Imihlangano yomphakathi iyikhosha-msuka wentando yeningi yokuhlukanisa izigaba zezindawo. Kulapho kuhlelwa khona izinqumo zezimiso, ukuhlelwa kwezimiso, futhi kubekwa izinto eziza kuqala emphakathini. Kodwa izakhamuzi eziningi ziyanqikaza ukuya khona, zingaqiniseki ngemithetho elandelwayo noma zithuswa yisimo esingokomthetho. Lesi siqondiso sinikeza amasu asebenzayo okukusiza ukuba ulungiselele, ukhulume, futhi ulandele ngokuphumelelayo, ukuqinisekisa izwi lakho akuzwiwa nje kuphela kodwa kuhlonishwe futhi kube nethonya.

Okwenza Ukuba Khona Kwakho Emihlanganweni Yeningi Kubaluleke

Izinqumo zikahulumeni wendawo zithinta ukuphila kwakho kwansuku zonke futhi zibonakala kakhulu. Kusukela esimweni semigwaqo nasemapaki kuya ekwakheni imithetho nangemva kwesikole. Ngokubonisa, uthatha igxathu elingekho emthethweni ugcine ubuphathi obumatasa bendawo yakini. Imihlangano yomphakathi futhi iyindawo lapho izikhulu zihlola khona ukusekela komphakathi noma ukuphikiswa, ngakho ngisho neqembu elincane labanolwazi, izakhamuzi ezikhulumayo zingasisusa icebo. Uma uhlanganyela, usiza ekwakheni i-muntry, ukuvama, nohulumeni osabelayo.

Uma izikhulu zibona ukuthi indaba ethile iqhubeka njalo, ziyaqaphela, futhi zisuke zikhethiwe futhi zimisiwe, njengoba imibuzo yakho nezimpendulo zakho kuba ingxenye yerekhodi elingokomthetho.

Izinhlobo Zemihlangano Yeningi Nezinjongo Zayo Eziqondile

Ukuqonda indlela ehlelwe ngayo akuyona yonke imihlangano yeningi efanayo.

  • Imihlangano yoMkhandlu waseDolobheni – Indikimba yemithetho yedolobha yenza iziyalezo, ivumelane nezivumelwano, futhi imise izinqubo. Lemihlangano ivame ukuhlanganisa “ukukhulumela kwasobala”.
  • Imihlangano yebhodi yezemfundo - Gxila ezifundweni, ekuhleleni imali, ezikoleni, nasezisebenzini zesifunda sesikole sendawo. Umphakathi lapha ungalungisa imiphumela yemfundo ngokuqondile.
  • Ikhomishane yokuhlela Ukuzwa - Isekelwe ekusetshenzisweni kwendawo, iziphakamiso zokuhlanganisa, nezihlongozo zokuthuthukisa. Ubuchwepheshe ne-procedal, lokhu kudinga ukulungiselelwa okuningi.
  • Imihlangano yamaHholo ehlotshisiwe[ - Imithetho ephansi, evame ukuthathwa izikhulu ezikhethiwe ukuze ziqoqe ukunikeza ukwaziswa ngokwethukela. Zingcono kakhulu ekuphakamiseni izimpikiswano ezintsha nokuveza umzwelo womphakathi obanzi.
  • Ingqungquthela yezikhulu eziphezulu noma yeSifunda seKhomishane - iyafana nemikhandlu yamadolobha kodwa ihlanganisa indawo enkulu yezwe nezinkonzo ezibanzi njengempilo yomphakathi kanye nezokuhamba.
  • Imihlangano yesigodi ekhethekile[ - Ngezinto ezinjengezindawo zamanzi, amabhodi omtapo, noma iziphathimandla zezokuthutha. Lokhu kunezigunyazo eziqondile futhi ngokuvamile kunethonya eliqondile emazingeni enzuzo noma ezinkonzweni.

Indlela Yokulungiselela: Ngaphambi Komhlangano

Ukulungiselela kuwumehluko phakathi kokukhishwa inyumbazane njengesikhalo nokubhekwa njengezwi elithembekile.

  • Ibone amabhukwana ne-Agenda axhasayo - Amawebhusayithi kahulumeni wendawo ngokuvamile athatha isikhathi esisukela emahoreni amane ngaphambili. Naka imibiko yezisebenzi, equkethe ukuhlaziywa nokutuswa. Qaphela noma yiziphi izimpawu ze-fiscal noma izimemezelo zomphakathi.
  • Yazi iMiyalo yoMhlangano - Izinqubo zesibonakaliso, imingcele yesikhathi (ngokuvamile imizuzu emithathu ngesikhulumi ngasinye), futhi amathemba okufanele ayahlukahluka. Vikela ihhovisi likanobhala wedolobha noma hlola imithetho yomhlangano ebekwe kuyi-intanethi. Ngokwesibonelo, iziqondiso ze-MRSC ekuqhubeni imihlangano yasobala[[[] inikeza ukuqonda ezinqubeni zephalame.
  • Lungisa Isitatiso esilotshiwe[ - Ngisho noma uhlela ukukhuluma ngokungafihli, ubhale uhlamvu lwephepha elilodwa uqinisekisa ukuthi uhlala esigijimini. Hlanganisa igama lakho, uhlaka lweziqephu, isikhundla sakho, namaqiniso amathathu asekelayo. Uma unqunyuliwe, ungahambisa inguqulo ebhaliwe ukuze ubhale.
  • Antitipate Counterguments - Ukucwaninga ngokunokwenzeka imibono yokuphikiswa. Yikhulume ngenhlonipho ezimpindazweni zakho ukuze ubonise ukuthi ucabangisise ngesithombe esiphelele. Lokhu kwakha ukwethenjelwa.
  • Andulo futhi ubheke ku- - Thola iphepha lesibonakaliso, thola uphawu lomlomo weningi, bese uhlala eduze nendawo yesikhulumi esingaphambili noma esimisiwe. Yiletha ipeni, iphepha, kanye namazwi akho abhaliwe.

Ukunikeza Ubufakazi Obuphumelelayo: Ukukhuluma Amacebiso

Lezi zinqubo ziyokusiza ukuba unikeze umyalezo ocacile noshukumisayo ngisho nalapho ucindezelwa.

  • Qala ngeSingeniso esinamandla - Izwe lakho nento ethile ehleliwe noma inombolo yesihloko. Isibonelo: “Sawubona, u-Maya no-Aquor. Igama lami nguJane Doe, futhi ngihlala e-123 Oak Street. Ngikhuluma nge-Py 5A, isakhiwo esihlongozwayo se-parking.”
  • I-Core Ask - Isiphi isenzo ofuna ukuba basenze? “Ngikukhuthaza ukuba uvote,” “Ngicela uhlanganise lemali ehambisana nemali,” noma“ Ngicela ukuba unikeze isaziso esihlukile somphakathi ngalokhu.”
  • Sebenzisa inxenye yeLAYE: Inkinga → Icebo → Ikhambi – Kuqala, chaza inkinga ngokufingqiwe. Okwesibili, chaza ukuthi ikuthinta kanjani wena noma umphakathi (uhlanganisa imininingwane noma indaba yomuntu siqu uma ibalulekile). Okwesithathu, nikeza ikhambi elicacile elisegunyeni lomzimba.
  • [[INTLOBO: 0] Hlala ngaphakathi kweSikhawu sesikhathi [[FLT] - - Sebenzisa amazwi akho nge-statch. Khuluma ngejubane elincane kunelivamile. Uma unezinto eziningi ongazisho, nikeza ubufakazi obubhaliwe.
  • Gcina uMenzi onguchwepheshe - Ungaphazamiseki ezinye izikhulumi noma ibhodi. Gxila zonke izinkulumo kumphathi wesihlalo, hhayi kumalungu ngamanye noma izilaleli. Gwema ukuphikelela ngokomzwelo /-calm jor.
  • Sebenzisa ulimi oluqinile, olusebenzayo – Esikhundleni se-“Ngicabanga ukuthi lokhu kungaba inkinga,” yisho ukuthi“ Lenkambiso izokwandisa ukuminyana kwezimoto ngo-15% ngokwenhlolo yezisebenzi.” Yisho imithombo uma kungenzeka.
  • [ Vala ngokubuyiselwa kwemibuzo yakho – “Ngiyabonga ngesikhathi sakho. Ngicela ngenhlonipho ukuba uvumele ukusebenzisa imvume ye-ioctive ye-location nezimfuneko ezengeziwe zokulungisa indawo.”

Imihlangano Engokoqobo Nenhlansi

Kusukela kulolu bhadane, ohulumeni abaningi bendawo baye bakhetha ukuhlangana nabantu abahlukahlukene, nakuba kulula, la ma - DVD aveza izinselele ezintsha, futhi nansi indlela yokusebenza kuyi - Internet.

  • Uvivinya ubuchwepheshe Bakho Besikhathi [ - Log ungene emgangathweni (Isakhi, i-Webtex, noma isikhungo esisemthethweni) okungenani imizuzu engu-30 ngaphambi komhlangano ukuze uhlole umsindo nevidiyo. Qinisekisa ukuthi isisetshenziswa sakho sikhona noma sifakwe ngaphakathi.
  • Iziphazamiso zokulinganisela - Sebenzisa isizinda esingathathi hlangothi (udonga oluphezulu noma isizinda esingokoqobo). Sebenzisa umbhobho wakho uma ungakhulumi. Gwema ukudla, ukubhala ngezwi eliphezulu, noma ukwenza umsebenzi owodwa ngesikhathi esisodwa.
  • [[NTL:0] Sebenzisa ingxoxo noma uphakanyise isici sesandla [[FT.1] - Landela iziyalezo zomphathi ngokunembile. Ezinye izisetshenziswa zifuna ukuba ubhale isicelo sakho engxoxweni ukuze ibizwe. Bhala igama lakho kanye nohlelo lwenkulumo lapho ulinde.
  • [[QTL:0] Khuluma ngokucacile futhi u Misa - Imibhobho ehlukanisayo ingaphazamisa umsindo. Khuluma ngokucacile, nquma phakathi kwemicabango, futhi ugweme ukukhuluma phezu kwabanye. Uma kukhona ukulibala, linda isihlalo ukuze uvume.
  • Ubufakazi obubhaliwe obubhaliwe eNyakatho - izindikimba eziningi zivumela ukukhulumela okubhalwe ngeposi ukuba kufakwe embhalweni. Ukwenza kanjalo kuqinisekisa umbono wakho kubhalwe phansi ngisho noma kuvela izimpikiswano zobuchwepheshe.

Izejwayezi ezingcono kakhulu ekukhulumeni komphakathi, i- National League of Cities’s sholor joints [ inikeza izibonelo eziwusizo.

Ukuhlela Abanye: Ukwakha Izwi Elihlangene

Ubufakazi obubodwa bunamandla, kodwa ukuhlela umphakathi kuthuthukisa ithonya.

  • Bat Pre - Conternamefings - Ezinsukwini ezimbalwa ngaphambi komhlangano, qoqa iqembu elincane ukuze libukeze uhlelo futhi lihlukanise amaphuzu okukhuluma. Qinisekisa ukuthi isikhulumi ngasinye sihlanganisa isici esihlukile ukugwema ukuphindaphindeka.
  • Yakha “Ikhadi Elikhulumayo” Imfishane [ - shicilela ingxenye yekhasi namaqiniso ayinhloko, umphumela ofunekayo, nokwaziswa kokuxhumana kweqembu. Yihambisele amalungu omkhandlu ngaphambi komhlangano.
  • Ukuhlanganisa ukugeleza kobufakazi – inazikhulumi eziningi ezivela ezindaweni ezihlukene, amaqembu obudala, noma izikhundla ezihlukene. Lokhu kubonisa ukusekela noma ukukhathazeka komphakathi obanzi.
  • Sebenzisa i-Data kanye-yonke - i-Pool ukuhlanganisa ukuhlolwa okulula noma ukubala kwezimoto. Phatha imiphumela phakathi nobufakazi. Umuntu angaletha umniningo, omunye izindaba zomuntu siqu, futhi omunye ikhambi elihlongozwayo.
  • Ukuthola i-social Media ngendlela e- - Sebenzisa umhlangano ongokomthetho ukuze uhlanganyele amaqiniso ayinhloko futhi uphile ushintsho (ngaphandle kokuphazamisa umhlangano). Ithegi lezintatheli zakuleyo ndawo lihlanganisa umhlangano.

Izihibe Ezivamile Nendlela Yokuzigwema

Ngisho nabasekeli abangomakad ’ ebona bayawenza amaphutha.

  • Ukufunda Ngokuqondile kumbhalo ongenaso iso lokuthintana - Ngisho nasemihlanganweni, ukubheka ikhamera noma amalungu ebhodi kubonisa ubuqotho. Glance emanothini, kodwa ukhulume ngokwemvelo.
  • Ukuphamba abantu Kunomqondo ongathandekiyo - - Ukuguqula inkambiso, imininingwane, noma inqubo, nakanye umuntu. Ukuhlasela komuntu siqu kuqeda ukuthakazelelwa futhi kwenze kube lula ukulahla izimpikiswano zakho.
  • [[UMTL:0] Ukungaqondi Imingcele Yesikhathi [ - Ukuhamba isikhathi akunanhlonipho kwezinye izikhulumi kanye nebhodi. Uma unezinto eziningi zokuzisho, cela imvume yokuyihambisa ngokubhala.
  • Ukungalandeli uhlelo lwe-Agenda - Khuluma kuphela phakathi nenkathi emisiwe yokukhulumela komphakathi yento ehlobene. Ukuphazamisa izenzakalo kungaholela ekususweni.
  • [ Ukuvunyela Ukuzivumelanisa ne-Hybrid Etiquette – Emihlanganweni exubile, labo abasegumbini bangakhohlwa izikhulumi ezikude. Qaphanisa ukuthi ungubani futhi ucele ukuvuma ngaphambi kokuba ukhulume.

Ngemva Komhlangano: Landelani Izindlela Zokufundisa

Umsebenzi wakho awupheli uma isakhiwo siwa.

  • Yazisa imizu engokomthetho - Hlola ukuthi ubufakazi bakho bufingqwe kahle. Uma kungenjalo, thintana nonobhala wedolobha ukuze ucele ukulungiswa noma ufake isitatimende sakho esibhaliwe.
  • thumela i-Meyili-obongwayo - Email amalungu omkhandlu nezisebenzi ezilalele. Cazulula kafushane isimo sakho, unikeze ukwaziswa okwengeziwe, futhi ubonise ukwazisa ngesikhathi sazo. I-imeyili enesizotha iyakhunjulwa.
  • Ukwakha ubuhlobo no-START - Kaningi, izisebenzi (izindiza, onjiniyela, abahlaziyi) yizona ezihlobisa ukutusa. Ingxoxo yenhlonipho nelungu lezisebenzi ngemva komhlangano ingaveza ukuqonda okujulile nokubambisana esikhathini esizayo.
  • Ukuhlanganisa ne Media - Uma umagazini ufanelekile, thumela umbiko omfushane noma isihloko kuntatheli yendawo ohlanganisa umhlangano.
  • sebenzisa i-'Asting' elandelayo' [-- Uma ivoti ingalungile, phawula inqubo elandelayo yokuzwa noma yokunxusa. Ngokulandela iqembu lakho ukuba libuye linobufakazi obuqinile. Uma liphumelela, gubha futhi ubonise ukusetshenziswa kwabaphathi.
  • Thyila impikiswano Ngesikhathi Esidlulileyo - Beka isikhumbuzo sekhalenda ukuhlola isimo somthombo ohlelwe umhlangano olandelayo. Funda ufaka ukuqinisekisa ukuthi ubamba noma iziphi izinguquko zesikhathi semuva.

Ukunqoba Izithiyo Zokuhlanganyela

Izakhamuzi eziningi zibhekana nezithiyo zangempela: imisebenzi, ukuntuleka kokunakekelwa kwabantwana, izinto zokuhamba, imingcele yolimi, noma ukungathembani kukahulumeni.

Ukulinganisa Umphumela Wokuhlanganyela Kwakho

Kungadumaza uma ubufakazi bakho bungakushintshi ngokushesha ukuvota, kodwa ngokuvamile ithonya liba elikhulayo nelingaqondile.

  • Ithonya lobuProthessia - Izikhulu zingase zingazishintshi izingqondo zazo obala, kodwa izimpikiswano zakho zingaguqula ushintsho, izimo, noma iziphakamiso zesikhathi esizayo. Qaphela ushintsho oluncane olimini noma izimo ezihlobene nokuvunyelwa.
  • IRecord ne-Legal Stament - Ubufakazi obusemthethweni buveza umbhalo ongakhonjwa ezinseleleni zomthetho noma ekudluliseleni izikhalo zokuphatha. Uma isinqumo sincintiswa kamuva, iziphetho zakho zingasetshenziswa njengobufakazi bokukhathalela umphakathi.
  • i-Shift i-Overton Window – ubufakazi obuphindiwe, obuhloniphekayo buguqula imibono ethile. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, lokho okwake kwabonakala kuphikisana kuyamukeleka. Lokhu kunamandla ikakhulukazi ekusebenziseni indawo kanye nokungaguquguquki.
  • [ Ukwethusa Abanye [ - Isibindi sakho sokukhuluma singakhuthaza umakhelwane ukuba aye emhlanganweni olandelayo. Phinda-phinda lokho, futhi wakhe umphakathi othembisene kakhudlwana.

Isiphetho: Izwi Lakho Liwumoya Wentando Yeningi

Uhulumeni wendawo usebenza kangcono kakhulu uma ubonakalisa intando nokuhlakanipha kwezakhamuzi zawo. Imihlangano yomphakathi iwumzila oqondile kakhulu walokho kubuka, kodwa idinga ukulungiselela, ukuphikelela, nomsebenzi. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ukhuluma okokuqala noma ngowokudlala, unezela ukujula nokufaneleka enqubweni. Ngokuhlola amaphuzu ahleliwe, ukwenza ubufakazi obucacisiwe, ukunikeza incazelo ngenhlonipho, nokulandela ngenkuthalo, uguqula ukuphawula okungenzi lutho kube ithonya elisebenzayo.