Ukuqonda Isibopho Sokuhlanganyela Kwesigqi: Okungaphezu Kokukhuluma Nje

Ukuthembisana kwabantu ngempumelelo ekwakheni imisebenzi ehlanganisa umphakathi wabo i-’ isebenza ngokwezenhlalo, ngokwezombangazwe, nangezomnotho. Kudlulela ngalé kokufaka nje imvume njalo eminyakeni embalwa. Ukubopha kwesizwe kuhilela isibopho esiqhubekayo sokuqonda izindaba zendawo, ukubambisana nomakhelwane, nokunezela ebuhleni obufanayo. Lokhu kuhlanganisa izakhiwo eziningi: kusukela ekukhonzeni embusweni kwe-demokrati nenhlangano echumayo. Uma izakhamuzi zibophana, zisiza amabhuloho phakathi kwamaqembu angaphansi nabenzi bezimiso, zigcina abaholi benecala, futhi zakhe umuzwa wokuphatha ubuna ndawonye phezu komphakathi i-̱ ikusasa. Lokhu kuhlangana kungathatha izindlela eziningi: ekusebenzeni ekuhleleni i-washi, ukulungiselela ukusekela ukusekela intsha izinhlelo ezisekela izinhlelo ezisekela iziqondiso. Isihluthulelo sinikezwa yisifiso somphakathi, futhi sinikezwa isisekelo somphakathi somphakathi.

Ngokwe- Melikan Library Association, izivumelwano zomphakathi zingahlanganisa futhi imisebenzi enjengokuhlanganyela emphakathini, ukuya emihlanganweni yemikhandlu yasedolobheni, nokubambisana nenzuzo yendawo. Umgomo ukuqinisekisa ukuthi wonke amazwi anethuba lokuzwakala nokuthi umphakathi uveza izidingo nezinhloso zawo wonke amalungu awo.

Okwenza Ukuba Umshado Uhlanganyele Kakhulu Manje Kunanini Ngaphambili

Enkathini yokwanda kokwehla kwemingcele nokuhlukana kwezenhlalo, ukuhileleka komphakathi okunentshiseko kubalulekile. Izakhamuzi eziboshweyo zithambekele kakhulu ekuthembeni omakhelwane bazo, zinomuzwa wokuzizwa ziyingxenye, futhi zisebenze ndawonye ukuze zixazulule izinkinga eziyinkimbinkimbi. Ukuhlola kuye kwabonisa ukuthi imiphakathi enezilinganiso eziphakeme zomphakathi ibhekana namazinga obugebengu aphansi, amazinga emfundo engcono, kanye nempilo engcono yomphakathi. Ngokwesibonelo, ukuhlanganiswa kwenkonzo yesizwe neyomphakathi kuphawula ukuthi ukunikela nokuhlanganyela komphakathi kuhlangene nokwehlisa amazinga okufa nokuhle. Ngaphezu kwalokho, uma abantu beboshekezelwa, bayakwazi ukuqina kakhulu phakathi nezinhlekelele ezingokwemvelo, njengezinhlekelele noma ukuntengo, ngenxa yokusungula ukusekela nokuthembana.

Isithembiso somshado sinika futhi abantu amandla okubekela inselele yokungabi nabulungisa nokusekela ukungakhethi. Ngokuhlanganyela, usiza ekuqinisekiseni ukuthi izinqumo ezenziwa ngezikole, izindawo zomphakathi, amaphoyisa, kanye nezimiso zemali yendawo ziveza umphakathi i-’ imibono ehlukahlukene. Lokhu akuwona nje umsebenzi kodwa kuyithuba lokwakha umphakathi othanda abantu futhi osabelayo.

Isiqondiso Ngokulandelana Esokuba Ilungu Lomphakathi Elikhuthele

Kudingeka uhlele umgwaqo ocacile ozokusiza ukuba ube nengxenye enenjongo emphakathini wakini, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uhlala edolobheni elincane noma edolobheni eliphithizelayo.

Khuthaza Uhlu Lomphakathi

Ngaphambi kokuba ungene, zinike isikhathi sokuqonda indawo yakini. Qonda amandla ayo, ubuthakathaka, nabadlali abaphambili. Bangobani abaholi? Yiziphi izinhlangano kakade ezisebenzayo? Iziphi izinto izakhamuzi ezithanda kakhulu? Amathuluzi esizwe njengeNhlangano ye-CUBIC [ yeSizwe enikeza izimiso zokuhlola impilo yomphakathi. Hamba noma uhambe ngemoto ezindaweni ezihlukahlukene, vakashela amabhizinisi endawo, futhi uxoxe nabantu abavela ezizindeni ezihlukahlukene. Lokhu kuzokusiza ukuba ubone ukuthi ikuphi lapho amandla akho namakhono akho kungathinta kakhulu.

2 Thola Izenzo Zakho Namakhono

Ukuthembisana komphakathi okuphumelelayo kuyasekelwa uma kuvumelana nezithakazelo zakho namakhono. Zibuze: Yiziphi izinkinga emphakathini enginazo? Yiziphi izinkinga enginazo (umz., ukuhlela izenzakalo, ukubhala, ukuxoxa obala, ukuhlaziya ukwaziswa) ezingasiza? Uma uthanda ingadi, cabangela ukuqala insimu yomphakathi. Uma unolwazi olungokomthetho, zenza ivolontiya ngomtholampilo wezomthetho. Uma ungumlaleli omkhulu, ukhonza engcupheni engokwempilo yengqondo. Ukufanisa izifiso zakho zomphakathi kudinga ukuhileleka kwakho kunokuzizwa kuzuzisa kunokuba kube umthwalo. Bhala phansi izithakazelo zakho ezintathu zomphakathi namakhono ongazinikezayo, khona, funa izinhlangano ezihlangene nalezo zindawo.

3. Yiba Nemihlangano Kahulumeni Wendawo

Enye yezindlela eziqondile kakhulu zokuqonda indlela umphakathi wakho osebenza ngayo ukuba khona emihlanganweni yasobala. Lezi zihlanganisa imihlangano yomkhandlu wedolobha, izikhawu zesikole, ukuhlela nokuhlela nokuhlela ukuzwa kwezindawo, nemihlangano yesifunda sesifundazwe. Ngisho noma ungasakwazi ukukhuluma, umane ubonise ukuqonda okubalulekile ngokuthi izinqumo zenziwa kanjani, izimpikiswano ezizwakalayo, nezinethonya. Imihlangano eminingi manje ihlala ihleli noma iyatholakala kuYouTube, yenza kube lula ukuhlanganyela ekhaya. Kwenze kube umkhuba ukuba khona okungenani umhlangano owodwa ngenyanga. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, uyoba ubuso obujwayelekile, futhi ukuba khona kwakho kuphela kuyoba izimpawu zokuthi izakhamuzi zibukele futhi zinakekele imiphumela.

4. Ngosizo Lokuzithandela

Ukuvolontiya kuyisisekelo sesivumelwano somphakathi, kodwa akuwona wonke amathuba okuzithandela akhiwa ngendlela efanayo. Ukuthuthukisa ithonya, funa indima elawula amandla akho nezimbangela. Ngokwesibonelo, kunokuba uhambisele ukudla ekhishini lesobho (okubaluleke kakhulu), ungavolontiya inhlangano esekela isimiso sokudla noma efundisa amakhono kubantu abangenamakhaya. Ama-Velteer anjenge- [FLT] USAN futhi izahluko zendawo zingakusiza ukuba uthole amathuba. Qala ngesibopho esilawulekayo sesikhathi i ̬ 2 kumahora amane ngesonto ngalinye.

5. Hlanganisa Ibhodi Noma Iqembu Lomphakathi

Ohulumeni abaningi bendawo banendawo ebhekisa imvume ebhodini ebhekiswe kukho konke kusukela emapakini nasekuzijabuliseni kuya ekuhlalisekeni kwabantu nasenhlalweni yezomnotho. Lamabhodi anikeza umzila ohleliwe wokwaziswa komphakathi kanye nethonya. Faka ukusebenzisa ohambelanayo. Nakuba inqubo yokusebenza ingase idinge ingxoxo emfushane nokuhlolwa kwesizinda, kuyindlela enamandla yokulungisa isimo. Ngokwe- Internationaltity City/Complifinity Management Association[, amabhodi asebenzayo ahlukene futhi abonisa umphakathi. Uma uhlangana nemingcele (umz., ukuntula ukuphatha abantwana, ukuthutha), itsheke uma ibhodi inikeza i-screctorox noma i-octive ethatha izinhlelo.

6. Hlanganyela Nemikhankaso

Ukuqapha kusekusebenziseni izwi lakho ekuthonyeni abenzi besinqumo. Lokhu kungasho ukubhalela ilungu lomkhandlu incwadi, ufaka ubufakazi ekuqulweni kwecala, ukuhlela isicelo, noma ukujoyina iqembu lezakhamuzi ezifana nezingqondo. Qala endaweni yakini: usekela imigwaqo ephephile, ukuthutha okungcono, noma ukuxhasa isikole ngokusemthethweni. Labo abafuna isibopho esinzulu, bacabangela ukusebenza emkhankasweni wezombangazwe wendawo, i-̬ umbangi we-mkhandlu wesikole, noma i-memo yesikole. Imibhikicando inikeza ikilasi lengozi ezimpandeni zotshani zotshani nokwakha ubuhlobo. Ngishokwenza inzuzo amahora ambalwa (izintambo, izingcingo zocingo, noma ukungena kolwazi) ingenza umehluko omkhulu.

Zithathele Isinyathelo

Ngezinye izikhathi isithembiso somphakathi esiphumelela kakhulu siqondiswa yikho. Uma uthola igebe ezinkonzweni noma ekudingweni, ungadala inyathelo lokuqala lomphakathi. Lokhu kungaba iqembu lentsha elifundisa uhlelo, iqembu elinobulungu, umtapo wethuluzi, i-Little Free Library, i-net Library yomphakathi, ifridge, noma i-interor aunt forum ye-ofeal. Ukuqalisa ikhemikhali engcono kakhulu; umsebenzi owodwa ngokuvamile ubangela ukuhileleka okukhulu. Sebenzisa amapulatifomu njenge-Privereooy, Facebook Groups, noma izinhlu ze-imeyili zendawo ukuqalisa izisebenzi zokuzithandela nokuhlanganisa umfako wakho. Inqubo yakho nokuphumelela komphakathi ukuze udlulise abanye. Ngisho nomsebenzi ohloniphekile ungaveza umphumela woshintsho oluhle.

Ukunqoba Izithiyo Ezivamile Zokuhlanganyela Ebubini

Naphezu kwezinhloso ezinhle, abantu abaningi babhekana nezithiyo ezibavimbela ukuba bahlanganyele ngokugcwele. Nansi imingcele evame kakhulu i-̬ namasu aqinile okuzinqoba.

Izingxabano Ezibangelwa Isikhathi

Ngemisebenzi, umkhaya, nezibopho zomuntu siqu, ukuthola isikhathi sokuhileleka kungabonakala kungenakwenzeka. Ikhambi liwukucabanga ngezenzo ezincane, ezingaguquguquki, kunokuba kube izibopho ezinkulu. Ngisho nemizuzu eyishumi nanhlanu ngesonto: ukufunda iphephandaba lendawo, ukubhalela isikhulu esikhethiwe iposi, noma ukuhlanganyela isenzakalo somphakathi sezezindaba zomphakathi. Imisebenzi eminingi yezenhlalakahle ingakwenziwa kude noma esimisweni esivumelanayo. Futhi, cabangela ukuhlanganisa isikhathi nomakhelwane u̬ umuntu oyedwa uya emhlanganweni futhi ubika imibiko emuva, kuyilapho omunye ethatha isithili lokunakekela abantwana. Sebenzisa ikhalenda ukuze uvimbele ihora elilodwa lemisebenzi yomphakathi.

Ukuntuleka kolwazi noma ukufinyelela

Abantu abaningi abazi ukuthi kufanele baqalephi. Yilwani lokhu ngokubhalisela idolobha lakho i-̱ iphephandaba elingokomthetho, ngokulandela izikhangiso zezindaba zendawo, futhi bajoyina amaqembu omphakathi kuyi-inthanethi. Imitapo yomphakathi iyizikhungo ezinhle kakhulu zokwaziswa komphakathi futhi ngokuvamile ingenisa amashabhubhu okuthi ungahileleka kanjani. Uma isiNgisi kungelona ulimi lwakho lokuqala, funa izinhlangano ezinikeza izinkonzo zokuchaza noma izinto zolimi lwezilimi. United Nations Office of the High Commistrate for Human Rights [ igcizelela ukuthi isithembiso somphakathi kumelwe sifinyeleleke kubo bonke, kuhlanganise nemiphakathi ehlukene. Unganqindisani ukubuza imibuzo; abaholi abaningi bajabulela ukuchaza izinto.

Ukuzizwa Unomuzwa Wokuthi Izwi Lakho Liyakwenza Okuthile #8217; Indaba Ebucayi

Lokhu mhlawumbe kuyisithiyo esikhohlisayo kakhulu. Kulula ukuzizwa ungelutho lapho ubhekene nezimiso ezinkulu. Nokho, umlando ugcwele izibonelo zabantu abavamile ababangela ushintsho olungavamile. Qala ngokugxila ezimpikiswaneni zendawo ebanzi i-̬ imbobo, imbobo ephukile, ipaki elinganakiwe. Ukususa lezi zinkinga ezibonakalayo kwakha ukuqiniseka futhi kubonisa ukuthi le mizamo iholela emiphumeleni. Yiphambani; yenza amanyathelo ahlome kakhulu. Uma ubona abanye bebophana, umuzwa wakho wokuphumelela uyakhula. Zikhumbuza ukuthi yonke imibuthano yezenhlalo iqala ngeqembu elincane labantu abenqaba ukuthula.

Ukuntuleka Kokusekelwa Noma Ubungane

Ukuzibandakanya wedwa kungaba yinto enzima. Ukuthola umngane: umngane, ilungu lomkhaya, noma osebenza naye othanda izinto othanda ngazo. Abantu abaningi bakuthola kulula ukuya emhlanganweni noma ezisebenzini zokuzithandela uma bekwenza komunye umuntu. Okanye, joyina iqembu elikhona lapho ungahlangana khona nabantu abanezinhliziyo ezingafani. Ukuhlangana nomphakathi ngokuvamile kungumvuzo omkhulu. Uma uvalelwe, qala ngokubhala i-advocacy (izincwadi, ama-imeyili, ama-mail) esikhundleni sokukhuluma obala, bese wandisa i-comsmfort.

Ukuqinisa Isibopho Sakho: Amasu Athuthukile

Lapho usuqalile ukungenela komphakathi, ungase ufune ukwamukela umthwalo wemfanelo owengeziwe noma ukwandisa ithonya lakho.

Gijimela ihhovisi lendawo

Ukusebenza emkhandlwini wedolobha, ibhodi lesikole, noma enye indikimba yendawo kuyindlela yokugcina yokuthembisana komphakathi. Kudinga isikhathi esibalulekile, kodwa futhi kunikeza ithuba elikhulu kakhulu lokuhlela isimiso. Izinhlanga eziningi zendawo azihlolwa, okusho ukuthi umthengisi ozinikezele onepulatifomu elicacile angawina ngaphandle kokusekela okukhulu ngokwezimali. Qala ngokuba khona emihlanganweni yendikimba onesithakazelo kuyo, ukwakha ubuhlobo namalungu amanje, nokufunda izincwadi ezilawulayo. Izinhlangano eziningi ezingazuzisi, njenge-, zikhipha into ethile , zinikeza ukuqeqeshwa nokusekela abantu bokuqala abazo. Ngisho noma ungawinwa, isenzo sokuqhuba izinkulumo zomphakathi futhi ngokuvamile siholela ekuhilelekeni kwezinye izinhlangano.

Yiba Umqeqeshi Noma Umqeqeshi

Hlanganisa ulwazi lwakho nolwazi lwakho nabanye. Zimisele ukukhuluma esikhungweni somphakathi, emtatsheni wezincwadi, noma esikoleni ngendlela yokuhileleka. Isethi yentsha enesithakazelo ekuholeni komphakathi. Hola eshabhuleni ngokubhala noma ngokukhuluma obala. Ngokundisa ithonya lakho, usiza ekwakheni impucuko yokuthembisana edlula noma isiphi isinyathelo esisodwa. Izinhlangano eziningi, njenge Imfundo yokunikeza isethi yezokuxhumana, inikeza izifundo nemithombo yokufundisa ubusha.

Bambanani Kakhulu

Umphakathi okhuthele ufuna ukuhlukanisa. Funa amathuba okusebenza nabantu abanemibono ehlukene yezombangazwe, abavela ezizindeni ezihlukene, noma abanokuhlangenwe nakho okuhlukile ekuphileni. Lokhu kungangaphatheka kabuhlungu, kodwa kubalulekile ekuxazululeni izinkinga eziyinkimbinkimbi. Ukuxoxa okuhleliwe, njengalawo ancedwa iNational Coalition for Dialogue & Lamp; Delibration[, okugxila ekuqondenina nokuqondana kunokuwina izimpikiswano. Uma usizana namacala, wakha ukwethemba nokuzimela okuvela kuwo wonke umphakathi.

Ukulinganisa Umphumela Wakho Nokusekela Isimiso Sakho

Kubalulekile ukucabangisisa ngezikhathi ezithile ngohambo lwe-'—' lokuthembisana kwakho. Zibuze: Ingabe ngifunde okuthile okusha? Ingabe ngike ngakha ushintsho oluncane? Ngibone ngisho noshintsho oluncane? Ukugcina iphepha noma ukuxoxa ngokuhlangenwe nakho kwakho nabanye kungakusiza ukuba ulondoloze isikhuthazo. Ukubonga kuphumelele, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi i-̬ incane kangakanani; imoto ephumelelayo, imoto entsha yebhayisekili, indawo yokudlala. Ukuqaphela ukuthi ushintsho luvame ukunenzakala, futhi izithiyo ziyingxenye yenqubo. Uma uzizwa udidelekile, uzizwa unamandla, uhambisana nabantu nezindawo okushukumisele ukuba uqale. Khumbula ukuthi ukuhlanganyela kwakho ngenkuthalo kuyisipho emphakathini wakho futhi nawe.

Isithembiso sobuProvic asiyona i-CPF eyodwa; kuwumkhuba wokuphila konke. Ngokuthatha lezinyathelo ̬ ukuziveza, ukuveza, ukuvolontiya, ukukhuthaza, nokuhola i-̬ uba umculo obalulekile endwangwini yomphakathi wakini. Lohambo lungaba yinselele, kodwa imivuzo i-̬ aytud, eqinile, futhi exhunyiwe kakhulu, futhi engcono kakhulu emphakathini i-̬ iwufanele kahle umzamo.