo somphakathi kulezindaba futhi kungathonya indlela izikhulu ezisondela ngayo kuzo.
Uma ukhetha ukukhuluma phakathi nezikhathi zokuphendula komphakathi, lungiselela amazwi akho kusengaphambili. Yibani abacacile, abafingqiwe, futhi nicashe ngendaba eniyicela izikhulu ukuba ziyithathe. Xoxani ngezindaba zomuntu siqu noma ngezibonelo zendawo ezibonisa ukuthi kungani lendaba inendaba, kodwa futhi sekela amaphuzu enu ngokwaziswa nobufakazi uma kungenzeka. Hlalani nihlonipha ngisho nalapho niveza ukungavumelani noma ukukhungatheka, njengoba lokhu kubonakala kuphumelela kakhulu ekwakheni isikhundla senu.
Uma kunzima ukuya emihlanganweni umuntu ngamunye ngenxa yohlelo, ukutholakala, noma ezinye iziphazamiso, ohulumeni abaningi bendawo manje banikeza abantu abakhona noma imihlangano yabo. Ungafaka namazwi abhaliwe erekhodini ngisho noma ungakwazi ukuya ngasese. Isihluthulelo siwukuthola izindlela zokwenza izwi lakho lizweke lapho kwenziwa isinqumo.
Yakha Ubuhlobo Nezikhulu Ezihlonishwayo
Ukuphumelela kobushiqela kuxhomeke ekwakheni ubuhlobo obuqhubekayo nezikhulu ezikhethiwe kunokuba nje uthintane nazo phakathi nezinkinga noma izimpikiswano. Yazi abameleli bendawo yakho, kuhlanganise namalungu omkhandlu wedolobha, amalungu esifundazwe, amalungu esikole, izishaya-mthetho, namalungu eSishaya-mthetho. Yiba khona emicimbini yasemadolobheni nasemphakathini, uzethule, futhi ubatshele ngezindaba ezithinta wena.
Xhumana njalo nabameleli bakho ngezindaba zamalungelo omphakathi, hhayi nje lapho umelene nokuthile kodwa nalapho ufuna ukuveza ukusekela izenzo eziqondile. Izingcingo zocingo, ama-imeyili, nezinhlamvu zonke zinemiphumela, ikakhulukazi uma izikhulu zizwa ngezindaba eziningi ngendaba efanayo. Yiba nombono walokho ozicela ukuba zikwenze.
Ziningi izikhulu eziqhuba imihlangano yamahhovisi noma yezindawo ezithile ukuze zifeze le njongo. Zilungiseleleni ngokwaziswa okuqondile ngale nkinga, izibonelo zendlela ethinta umphakathi wenu, kanye nokutusa okuqinile kwezimiso. Ziphathele amanye amalungu omphakathi ukuze abonise ukusekela okujulile kwezinkinga zenu.
Khumbula ukuthi ukwakha ubuhlobo nezikhulu kuwukutshala imali isikhathi eside. Ngisho noma ungavumelani nesikhulu kuzo zonke izimpikiswano, ukulondoloza ukukhulumisana ngenhlonipho kugcina umnyango uvulekele ukuqashwa kwesikhathi esizayo futhi kwandisa amathuba okuthi bazothatha ukukhathazeka kwakho ngokungathi sína uma uzama ukufinyelela.
Abasekeli Bobudlelwano Obukhuthaza Ukulunga Nokuhlangana
Ngaphandle kokusabela ezigijimini noma ezihlongozweni ezithile, ukusekela ukuthuthukisa izimiso ezithuthukisa amalungelo omphakathi ezingadala ushintsho olungokwesimiso emphakathini wakini.
Izibonelo zezimiso zendawo ezingathuthukisa amalungelo omphakathi zihlanganisa imithetho emelene nokungavumelani kwezimiso zomphakathi enikeza isivikelo esingaphezu kwalokho okufunwa ngumthetho kahulumeni, izimiso zokuqasha ngenhlanhla ezinciphisa izithiyo kubantu abanombhalo wobugebengu, izimiso zokuthola ulimi eziqinisekisa izinkonzo zikahulumeni zikhona kulezo ezingezizo zesiNgisi, kanye nezimiso zobuqondisi eminyangweni yamaphoyisa. Izimiso zokuhlala njengendawo yokuhlanganisa ukuhlanganisa, umthombo wezentengo zemali, kanye nesivikelo semali ezingakongandisa amalungelo omphakathi ngokukhuthaza ukuhlangana kwezindawo zokuhlala nokuzinza.
Uma usekela izinguquko zesimiso, yakha imifelandawonye nabaxhasi abahlukene abangakhuluma ngezici ezihlukahlukene zezizathu zendaba. Hlanganisa ukwaziswa nobufakazi ngesidingo sesimiso nezibonelo zokuphumelela kwempumelelo kweminye imiphakathi. Lungela izimpikiswano zokuphikiswa nokulungisa ukuphikelela. Ukushiseka kwenqubo kuthatha isikhathi futhi kudinga ukumiswa kwemithetho ngezikhathi eziningi noma ngezinqubo zokulawula.
Ukuhlanganyela Ekwakheni Umthetho
Ubuhlobo phakathi kokugcinwa komthetho nemiphakathi, ikakhulukazi imiphakathi enemibala, bungesinye sezinkinga ezibucayi kakhulu zamalungelo omphakathi ezibhekene nezindawo eziningi.
Iminyango eminingi yamaphoyisa inezinhlelo zokuxhumana nomphakathi, i-according board, noma ezinye izinqubo zokufaka umphakathi. Ukuhlanganyela kulezi zinhlelo kunganikeza amathuba okuphakamisa ukukhathazeka ngemisebenzi yokulawula inqubo yobushiqela, ukusekela izinguquko zezimiso, nokwakha ubuhlobo nezikhulu nomholi. Nokho, kubalulekile ukufinyelela lamathuba ngokulindela okungokoqobo nokuqhubeka usekela izinyathelo zokuziphendulela ekwakheni izakhiwo kunokuthembela kuphela ekuxhunyaneni kokuzithandela.
Imizamo yokusekela ukusungulwa kwezinguquko ezisekelwe ebufakazini ezinciphisa amaphoyisa alawula ubandlululo nokulandisa. Lokhu kungahlanganisa ukuqeqeshelwa ukuqeda ukuphoqelelwa, ukulinganisela ukusetshenziswa kwamandla, ukuhlelwa kwamakhamera endikimba enezimiso ezifanele zokusetshenziswa kwawo, ukuqoqa nokunyathelisa ukwaziswa kokuma nokuboshwa ukuze kubonwe umehluko, futhi kwakhiwe ukuqondisa okukhulu kwezesizwe ngekhono elibalulekile lokuhlola nokuqondisa.
Uma ufakaza noma ubhekana nokuziphatha okubi kwamaphoyisa, yazi amalungelo akho nezindlela ezifanele zokubika. Ukukhononda ngezindaba zefadi nengxenye yomnyango wamaphoyisa, izindikimba zabaphathi abangabuthiwe uma bekhona emphakathini wenu, nezinhlangano zamalungelo omphakathi ezihlobene nale mithetho. Izenzakalo zezincwadi ziphelele futhi zifune ukusekelwa ezinhlanganweni zamalungelo abantu ezinganikeza isiqondiso nobungangamsha.
Hlola Futhi Usabele Ezinyatheloni Zikahulumeni Wendawo
Ukuhlala wazi ngalokho uhulumeni wendawo okwenzayo kudinga ukunakwa nomzamo oqhubekayo.
Uma ufunda ngezimiso noma izenzo ezihlongozwayo ezingalimaza amalungelo omphakathi, zimisele ukusabela ngokushesha. Hlanganisa ukwaziswa ngemifelandawonye yakho, uxhumane namanye amalungu omphakathi akhathalelayo, futhi wenze ukuphikisa kwakho kwaziwe ngabenzi besinqumo. Ukusabela okusheshayo ngezinye izikhathi kungavimbela ukuba izinhlelo eziyingozi zithathwe noma kuphoqelele ushintsho olunciphisa ithonya labo elibi.
Ukuvuma obala izinqumo ezinhle kuqinisa ukuthi lezi zenzo zisekela umphakathi futhi zikhuthaza izikhulu ukuba ziqhubeke zibeka amalungelo ezakhamuzi kuqala emsebenzini wazo.
Ukwakha Ushintsho Ezizulwini Zakho Eziseduze
Nakuba kubalulekile ukuhlanganyela ezikhungweni nasezinhlangano ezisemthethweni, omunye umsebenzi onenjongo kakhulu ekusekeleni amalungelo omphakathi uyenzeka ezikhungweni zakho eziseduze, umndeni wakho, umsebenzi, amaqembu ezenhlalo, kanye nomphakathi. Lokhu kusebenzelana kwansuku zonke kunikeza amathuba okubekela inselele ubandlululo, ukuziphatha okuhlukile, futhi kwakha ushintsho lwempucuko olusekela amalungelo omphakathi ezingeni lotshani.
Yiba Nezingxoxo Ezinzima Nomkhaya Nabangane
Lapho amalungu omkhaya esho amazwi obuhlanga, lapho abangane bekhuluma amahlaya ahlabayo, noma lapho beveza imibono ephambene, ukuveza imibono ephambene, kungabangela ukungakhululeki nokungabi sengozini. Nokho, ucwaningo lusikisela ukuthi abantu ngokuvamile bathonywa kakhulu yilabo ababa nobuhlobo obuseduze nabantu abangabazi noma abantu abavamile.
Zicophelele kulezi zingxoxo ngenjongo yokushintsha izingqondo kunokuba unqobe izimpikiswano. Buza imibuzo ekhuthaza abantu ukuba bahlole imibono yabo futhi bacabangele imibono ehlukile. Hlanganisani nohambo lwenu lokufunda futhi nivume ukuthi wonke umuntu unobandlululo okudingeka alusebenzise. Sebenzisa izibonelo eziqondile nezindaba zomuntu siqu ukuze ubonise ukuthi kungani imibandela yamalungelo omphakathi kanye nendlela ubandlululo lulimaza ngayo abantu bangempela.
Yiba nesineke futhi uphikelele. Ukushintsha izinkolelo ezigxilile kuthatha isikhathi, futhi kungase kudingeke ukuba uxoxe kaningi ngaphambi kokuba ubone intuthuko. Ungabadeli abantu ngoba nje bengavumelani nawe ngokushesha, kodwa beka imingcele mayelana nokuziphatha ozokubekezelela futhi ongeke ukubekezele uma ukhona.
Ukubambisana Emsebenzini Wakho
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi unjani enhlanganweni yakho, ungathatha izinyathelo zokuthuthukisa amalungelo omphakathi futhi wenze zonke izisebenzi zibe nendawo yazo.
Uma uholi noma uphethe, hlola izimiso nemikhuba yenhlangano yakho ngelens yamalungelo omphakathi. Ingabe ukuqasha nokuthuthukisa kuhlelwe ukuba kunciphe ubandlululo futhi kuqinisekise amathuba alinganayo? Ingabe imikhuba yokukhokha iqinisekisa ukukhokha imali efanayo ngomsebenzi ozokwenziwa kuwo wonke amaqembu amanani abantu? Ingabe zikhona izimiso ezicacile ezivimbela ubandlululo nokuhlukunyezwa, futhi ingabe zihlala zikhonziswa? Ingabe izinzuzo zezisebenzi zisekela izakhiwo zomkhaya nezidingo ezihlukahlukene?
Nciphisa amathuba okuba izisebenzi zifunde ngezindlela ezihlukahlukene, ukulingana, nokuhlanganiswa. Qeqesha ubandlululo olungekho mthethweni, amasiko ancintisanayo, kanye nomholi ohlanganisa. Sekela amaqembu ezisebenzi anikeza umphakathi nokuzipha izisebenzi ezikhokhiwe.
Uma ungekho esikhundleni sobuholi, ungasithonya isiko lomsebenzi. Khuluma lapho ubona ubandlululo noma ukukhishwa inyumbazane. Ummeleli wabangane abangase babhekane nemingcele yokuthuthuka. Zikhethele ukukhonza kumakomiti ahlukene nakuhlanganisayo noma ukuthatha izinyathelo. Sebenzisa noma iliphi ithonya ongase uxhase izinhlelo nemikhuba elinganayo.
Isibonelo Sokuziphatha Esihlanganisa Izilungiselelo Zomphakathi
Amaqembu ezenhlalo nemiphakathi yakho kuyingxenye ye-$nanoma iliphi ibandla lenkolo, amaqedl., ama-club, izinhlangano zomphakathi, noma amaqembu abangane, phela anamasiko asekela noma alulaza amalungelo omphakathi. Ungasiza ekulolongeni lamasiko ngokuziphatha kwakho nangokukhuthaza abanye ukuba bahlangane.
Lapho uhlela izenzakalo noma imisebenzi, cabangela ukutholakala nokufakwa kwasekuqaleni. Khetha izindawo ezifinyeleleka ngokomzimba kubantu abakhubazekile. Beka izindlela ezivumelanisa imingcele ehlukene yokudla nemikhuba engokwenkolo. Cabangela isikhathi esisebenza kubantu abanezimiso zomsebenzi nemithwalo yemfanelo yomkhaya ehlukene. Sebenzisa ulimi oluphelele ekuxhumaneni futhi ugweme ukulinganisela ngezizinda noma izizinda zalabo abahilelekile.
Yenza umzamo wokwakha ubuhlobo nabantu bezizinda ezihlukene. Funa imibono nezenzakalo ezihlukahlukene, futhi wakhe amathuba okubonisana okungaqondani okungaqondani phakathi kweqembu lakho. Uma amaqembu noma izinhlangano zakho zingafani, buza ukuthi kungani futhi ucabangele ukuthi yiziphi isithiyo ezingase zivimbele ukuhileleka okukhulu.
Ukukhulisa Izingane Eziwazisayo Amalungelo Omphakathi
Uma ungumzali, uthisha, noma usebenza nentsha nganoma isiphi isikhundla, unethuba lokuhlela indlela isizukulwane esilandelayo esiqonda ngayo nokuzibophezela kumalungelo omphakathi. Izingane zifunda ngokulunga, ukulingana, nokuhlonipha kokubili ngokufundisa okucacile nangokubuka abantu abadala abazizungezile.
Khuluma nezingane ngamalungelo omphakathi ngezindlela ezifanele. Funda izincwadi ezikhuluma ngezihloko zobulungisa nezilinganayo. Xoxa ngezenzakalo zamuva nezibonelo ezingokomlando zokwephulwa kwamalungelo omphakathi kanye nezinhlangano eziphumelelayo ukuze ushintshe. Khuthaze izingane ukuba zicabange ngokuhluzekile ngokulunga futhi zikhulume lapho zibona ukuphathwa ngokungafanele.
Yenza ufane nendlela yokuziphatha ofuna izingane zifunde ngayo. mabakubone uphatha wonke umuntu ngenhlonipho, umelana nobandlululo, futhi uhlanganyela emphakathini.
Siza izingane ukuba zibe nozwela ngokuzikhuthaza ukuba zicabangele indlela abanye abangase bazizwe ngayo ezimweni ezihlukahlukene. Uma kuphakama izingxabano, ziqondise ukuba zicabange ngokungakhethi futhi zicabangele amakhambi ahlonipha isithunzi sawo wonke umuntu namalungelo akhe. Zifundise ukuthi wonke umuntu ufanelwe ukuphathwa ngenhlonipho kungakhathaliseki uhlanga, inkolo, ubulili, ikhono, noma ezinye izici.
Ukusingatha Izinkinga Eziqondile Zamalungelo Omphakathi Omphakathi Wakini
Nakuba izimiso ezivamile zamalungelo omphakathi zisebenza ngaphandle kwezimpikiswano, izinselele ezihlukene zamalungelo omphakathi zingase zidinge ulwazi oluqondile nezinqubo.
Ubulungisa Bobuhlanga Nokungakhethi
Ubandlululo lwezinhlanga nokungalingani kusalokhu kugcwele emiphakathini kulo lonke izwe, kuboniswa izinhlobonhlobo zemfundo, umsebenzi, izindlu, ukunakekelwa kwempilo, ubulungisa bobugebengu, nanoma iyiphi enye ingxenye yokuphila. Ukuxazulula ukungabi nabulungisa kwezinhlanga kudinga kokubili ukubhekana nokucwaswa okusobala nobuhlanga obungahleleki obusezinhlanganweni nasezimisweni.
Zifundise ngomlando wobandlululo lwezinhlanga emphakathini wakho, kuhlanganise nemikhuba enjengokuhlukanisa isikole, ukuhlukanisa izikole, nomthetho wokukhipha izigebengu okungenzeka wadala ukungalingani okuhlala njalo. Imizamo yokusekela lokhu kulimala okungokomlando ngezimiso ezinjengokuhlelwa kabusha, ukuthengiselana imali ezindaweni ezihlukene ngokomlando, kanye nezinguquko ezithuthukisa izimiso ezikhuthaza ukuhlukana ngokohlanga.
Abasekeli beqoqo lokwaziswa nokuhlaziywa okungaveza ukuhluka kwezinhlanga ezinhlanganweni zendawo. Izimiso zokusekela ezinikeza inkulumo eveza ukuhlukahluka, njengokuguqula imikhuba yesikole ethonya ngokungenakulinganiswa abafundi bemibala, ukugcinwa kwezindlu ngokungakhethi ukuze balwe nobandlululo nokucwasana, kanye nezinguquko zobulungisa zokwahlulela eziwubugebengu ukuze babhekane nokucwaswa kwezinhlanga nokugwetshwa.
Uma umhlophe, qaphela umthwalo wemfanelo okhethekile onawo wokulungisa ubuhlanga emiphakathini yabamhlophe nokusebenzisa noma iliphi ilungelo onalo lokusekela ushintsho. Lokhu kuhlanganisa ukugxeka ubuhlanga ezikhaleni lapho abantu abanombala bengase bangabi khona noma bangabhekana nezingozi ezinkulu zokwenza kanjalo, futhi usekele kunokuba ugxile ekunyakazeni okuholwa abantu bemibala.
LGBTQ+ amalungelo nokuncishiswa
Naphezu kwentuthuko ephawulekayo eminyakeni yamuva, iLGBTQ+ abantu bayaqhubeka bebhekana nokucwaswa emsebenzini, ezindaweni zokuhlala, ezindaweni zomphakathi, ekunakekeleni impilo, nakwezinye izindawo. Abantu abadinga ukuguqulwa kanye nabobulili obuhlukile babhekana nezinselele ezibucayi kakhulu, kuhlanganise nezinga eliphakeme lobudlova, ubandlululo, kanye nezithiyo zokuthola ukunakekelwa okufanelekile kwempilo.
Sekela imithetho yendawo engachaphazeli ehlanganisa isivikelo esisekelwe ekuziphatheni ngokobulili nasekuziseni kwabantu besilisa nabesifazane. Ummeleli wezimiso ezihlanganisa amaqembu ezikole, kuhlanganise nesivikelo ekuqineleni abanye, ukusekela i-LGBTQ nemikhaya, kanye nezifundo ezihlanganisa zonke ezimelela izikhundla nemikhaya ehlukahlukene.
Sebenzisa ulimi oluhlanganisa futhi uhloniphe amagama abantu abakhethiwe namagama angenagama. Khuluma ukulinganisela ngokobulili nokuziphatha ngokobulili ezixukwini zakho zansuku zonke. Sekela i-LGBTQ +-izinhlangano ezikhonza i-LGBTQ+ imiphakathi. Khuluma ngokumelene nobandlululo nokuhlukunyezwa lapho ufakaza ngakho.
Uma ungalisebenzisi i-LGBTQ+ wena, yiba nesibindi sokulalela nokukhulisa i-LGBTQ, uzifundise ngezindaba ezibhekene nale miphakathi, futhi usebenzise ilungelo lakho lokusekela ushintsho. Ukusekela i-LGBTQ yentsha, ebhekene nezingozi ezinkulu zokungabi namakhaya, izinselele zempilo, nokulahlwa komkhaya.
Amalungelo Okuwohloka Nokutholakala Kwawo
Abantu abakhubazekile babhekene nezithiyo eziningi zokuhlanganyela ngokugcwele ekuphileni komphakathi, kusukela ekungacwaseni ngokomzimba kuya ekukhetheni emsebenzini nasemfundweni kuya ekuntuleni indawo yokuhlala nemisebenzi yokusekela. Ukusekela amalungelo abantu abakhubazekile kudinga kokubili ukuqiniseka ukuthi imithetho efana namaMelika anemithetho yokukhubazeka futhi asebenzela ukwakha imiphakathi ephelele ngempela.
Qaphela ukutholakala komphakathi wakho futhi usekelele ukuthuthukisa. Lokhu kuhlanganisa ukutholakala kwezakhiwo nezindawo zomphakathi, kodwa futhi ukutholakala kwezokuxhumana, izinhlelo nezinkonzo. Izimiso zokusekela eziqinisekisa abantu abakhubazekile ukuba bakwazi ukuthola izindlu ezithengwa kalula nezingafinyeleleka.
Inselele yemibono nolimi. Qaphela ukuthi ukukhubazeka kuyingxenye engokwemvelo yokuhlukahluka kwabantu nokuthi imingcele yokuhlanganyela ivame ukubangelwa yizici zezenhlalo nezendawo ezungezile kunokuba zikhubaze zona ngokwazo. Ukusekela ukuhola kwabantu abakhubazekile emizamweni yokukhubazeka, kulandela isimiso esithi "ayikho lutho ngathi ngaphandle kwethu"
Abasekela imfundo ehlanganisa abantu abakhubazekile enikeza abafundi ukusekelwa okufanele ukuze bafunde kanye nontanga yabo.
Inkululeko Engokwenkolo Nokungavumelani Nenkolo
Inkululeko engokwenkolo iyilungelo eliyisisekelo lomphakathi elivikela ilungelo lokwenza kokubili inkolo yomuntu nelungelo lokukhululeka ekuphoqelweni noma ekucwaseni okungokwenkolo. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, inkululeko engokwenkolo ayinakusetshenziswa njengesizathu sokucwasa abanye. Ukulinganisela lezizimiso kudinga ukunaka nokucabangela.
Izimiso ezisekela abantu ekucwaseni okusekelwe enkolweni kuyilapho ziqinisekisa ukuthi inkululeko engokwenkolo ayilona futhi imvume yokucwasa abanye. Khuluma ngokumelene nobandlululo olungokwenkolo nobugebengu obubangelwa inzondo obuhlasela amahlelo amancane enkolo, obuye banda eminyakeni yamuva ngokumelene namaSulumane, amaJuda, amaSikh, neminye imiphakathi.
Imizamo yokufundisa abantu ngamasiko enkolo ahlukahlukene nokuqonda ukuhluka kwenkolo.
Abasekeli bezindawo zokuhlala ezivumela abantu ukuba basebenzise inkolo yabo lapho behlanganyela ngokugcwele emsebenzini, emfundweni nakwezinye izici zokuphila komphakathi. Lokhu kungahlanganisa indawo yokuhlala yezingubo ezingokwenkolo, indlela yokudla, izikhathi zomthandazo, noma amaholide enkolo. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, qinisekisa ukuthi izindawo ezinjalo zokulala aziphoqeleli amalungelo abanye noma zibangele imithwalo engadingekile.
Amalungelo Abafuduki Nokuthuthwa
Abantu abafudukayo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi basemahlombe asemthethweni, banamalungelo omphakathi okumelwe avikelwe. imiphakathi enabantu abavela kwamanye amazwe ibhekana nezinselele ezikhethekile ekuqinisekiseni ukuthi zonke izakhamuzi ziyakwazi ukunikezwa izinkonzo, ukuvikelwa ekucwaseni, namathuba okuhlanganyela ekuphileni komphakathi.
Izimiso ezisekela ukucwaswa kwezifiki ezihlala kwamanye amazwe ezindlu, emsebenzini nasezindaweni zomphakathi. Abasekeli bokuthola ulimi ezinkonzweni zikahulumeni, ezikoleni nasezempilo. Amaphoyisa asekela ukufinyelela izinhlelo ezakha ukwethemba abantu abavela kwamanye amazwe kunokuba benze imisebenzi yokugcinwa kwabantu abavela kwamanye amazwe ebangela ukwesaba nokululaza ukuphepha komphakathi.
Yilwa nokukhuluma okumelene nezindawo ezihlala abafokazi nezinkambiso ezibanyundela noma ezibaphatha njengabangawafanelekeli amalungelo nesithunzi. Zifundise wena nabanye ngeminikelo yabafuduki abayenzayo emphakathini wakini nangezinselele ababhekene nazo. Sekela izinhlangano ezinikeza izinkonzo ezingokomthetho, ukusekela ubuthakathi, nokusekela imiphakathi yabafuduki.
Uma uyisakhamuzi sase-U.S., qaphela ilungelo elinikezwa yizakhamuzi futhi ulisebenzise ekusekeleni omakhelwane abavela kwamanye amazwe abangase babhekane nezingozi ezinkulu zokukhuluma. Izindlela zokusekela izakhamuzi nezimiso ezigcina imikhaya indawonye. Yenza indawo yokwamukela emsebenzini, ezikoleni, nasezinhlanganweni zomphakathi ezisiza abafuduki ukuba bahlangane futhi baphumelele.
Ukusekela Ukuzinikela Kwakho Elungelweni Lomphakathi
Ukusekela amalungelo ezakhamuzi akusona isenzo esisodwa kodwa isibopho esiqhubekayo esidinga umzamo oqhubekayo ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Ukulondoloza lesisibopho kungaba yinselele, ikakhulukazi lapho ubhekene nezithiyo, ukutubeka, noma ukuncintisana okudinga isikhathi namandla akho. Ukuthuthukisa amasu okusekela ukuthembisana kwakho kubalulekile ukuze uphumelele isikhathi eside.
Thola Okuqondile Futhi Wakhe Ikhono
Nakuba kubalulekile ukunakekela zonke izindaba zamalungelo omphakathi, ukuzama ukuhileleka ngokuzikhandla endabeni ngayinye kungaholela ekutubekeni nasekungaphumelelini. Cabangela ukugxila kwakho okujulile olwazini olulodwa noma ezimbili lapho ungathuthukisa khona ubuchwepheshe bangempela futhi wenze iminikelo eqinile. Lokhu akusho ukuthi awuzinaki ezinye izimpikiswano, kodwa kunalokho uqaphela ukuthi ungaba nethonya elikhulu ngokugxila kakhulu ezindaweni ezithile kuyilapho ulondoloza ukuqaphela nokusekela amalungelo omphakathi.
Khetha izindawo ogxile kuzo ezisekelwe ekuhlobana kwakho nendaba, izidingo zomphakathi wakini, nokuthi amakhono akho akhethekile nemali kungaba yigugu kangakanani.
Yakha Umphakathi Futhi Ugweme Ukuzihlukanisa
Ukwakha umphakathi nabanye abahlanganyela nawe ekubopheni umshado kunikeza ukusekela, isikhuthazo, nokulandisa okungakusiza ukuba usekele ukuthembisana kwakho ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.
Lobu buhlobo abunikezi ukusekela okungokomzwelo nje kuphela kodwa futhi bunikeza nezinzuzo ezisebenzayo. Ungahlanganyela ulwazi, uxhumanise imizamo, ufunde kokuhlangenwe nakho kwabanye, futhi wenze okuningi ndawonye kunalokhu ungakwenza uwedwa. Umphakathi unikeza amathuba okugubha nenjabulo, okubalulekile ekusekeleni ukuzimisela isikhathi eside emsebenzini onzima.
Zijwayeze Ukweqa Futhi Ubeke Imingcele
Ukuqinisa isibopho sokulwela amalungelo omphakathi kudinga ukuzinakekela wena ukuze ungakhathazeki. Zimisele amathemba anengqondo ngalokho okwazi ukukufeza futhi uqaphele ukuthi awukwazi ukwenza konke. Kulungile ukuthatha ikhefu, ukuthi cha ukucela isikhathi sakho namandla, nokubeka inhlalakahle yakho kuqala.
Uma uzibona lezi zimpawu, thatha izinyathelo zokuzichaza, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kusho ukuyeka ukuthatha isinyathelo, ukufuna ukusekelwa, noma ukulungisa izinga lakho lokuthembisana. Khumbula ukuthi amalungelo omphakathi awumjaho, hhayi ukugada, nokuthi ukuzinakekela kubalulekile ukuze ukwazi ukunikela phakathi nesikhathi eside.
Thokoza Intuthuko Futhi Ufunde Ezinqindini
Intuthuko yamalungelo omphakathi ivame ukuvela kancane futhi ibuye ibuye ibuye, iphazamiseke endleleni. Kubalulekile ukuqaphela nokugubha ukunqoba, ngisho nezincane, ukuze ulondoloze izisusa nethemba. Uma ubhekene nezithiyo, zama ukufunda kuzo kunokuba udikibale. Hlaziya okwenzekile, ukuthi yini ongayenza ngokungafaniyo esikhathini esizayo, nokuthi ungakhela kanjani emzamweni ngisho noma ungawufinyeleli umgomo wakhona.
Bhekana ngokukhumbula umlando wamalungelo abantu. Amalungelo amaningi nesivikelo esisithatha kalula manje abonakala engenakwenzeka ezizukulwaneni zangaphambili zabasekeli abaphikelela emsebenzini wabo. Imizamo yakho iyingxenye yalendaba eqhubekayo, ngisho nalapho intuthuko ibonakala ithatha kancane, izinto zakho zikhona futhi zinezela ekushintsheni ekugcineni.
Hlala Unolwazi Futhi Uqhubeke Ufunda
Izindaba zamalungelo ezakhamuzi ziqala ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, futhi ukuqasha izigebengu okuphumelelayo kudinga ukuba uhlale wazi ngentuthuko yamanje, impikiswano eyandayo, amasu amasha kanye nezinqubo ezintsha. Yenza imfundo eqhubekayo ibe yingxenye evamile yesivumelwano sakho sokuthola amalungelo ezakhamuzi. Funda kabanzi, ufunde izikole nezindawo zokucwaninga, futhi ufune izimo ezihlukene ezibekela inselele imicabango yakho futhi wandise ukuqonda kwakho.
Kulungele ukunikeza impendulo futhi uzimisele ukushintsha indlela oyisebenzisayo lapho uthola ukuthi into oyenzayo ayiphumeleli noma ayikulimaza. Umsebenzi wamalungelo udinga ukuthobeka nokuzimisela ukufunda njalo nokukhula. Iqiniso lokuthi ukhathalela amalungelo omphakathi alisho ukuthi uhlale uyilungisa, futhi ukuvuma ukuqondiswa kubalulekile ukuze ube ummeleli ophumelelayo.
Umphumela Obucayi Wesenzo Somuntu Ngamunye
Kulula ukuba nomuzwa wokuthi izenzo zomuntu ngamunye zincane kakhulu ukuba zingabangela umehluko ekubhekaneni nokungabi nabulungisa kwezimiso nokungalingani okujule kakhulu. Nokho, umlando ubonisa ukuthi ushintsho lwezenhlalo luvela ezenzweni eziqoqiwe zabantu abaningi abenqaba ukwamukela ukungalungi futhi abasebenza ndawonye ukuze badale okuthile okungcono.
Njalo lapho ukhuluma ngokumelene nobandlululo, wenza ukuba lungamukeleki emphakathini wakini. Njalo uma usekela inhlangano yamalungelo omphakathi, uqinisa amandla ayo okulwela ubulungisa. Njalo uma uvotela abaza kuqala amalungelo omphakathi, uguqula isimo sezombangazwe. Njalo lapho ufunda wena noma abanye, uthuthukisa isisekelo sabantu abaqonda futhi bakhathalele lezizindaba. Njalo uma ufaka isimilo esiphelele, uthonya impucuko ekuni kwakho.
Le zenzo zomuntu ngamunye zidala imiphumela edlula kude ithonya lazo elisheshayo. Umuntu ofundisayo angaqhubekela phambili ekufundiseni abanye. Inqubo osizayo ukudlula ingaba isibonelo kwabanye abantu. Ingane ofundisa ngokulunga ingakhula ibe umholi wamalungelo abantu. Ungaze uzibone zonke izindlela izenzo zakho ezinikela ekushintsheni, kodwa lokho akubenzi babaluleke kakhulu.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, uma abantu abaningi bethatha isinyathelo, ithonya elinqwabelanayo lingashintsha. Izinhlangano zomphakathi eziye zafinyelela intuthuko enkulu yamalungelo omphakathi — kusukela ekuqedweni kwezigqila zabesifazane kuya ekulinganani komshado — eziye zaphumelela ngenxa yokuthi abantu abaningi banikela ngezindlela ezinkulu nezincane. Indima yakho ekusekeleni amalungelo omphakathi iyingxenye yalomzamo omkhulu kakhulu, futhi ibalulekile.
Ukuqhubekela Phambili Ndawonye
Ukusekela amalungelo omphakathi emphakathini wakini kuwumthwalo wemfanelo nethuba. Ngumthwalo wemfanelo ngoba amalungelo nenkululeko esinayo kuxhomeke ekuvikeleni ngenkuthalo nangenxa yokuthi sinesibopho sokuqinisekisa ukuthi lezi sivikelo zidlulela kubo bonke, hhayi nje kulabo abanegunya namalungelo. Yithuba ngoba ukulwela amalungelo omphakathi kukuvumela ukuba unikele kokuthile okukhulu kunawe, ukwakha umphakathi nabanye abahlanganyela izindinganiso zakho, futhi usize ekudaleni uhlobo lomphakathi ofuna ukuphila kuwo.
Izenzo eziqondile ozenzayo ziyoxhomeka ezimweni zakho, emakhonweni, ezithakazelweni, nasezidingweni zomphakathi wakho. Ungagxila ekufundiseni nasekuqapheleni, ekukhonzeni ngokuqondile nasekusekeleni imiphakathi ethintekayo, ekuhleleni izimiso nasekubopheni izivumelwano zezombangazwe, ekushintsheni amasiko phakathi kwezinga lakho eliseduze, noma enhlanganiseni ethile yalezi zimo. Okubalulekile ukuthi wenze okuthile, usuka ekukhathaleleni isibopho esiqhubekayo, uthathele ekubopheni isibopho.
Qala lapho unakho. Akudingeki ukuba ube uchwepheshe noma umshisekeli wesikhathi esigcwele ukuze wenze umehluko. Izenzo ezincinci, ezingaguquguquki ngokuhamba kwesikhathi zingaba nethonya elikhulu. Njengoba ugxila ngokwengeziwe, uzokuthuthukisa ulwazi, amakhono, nobudlelwane obukuvumela ukuba unikele ngezindlela eziqonde ngokwengeziwe.
Khumbula ukuthi awuwedwa kulo msebenzi. Ngaphesheya komphakathi wakho nakuwo wonke umhlaba, abantu basebenzela ukusekela nokuthuthukisa amalungelo omphakathi. Ngokunezela izwi lakho nemizamo yakho kulo msebenzi ohlanganisa abantu abaningi, uba yingxenye yenhlangano ebikhelwe izizukulwane futhi eqhubeka isikhathi eside ngemva kokuba sesidlulile. Inkinga ayikhona ukuthi ungaxazulula izinselele zomphakathi wesilisa esisodwa futhi ungazixazulula. Umbuzo uwukuthi uzoba negalelo ku yini emsebenzini oqhubekayo wokwakha umphakathi onobulungisa nolungahlelekile.
Amalungelo omphakathi awazona izimiso ezingekho ngqiqweni noma izinto ezikhathazayo jqq. Kuwo wonke umuntu, athinta ukuphila kwansuku zonke kwabantu abangokoqobo emphakathini wakini. Uma usebenzela ukusekela lamalungelo, usiza ekuqinisekiseni ukuthi omakhelwane bakho bangaphila ngesizotha, ukuthi abantwana bangakhula namathuba alinganayo, ukuba wonke umuntu ahlanganyele ngokugcwele ekuphileni komphakathi kungakhathaliseki isizinda sakhe noma ukuthi ungubani. Lo msebenzi unzima, kodwa futhi ubalulekile kakhulu futhi ubalulekile ekudaleni imiphakathi lapho wonke umuntu ekwazi khona ukuchuma.
Ngokuhlanganyela ngenkuthalo ekuvikeleni amalungelo omphakathi nasekubuseni, amalungu omphakathi angathonya ushintsho oluhle futhi asize ekudaleni indawo ephephile, elinganayo kubo bonke abantu. Indima onayo ingase ibonakale ihlukile kwezendima yabanye, kodwa zonke izindaba zomnikelo. Zonke, ngokuzibophezela okuqinile nangezenzo ezihlangene, singakha imiphakathi esekela ngempela amalungelo omphakathi nesithunzi sabantu bonke. Ukuze kutholakale ukwaziswa okwengeziwe kokuvikela amalungelo omphakathi, vakashelani U.S. Umnyango weMahlulele amalungelo e-OFONT.