Okwenza Imihlangano Yomphakathi Ibaluleke Kakhulu Kunanini

Imihlangano yomphakathi iwumgogodla wentando yeningi yendawo. Iyindlela eyinhloko izakhamuzi ezisebenzelana ngayo nezikhulu ezikhethiwe, isimiso sokwakheka kwendlela yazo, nokwakha indwangu yezenhlalo eyenza izindawo ziqine.

Le mibuthano ayibangelwa nje ukukhipha izikhalo, kodwa iyizindawo ezibambisanayo lapho kuhlolwa khona imiqondo, kuhlanganiswa khona imithombo yemali, futhi kuhlelwa ukuba kwenziwe izinhlelo zomphakathi. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uhlala edolobheni eliphithizelayo noma edolobheni lasemaphandleni, imihlangano yomphakathi ikunika indawo yokuhlala etafuleni lapho kwenziwa khona izinqumo mayelana nezindawo zokuhlala, ukuphepha komphakathi, izikole, amapaki nezindawo zokusekela isakhiwo.

Iyini Imihlangano Yomphakathi?

Imihlangano yomphakathi ihlelwe njengemibuthano lapho izakhamuzi, izikhulu zendawo, nabagcini bezindawo behlangana khona ukuze baxoxe ngezindaba ezithinta indawo echazwe noma iqembu lesithakazelo. Zingaba ngokomthetho, ngezinhlelo nangemizuzu, noma ngokwethukela, njengeqembu lomphakathi elinengxoxo emfushane. Amafomethi avamile ahlanganisa amahholo edolobha, imihlangano yenhlangano yomphakathi, ukuqulwa kwamacala omphakathi, kanye nezigaba zezibhodi zokushaya isithakazelo.

Izinhlobo Zemihlangano Yomphakathi

  • Imihlangano yamaHholo ehlotshisiwe:[ Ivulela zonke izakhamuzi, ngokuvamile imenywa izikhulu ezikhethiwe ukuze zivuselele umphakathi ezinyatheloni ezinkulu futhi ziqoqe umfakela.
  • [[[NT:0] Imihlangano ye-Neighborought Community Association:[ igxile ezindaweni ezithile zomphakathi noma eshadini, ikhuluma ngezinkinga zomgwaqo, izibi, noma izenzakalo zomphakathi.
  • Ukuzwa okuyimfihlo:[ Imicimbi engokomthetho efunwa umthetho phambi kwezenzo ezithile zikahulumeni (umz., ukubuyisela, ukuhlelwa kwemali).
  • Iziqephu zeKomiti yokufundisa: Iqoqo elincinci, eliqondeke ngqo lesihloko elitusa izindikimba ezibusayo ezinkulu.
  • [ AmaHholo oMhlaba: Imihlangano eqonde ngqo isebenzisa amapulatifomu anjenge-Flang, iMicrosoft Amaqembu, noma i-software ekhethekile yesivumelwano somphakathi.

Injongo Yemihlangano Yomphakathi

Emiphakathini yayo, kunemihlangano yomphakathi ukuze kuvinjelwe igebe phakathi kwezakhamuzi nezimiso ezizibusayo.

  • Ukwaziswa okuhlanganyelayo: [ Ohulumeni bendawo nezinhlangano basebenzisa imihlangano ukuze basakaze ukushintshwa kwemisebenzi, izimiso, nokulungiselelwa okuphuthumayo.
  • Accoptic: Izakhamuzi zinikeza umfakela wangempela wesikhathi ongaguqula inkambo yendlela yokuhlela ukuthuthukisa noma ukuhlelwa kwendlela yokuhlela.
  • Imfundo ye-picc Imihlangano iqinisekisa indlela uhulumeni wendawo asebenza ngayo, inika abahlanganyeli amandla okulawula i-plugin ngokuphumelela kakhulu.
  • [ Ukuhlangana okungaguquguquki: ukusebenzelana njalo kwakha ukwethembana nenhloko - dolobha yomphakathi, kunciphisa ukuzihlukanisa futhi kukhuthaza umuzwa wokwamukelwa.
  • Isinqumo se-Confuct:[ uma kuphakama ukungaboni ngaso linye, imihlangano inikeza indawo ehlelwe kahle yokuxoxa nokuxoxisana.

Izinzuzo Zokuhlanganyela Ngokuzikhandla

Ukuhlanganyela ngenkuthalo kukwenza uqonde izinzuzo zakho nomakhelwane bakho.

Kubantu ngabanye

  • Ukulawula nokulawula: ukukhuluma ngezindaba ozikhathalelayo kuqinisa inkolelo yokuthi izwi lakho libalulekile. Lomuzwa wenhlangano uvame ukuchitheka kwezinye izici zokuphila, kuhlanganise nomsebenzi kanye nobudlelwane bomuntu siqu.
  • [ Ulwazi lwendawo olufinyele: Ufunda ngentuthuko ezayo, ukuthambekela kobugebengu, izinqumo zebhodi yesikole, futhi unika amathuba ngaphambi kokuba zishaye imibiko.
  • Imihlangano yenethiwekhi yokwanda: ihlanganisa wena nezakhamuzi ezinezingqondo ezifana, abanikazi bebhizinisi lendawo, abaholi abangazuzi nzuzo, nezikhulu ezikhethiwe. Lokhu kuxhumana kungaholela emathubeni obuchwepheshe, ebunganeni, nasekusebenzelaneni.
  • Ukwakha izakhiwo zokubulala: ukukhuluma obala, ukuxoxisana, nokwakha ukuvumelana yimisipha oyivivinyayo emhlanganweni ngamunye. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, uba ummeli ophumelela kakhulu.

Emphakathini

  • Izinqumo ezingcono: I-Procies ebunjwe yizinto ezihlukahlukene i-octive ilingana futhi iyasebenza. Ukuhlolwa kwamashumi amabili22 kweNational Civic League kwathola ukuthi imiphakathi enezinga eliphakeme lokuhlanganyela emihlanganweni yomakhelwane yaneliseka kakhulu ngemisebenzi yendawo.
  • Imihlangano ekhulisweyo: Imihlangano ilapho kuthathwa khona izisebenzi zokuzithandela zokuhlanza amapaki, izidleke zokudla, nezinhlelo zentsha. Abakhona abakhuthele basengozini enkulu yokuvolontiya kunabangebona abakhi.
  • Isusa ubugebengu: izindawo ezisemkhakheni ezikhona nemihlangano yasikhathi sonke zibona amazinga obugebengu aphansi, ngokokucwaninga kweYunivesithi yeChicago’s Crime Lab.
  • [[Umthwalo wemali: 0] Umthwalo wemfanelo wemali:[ Izakhamuzi eziboshelwe ukukhokha intela yemali, okuholela ekuncishisweni kwendleko futhi ekubekeni imali eningi.

Indlela Yokulungiselela Umhlangano Womphakathi

Ukulungiselela kuguqula umuntu okhona ngaphandle kwempoqo abe umhlanganyeli onethonya. Landela lezi zinyathelo ukuze wandise ithonya lakho.

Ngaphambi Komhlangano

  • Ibone i-Agenda: Imihlangano eminingi inyathelisa uhlelo lwe-inthanethi noma nge-imeyili okungenani amahora angu-48 ngaphambili. Qaphela ukuthi yiziphi izinto ezizoxoxwa, ezokunqunyelwa, futhi yiziphi ezokwaziswa.
  • Uphendlo lwesizinda: Uma isihlongozo esiqondile (isib. ukuthuthukisa indawo yokuhlala) sisetafuleni, funda amabhukwana asekelayo. Ukuqonda ikhodi lezindawo, imibiko yemiphumela yendawo ezungezile, noma uhlelo lokuhlelwa kwemali.
  • Imibuzo eyimfihlo: Bhala phansi imibuzo ecacile ofuna iphendulwe. Gwema imibuzo engacacisi; kunalokho, buza ukuthi “Izitalato ezintsha zezimoto ziyolithinta kanjani ibhasi lesikole eziphindwe kancinci?” kunokuthi“ Kuthiwani ngezimoto?”
  • Ukuvumelana nama-Allie: I-imeyili noma ushayela ucingo omakhelwane abanokukhathazeka okukodwa. Yahlukanisa izihloko ukuze ungaphindaphindi amaphuzu afanayo. Lokhu kwenza izwi lakho elihlangene lisebenze kahle futhi likhohlise.
  • Abanye: Izwi elilodwa lingaxoshwa; iqembu kunzima ukulishaya indiva. Sebenzisa i-wevel social media, i-Priteodoo, noma iketango olulula lokubhala ukuze ukhuthaze ukuba khona.

Phakathi Nomhlangano

  • Ukushesha: thatha isihlalo eduze kombhobho noma eduze kombhobho. Hlola uhlelo olubhaliwe futhi uthole iphepha-lezimpawu. Imihlangano eminingi ifuna ukuba usayine uma ufuna ukukhuluma.
  • Lalela kuqala: Ngaphambi kokungena, lalela lokho okushiwo izikhulu nezinye izakhamuzi. Ungathola ukwaziswa okusha noma uthole indawo ovumelana ngayo nothile ocabanga ukuthi ungumphikisi.
  • Phendula ngokucacile nangenhlonipho: Igama lakho, ubungane bakho (umz., “Ngihlala e-Oak Street futhi nginabantwana abathathu esifundeni sesikole”), futhi iphuzu lakho. Gqoka engxoxweni eyodwa. Gwema ukuhlasela komuntu siqu.
  • Sebenzisa i-Data uma kungenzeka: “Ngibalile izimoto ezigijima ngesivinini esiyi-12 ngehora ebhulohweni lethu” zinamandla kakhulu kuno-“Kukhona ukushesha kakhulu.”
  • Landela Uphakamiso ekubhaleni: Uma uphelelwa isikhathi, faka impendulo ebhaliwe nge-imeyili noma nge-portal yomhlangano. Lokhu kwenza irekhodi elihlala njalo futhi kuqinisekisa ukuthi umfakela wakho uphunyiwe.

Ukwenza Izwi Lakho Lizwelwe: Amacebiso Awusizo

Ngisho nabasekeli abangomakad ’ ebona ngezinye izikhathi bazama ukuveza iphuzu labo.

  • Fulls Our Conplument Around Avisues: Esikhundleni sokuthi “Angifuni ipaki elisha,” yithi“Ngisekela indawo eluhlaza, kodwa indawo ehlongozwayo ingaphazamisa indawo evikela amagumbi ethu angaphansi komhlaba ekukhukhulekeni.” Lendawo iyakubeka njengenkinga, hhayi umlungisi wesivimbeli.
  • Sebenzisa i-“Yebo, kanye” Technique:[ Uma othile eveza umqondo ovumelana nawo ngokwengxenye, uqinisa izici eziqondile ngaphambi kokunikeza ushintsho. Isibonelo: “Yebo, ngiyavuma ukuthi sidinga indawo yokuhlala engcono, futhi ngithanda ukubona amaqoqo ehlukaniswe ezindaweni eziningi kunokuba ahlukaniswe endaweni eyodwa.”
  • Tshela i-Yomic Story:[ Imininingwane; izindaba zikholisa. Hlanganisani indlela inkambiso ethile ethinta ngayo ukuphila kwenu kwansuku zonke. “Ngisebenza ishifu ebusuku futhi izibani ezintsha zomgwaqo eMaple Avenue zingenze ngazizwa ngiphephile ukuhamba ngemoto yami ngo-2 ekuseni” ngikhumbulekile.
  • Yazi ukuthi nini ukuveza i-Flore: Uma omunye eselichazisile iphuzu lakho, ungaliphindi. Kunalokho, yisho ukuthi “Ngiyakusekela lokho okunguMs. Jones, futhi ngithanda ukwenezela lokho...” Lokhu konga isikhathi nokwakha izivumelwano.

Ukunqoba Izithiyo Zokuhlanganyela

Abantu abaningi bafuna ukuya kodwa babhekana nezithiyo zangempela.

Izinselele Ezivamile

  • [[Isikhathi:0] Izikhawu zesikhathi: Izinhlelo zomsebenzi, ukunakekelwa kwabantwana, nokufakwa kwe-commotion yenza imihlangano yakusihlwa ibe nzima. Imihlangano eminingi isebenzisa amahora angu 2-8, okuyisithiyo kubazali abangabodwa noma izisebenzi zeshishifu.
  • Izindawo zomhlangano zivame ukuba ezakhiweni zikahulumeni noma izikole ezingafinyelelwa kalula ngokuthutha komphakathi. Ukuphaka kungaba yindlala noma ebiza kakhulu.
  • Ukuhlukanisa kanye nolimi iziBaluleki: Izinqubo zobulungu, isigungu, kanye nokuxhumana kwesiNgisi kuphela kungahlukanisa izikhulumi ezingezona ezesisho noma lezo ezingajwayelekile ngenqubo yephalamende.
  • Past Amoves Embi:[ Uma umhlangano wangaphambili wawunobutha noma ungenazithelo, abantu abanamathuba okubuya.
  • Ukungabinakho kwempatho: Lapho izakhamuzi zinomuzwa wokuthi umfakela wazo awunakwa, ziyayeka ukuvela. Lokhu kudala umjikelezo ononya lapho kuzwakala khona amazwi azwakala kakhulu.

Amasu Okukhuthaza Ukuba Nengxenye Ebanzi

Ukusiza Imihlangano Yomphakathi Ephumelelayo

Kubahleli, izinga lomhlangano linquma izinga lokukhiqizwa. Isikhathi esicaciswe kahle semhlangano esiphathelene nesikhathi, sihlanganisa izimo ezihlukene, futhi siveza imiphumela esebenzisekayo.

Ngaphambi Komhlangano

  • Thumela izinhlelo ezicacile okungenani isonto elilodwa lisengaphambili. Qaqambisa ukuthi yiziphi izinto zofakelwa futhi yiziphi esezinqunyiwe.
  • Uma kunenkinga ephikisanayo ematilosi, hlangana nababheki bezikhungo ngaphambi kwesikhathi ukuze unciphise izinto ezimangalisayo.
  • Gcina indawo enemisindo, indawo yokuhlala etholakala kalula ne - Internet enokwethenjelwa ukuze usize abantu abakhona.

Phakathi Nomhlangano

  • Yamukelani abashiywe isikhathi kodwa ningaliphenduli lonke iqembu.
  • Beka imithetho eyisisekelo: Umuntu oyedwa ukhuluma ngesikhathi, akukho kuhlasela kwakhe futhi wonke umuntu unethuba lokukhuluma.
  • Sebenzisa isithakazeli esingathathi hlangothi, hhayi umenzi wesinqumo. Imeya noma ilungu lomkhandlu kufanele lilalele, hhayi ukuhola ingxoxo.
  • Lokhu kubonisa abantu abaye bezwakala futhi basizwa ngokuhlaziya kwamuva.
  • Qaphela iwashi. Uma isihloko siveza isithakazelo esikhulu kunalokho okulindelekile, hlela umhlangano olandelayo kunokuphuthuma.

Ngemva Komhlangano

  • Faka imizuzu phakathi namahora angu - 48. Hlanganisa nokufushaniswa kwezinqumo, uhlu lwezenzo nabanikazi, nosuku lomhlangano olandelayo.
  • Thumela i-imeyili yokubonga kubo bonke abakhona, kuhlanganise nalabo ababekhona cishe, bephethe umxhumanisi we-tem.
  • Yenza ingosi yemisebenzi noma imithombo yezokuxhumana ibe nemiphumela eyinhloko yokufinyelela labo ababengenakuya.

Ukulinganisa Umphumela Wemihlangano Yomphakathi

Ukuze wazi ukuthi imihlangano yenza umehluko yini, imiphakathi idinga ukulinganisela okungaphezu kwamaphuzu abalulekile. Cabangela indlela yokuthola indlela:

  • Ithonya lobuzwe: Zingaki izinkulumo zomphakathi ezafakwa enkambisweni yokugcina? Ngokwesibonelo, umkhandlu wedolobha ungabika ukuthi kufakwe amaphesenti angu-60 okusikisela kwezakhamuzi epaki elisha.
  • Ukuthatha inxenye: Uzwa usuka engxenyeni exhunyiwe yomphakathi ngeminyaka, umjaho, iholo, nezwe? Amathuluzi anjenge Urban Institute yomphakathi amathuluzi okuhlanganisa[ ingasiza ukuhlaziya ukwaziswa kwenani labantu.
  • Ukulandela izenzo:[ Ingabe umhlangano waholela kumakomiti amasha okuzithandela, unikeza izicelo, noma izinguquko kwikhodi yedolobha? Quantise lemiphumela minyaka yonke.
  • Ukwaneliseka okungaguquguquki: Izivivinyo ezimfushane ekupheleni komhlangano ngamunye zingahlola ukuthi abathatha inxaxheba bazizwa, bahloniphekile futhi bayazi. Umgomo wesilinganiso sokwaneliseka esingu-70% njengesisekelo.

Isiphetho

Imihlangano yomphakathi ingenye yamathuluzi anamandla kakhulu entando yeningi yendawo. Izindawo lapho izimiso ezingaqondakali ziba khona ngokoqobo, lapho omakhelwane behlangana khona, nalapho iphimbo elilodwa lingashintsha khona indlela yayo yonke indawo. Isithiyo sokuhlanganyela singokoqobo kodwa sinamandla kakhulu, kodwa sinamandla okunqoba ngobuchwepheshe, imikhuba ehlanganisayo, nokuthatha imingcele eqhubekayo.

Lapho uya emhlanganweni womphakathi, awugcwali nje isihlalo. Unikeza izingane zakho umthwalo wemfanelo womphakathi, uqinisa isivikelo somakhelwane bakho asebekhulile, futhi uqinisekisa ukuthi izinqumo ezenziwa ngomgwaqo wakho, ipaki lakho, nesikole sakho zibonisa izindinganiso zabantu abahlala lapho. izwi lakho lifanelwe ukuzwakala. [ Umhlangano olandelayo uyisikhathi sokubala.]