Isingeniso

Ukwenza izinqumo zomphakathi kuhlela izimiso, uhlelo lwemali, nemisebenzi ethinta ukuphila kwakho kwansuku zonke (kusukela ekuxhaseni kwesikole sendawo kuya ekulungiseni imithetho nokuphepha komphakathi. Noma kunjalo abantu abaningi bazizwa behlukanisiwe nalezi zinqubo, bengaqiniseki ukuthi bangazizwa kanjani. Ukunikeza izwi lakho lomphakathi kusho ukusuka ekuqapheleni uthatheni iqhaza lokuhlanganyela, ukuqinisekisa ukuthi izinqumo ezenziwa izikhulu zendawo zibonisa izidingo nezindinganiso zomphakathi. Lesiqondiso esikhudlwana sinikeza izinyathelo ezisebenzayo, ukuhlola imingcele evamile, futhi siqokomisa amathuluzi anamuhla ongawasebenzisa ukuze ube umsizi ophumelelayo ekulawuleni.

Ukuqonda Ingxenye Yesidumbu

Isithembiso somsebenzi sihlanganisa izindlela eziningi abantu abathatha ngazo ingxenye ekuphileni komphakathi wabo nenqubo yentando yeningi. Kudlulela ngalé kokuvota ukuhlanganisa imisebenzi enjengokusebenza emabhodini aphethe izindlebe, ukuhlanganyela ekuqulweni kwezindaba zomphakathi, ukuzinikela emsebenzini wemisebenzi yendawo, ngisho nokuhlela ukuhlanza indawo. Ngokwe iSivumelwano sesizwe [, isibopho esinamandla somphakathi siholela ekufezeni izinqumo ezihambelanayo, ukuthembela okukhulu ezinhlanganweni, futhi imiphakathi ekwazi kangcono ukuxazulula izinkinga ngokubambisana. Uma kusetshenziswa isigaba esikhulu sezakhamuzi ezihlanganyela, izimiso cishe zifeza izithakazelo ezinhle ezivamile kunokuba zinciphene.

Izinyathelo Zokwenza Izwi Lakho Lisebenze

Lezi zinyathelo ezilandelayo zisetshenziswa izakhamuzi kulo lonke izwe ukuze zithonye izinqumo zendawo. Isinyathelo ngasinye singahlotshaniswa nezithakazelo zakho ezithile nokutholakala kwazo.

Zifundise Ngezindaba Zendawo

Ulwazi lwakha isisekelo sokuhlanganyela okunenjongo. Qala ngokuthola izindaba ezibaluleke kakhulu kuwe . "Noma iyindawo yokuhlala ebeke izinto eziza kuqala, ukuthutha komphakathi, indawo ezungezile, noma imfundo." Funda ukuhlanganisa kwephephandaba lakho lendawo ngemihlangano yedolobha, hlola ingosi engokomthetho kahulumeni wakho ngezinhlelo nemizuzu, bese ulandela imithombo yezindaba ezimele yomphakathi. Amadolobha amaningi asakaza futhi imibiko yaminyaka yonke nezinhlelo ezihlela indawo ephambili. Ukuqonda okujulile, ukuthatha izitsha ezingenisi ezingenisi ezimiswe amaqembu angena hlangothi zomkhandlu, ukuthatha indawo evunyelwe yizo ezinjengazo [[FLT:]] Igague yeza eMnyango Wabesifazane [[FLT] , enikeza njalo izinqumo zokuqonda izimali zomphakathi nendawo yokuhlela imali yendawo nohulumeni. Ukuthatha isikhathi sokufunda isizinda seze ukunikeza izimvume zokukhuluma esikhundleni sezeze, iminikelo ehlonishwayo.

2. Yiba Nemihlangano Yomphakathi

Imihlangano kahulumeni wendawo (isikhulu somkhandlu, ibhodi lesikole, ukuhlela, ukuhlangana komphakathi, indawo lapho kuphikiswana khona futhi kuvotelwa khona. Ukuhlanganyela njalo kwakha ukuqonda kwakho ngendlela isimiso esisebenza ngayo nezimpawu eziqondiswe izakhamuzi ukuthi zilalela kanjani. Ngaphandle nje kokuveza, ukulungiselela kusengaphambili: hlola amaphuzu, phawula izinto ezithakazelisayo, futhi uhlele ukuthi ufuna ukuthini phakathi nezikhathi zokuphendula kwasobala. Khumbula ukuthi ukukhulumela kwasobala kulinganiselwe emizuzwini emithathu, ngakho qeqesha ukunikeza inkulumo ecacile, inkulumo ecacile esho ukuthi uyini, futhi usikisela isenzo esithile. Ngisho noma ungakhulumi, ukuba khona kwakho ngokoqobo kubonisa ukuthi umbaza umphakathi usekela noma ukuphikiswa. Isikhathi esiqhubekayo, inani elivamile lingaholela ekumisweni ebhodini noma emabhodini ebhodini engomeni, unikeza isimiso esiqondileyo.

3. Hlangana nezinhlangano zendawo

Akukho muntu ongashintsha umphakathi yedwa. Ukujoyina izinhlangano zomphakathi wendawo kukhulisa ithonya lakho ngokunikeza ubuchwepheshe, ingcebo, kanye nesimiso sezakhamuzi ezifana nezakho. Ezinye izinhlangano zigxila ezindabeni ezithile − njengeqembu labaphathi abaseduze emapaki noma inhlangano yothisha kamzali ezikoleni. (nenye enye, njengezinhlangano zezentuthuko yomphakathi, zisebenzela ekuthuthukiseni izomnotho nezenhlalo. Ukuvolontiyela lamaqembu amaqembu akuthuthukisi ulwazi lwakho kuphela kodwa futhi kukusiza ukuba wakhe ubuhlobo nabantu asebe beneminyaka eminingi bematasa, ukunikeza umfundisi nomfanekiso ocacile wezwe lezombangazwe. Uma ungatholi iqembu elikhona elihambisana nezithakazelo zakho, cabangela ukuqala komphakathi ophumelelayo osuqala ngeqembu elincane elifuna ukuhlangana nezakhamuzi ezihlala ndawonye.

4. Hlanganyela Ngokuqondile Nezikhulu Eziqashelwe

Izikhulu eziqanjiwe ziyakumelela, kodwa azikwazi ukuveza imibono yakho ngaphandle kokuba uxoxe nazo. Izivumelwano eziphumelela kakhulu zihlonipha, ziqonde, futhi zinikeze ikhambi. Qala ngokubheka ukwaziswa kokuxhumana kwelungu lomkhandlu wedolobha, umphathi-sifunda, umphathi wesifunda, nomphathi webhodi lesikole. Bhala i-imeyili emfushane noma incwadi ekuchazayo njenge-athorator, isho impikiswano oyikhathalelayo, futhi ibuze ngokuqamba kwabo. Uma isikhathi sivuma, hlela umhlangano wemizuzu engu-15 ehhovisi labo noma ukuya ehhovisi labo elivulekile. Phakathi nomhlangano, lalela kakhulu njengoba ukhuluma: buza izinselele obhekenezohwebo, landelela ngokubonga futhi ugcine ukuzwana komphakathi. Uma uhlela umhlangano wakho olandelayo uyothatha inqubo ephuthumayo.

5. Sebenzisa Imithombo Yezindaba Nemishini Yezobuchwepheshe

Ama-computer ezokuxhumana asebalulekile kakhulu ekuthembiseni izivumelwano zomphakathi zangempela. I-Twitter, i-Facebook, i-Septemba, nezindawo ezihlala kuzo zikuvumela ukuba uhlanganyele ulwazi, uxhase, futhi usebenzise izigqebhezana eziqondiswe ngokuqondile ezingxoxweni. Nokho, sebenzisa la mathuluzi ngendlela efanelekile: hlanganyela amaqiniso aqiniseki, ugweme ukuhlaselana, futhi ungene engxoxweni eqondile. Ohulumeni abaningi basendaweni manje bahlala ngemihlangano ebanzi futhi babhale izimemezelo zezindaba zezezomphakathi, bakwenze kube lula ukuhlala ngaphandle kokuba uhlale phambi komuntu. Ngaphezu kwalokho, izicelo zezemishini efana noChaza i-Chance. I-Activeney ikwenza ukwazi ukuhlanganisa izigijikelezo zomthetho wezezindaba zendawo, ukupheka izimemezelo zezeli ze-injini yokuxhumana. Ukuvala i-iphasethiwe; ukuzwa kwemizwa kwemibono yakho ehlukene ukuze ulwe ukuhlanganisa i-eqedro.

6. Hlanganyela Ezikhathini Zokuphendula Nokwezwa Kwabantu

Izinkathi zokukhulumela komphakathi ziyinqubo engokomthetho yokukhuluma ngokuqondile kubenzi besinqumo. Zivame ukuvela emihlanganweni yomkhandlu evamile futhi phakathi nokuqulwa kwezindaba zomphakathi ezihlongozweni eziqondile ezinjengokuhlela ushintsho noma ukuhlelwa kwemali. Ukuze wenze izinhlelo ezingcono kakhulu zalelithuba, bhalisa ukukhuluma kusengaphambili uma kudingeka. Bhala amaphuzu akho ayinhloko futhi uwasebenzise. Sebenzisa izindaba zakho uma kungenzeka."Ungakhombisa ingqondo, kodwa izindaba zishukumisa inhliziyo. Ngokwesibonelo, kunokuba uthi “ipaki elihlongozene liyolimaza umphakathi,” ithi: “UMgqibelo ngalunye ngithatha abantwana bami abathathu kule ndawo yokulondoloza ipaki; ukususa kuyodlalela izingane zasendaweni ephephile.” Gcina umsindo wakho nesigijimi sakho siqondiswe ngokuhlonipheka. Uma umkhandlu uvoza ngokumelene nesikhundla sakho, ubeke umbono wakho, ubekwe embonweni ongokomthetho noma ngokukhetha okungokomthetho phakathi nokukhetha.

7. Khuthaza Abanye Ukuba Bahileleke

Ukuthembisana ngenkomfa kuyathathelwana. Uma uletha umngane emhlanganweni noma uhlanganyela isicelo esisemhlanganweni wezokuxhumana, unciphisa isithiyo sokuhlanganyela kwabanye. Hlela imibuthano emincane ukuze uxoxe ngezinkinga ezizayo .Isikhathi sekhofi esitolo sendawo noma “iqembu lokuhlola” lomhlangano wenhlangano ohlala ngokungenamdla. Memela omakhelwane abangakaze baye emhlanganweni wasobala ngaphambili; thembisa ukuhlangana nabo ngaphambi kokuba bachaze ifomende. Ungayala izakhamuzi ezisencane ngokuzinikela ngezinhlelo zemfundo zomphakathi. Unyaka ka 2018 wesifundo se-Hyight Foundation wathola ukuthi abantu bangaba nengxenye enkulu kakhulu emibuthanweni yomphakathi lapho bemenywa othile abamenywa umuntu othile abamethembayo. Ngokuthuthukisa isizumbululo sezakhamuzi esiboshelweyo, uqinisa impilo yakho yonke.

Ukunqoba Izithiyo Zokuhlanganyela

Ngisho noma benezinhloso ezinhle, abantu abaningi babhekana nezithiyo ezibavimbela ukuba bangene ngokuphumelelayo. Ukuqaphela lezisithiyo kuyisinyathelo sokuqala ekwakheni indawo ehlala abantu abaningi.

Ukuntuleka Kolwazi

Izakhamuzi eziningi azikwazi nje ukufinyelela izinhlelo zomhlangano, iziHloko, noma amabhukwana emuva. Ohulumeni bendawo bangakubhekisa lokhu ngokunikeza amawebhusayithi acacile, anobungane aneziphakamiso ezicaciwe nezingasho ezicacile zezihlongozo eziyinkimbinkimbi. Izakhamuzi zingazibophela futhi kumaphephandaba e-imeyili avela edolobheni lazo noma esifundeni, futhi zilandele ukulandisa kwezezokuxhumana okukhunjuzwa ngemva kwengqungquthela. Izinhlangano ezingafaki inzuzo njenge Citizens malunga nomthwalo wemfanelo nemithetho esemthethweni eWashington inikeza iziqondiso ngamathuluzi okwenza umehluko wezindawo zendawo. Ukuhlanganyela kwakho, ukuphawula kwakho siqu, i-ncwadi yezindaba zedolobha lokuxhumana okuhambisana nemininingwane yezinsuku zeposi futhi zihlela isikhumbuzo sekhalenda esiphindaphindwayo ukuze zihlolwe.

Isikhathi Esinzima

Umsebenzi ogcwele, imithwalo yemfanelo yomkhaya, nokunakekela kushiya igumbi elincane lemihlangano yakusihlwa. Ukuqeda lokhu, funa imihlangano eyenzeka phakathi namahora okudla noma ngezimpelasonto. Ngokunye amabhodi manje anikeza ukukhetha okuxubile kwabekhona. Uma ungakwazi ukuya, bhala i-imeyili emfushane ebhodini noma ubhale izimpendulo ezibhaliwe ngaphambi komhlangano. Imithetho eminingi yasobala ivumela ukuzithoba okubhaliwe ukuba kufundwe embhalweni. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ungafaka isandla emazwini wakho: buza umakhelwane othembekile noma inhlangano yendawo ukuba imelele imibono yakho uma ivumelana. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, cabangela ukuthunywa okuhlangabelwa njalo (ngenyanga noma ngenyanga) ukunciphisa isikhathi sokuzibopheka ithonya.

Izithiyo Zolimi Nezomdabu

Emiphakathini ehlukahlukene, ulimi lungakhipha izikhulumi ezingasebenzisi i-odance ekuhlanganyeleni ngokugcwele. Umthetho kahulumeni ufuna ukuba ohulumeni bendawo bathole izimali ukuze banikeze izinkonzo zokufinyelela ulimi, kuhlanganise izinto ezihunyushweyo kanye nokuchaza emihlanganweni yomphakathi. Ngeshwa, ukuvuma kuyahlukahluka. Njengesakhamuzi, ungasekela ukuba idolobha lakho lisebenzise uhlelo olusemthethweni lokuthola ulimi. Uma ukhona emhlanganweni ongawuqondi kahle, buza ukuthi umhlangano ungaqhubeka yini nemithombo efanele. Amalungu omphakathi angasebenza ngokuzithandela njengabatoliki phakathi nezikhathi zokuphendula komphakathi, uqinisekisa ukuthi kuzwakala amazwi amaningi. Inhlangano e-National Association ye-Latin Extective ne-Otivectedss [FLD:1] inikeza amathuluzi okwenza izithuba ezizweni ezihlangene.

Ukwesaba

Ukukhuluma obala phambi kwezikhulu kanye nezilaleli ezingezwani kungasabisa. Abantu bakhathazekile ngokuhlekwa usulu, ukucatshulwa, noma ukuxoshwa. Ukuze bakhe ukuqiniseka, bakhona emihlanganweni embalwa njengengqapheli. Bhala amaphuzu ngendlela abanye abakhuluma ngayo nendlela izikhulu ezisabela ngayo. Khona - ke qala ngeminikelo emincane, ibuza umbuzo ocacisayo phakathi nombukiso kunokunikeza inkulumo egcwele. Ukuhlangana nothile onolwazi okwazi ukuma nawe eqophelweni eliphansi. Khumbula ukuthi unelungelo lokuba lapho; okuhlangenwe nakho kwakho siqu kuwuhlobo lobuchwepheshe obungekho omunye ongalunikeza. Imiphakathi eminingi inikeza futhi “ikhuluma ngombhalo oqoshiwe ngemitapo yezincwadi noma amaqembu ovamile ukuba aqeqeshe indawo ephansi.

Ukutholakala Ngokomzimba

Izindawo ezingenazo izintambo zokushaya isihlalo sabakhubazekile, izingcingo ezisizayo, noma izigqebhezana ezicacile zisusa abantu abakhubazekile. Umthetho waseMelika ophethe ukukhubazeka udinga ukuba imihlangano itholakale, kodwa ukugcinwa kuxhomeke ekukhonoleni. Uma uhlangana nekhophi yokuthola ulwazi, bhala futhi ubike kumphathi wedolobha lakho. Uma uqeda imingcele yemihlangano, qinisekisa ukuthi amapulatifomu ayavumelana nabafundi besibuko futhi kulungiselelwe ukuba kubhalwe amagama. Uma kuhlelwa izenzakalo zakho, khetha izindawo ezitholakala ngokugcwele futhi unikeze izinto ezitholakalayo kwezinye izimemezelo. Umphakathi osusa imingcele yemvelo umema ukuhlanganyela okukhulu nokuthuthukisa ingxoxo ngezindlela ezihlukahlukene.

Indima Yobuchwepheshe Ekuhlanganyeleni Kwanamuhla

Ubuchwepheshe buye baguqula indlela izakhamuzi ezisebenzelana ngayo nohulumeni bazo. I-Online parkals ikuvumela ukuba ubike imigodi, imvume yokuhamba, kanye nokubuka amarekhodi empahla ngaphandle kokushiya ikhaya. Amadolobha amaningi manje asebenzisa “izindawo zokuhlela iziteshi lapho izakhamuzi zivotela khona ngokuqondile indlela yokusebenzisa ingxenye yemali kamasipala, ngokuvamile kuyi-i-intanethi. Amathuluzi anjenge Open Gov[[FLT] [[FLT]] yenza uhlelo lwendlela yokuhlela indlela yokusebenzisa imali nokuhlola, asize izakhamuzi ukuba ziqonde ukuhwebelana nokungaboni. Izinhlelo zezokuxhumana ezifana ne-Septerhoopter zivumela izingxoxo eziphambili zendawo, kuyilapho izimiso zombhalo zimemezela ngokushesha zimemezela imihlangano yemihlangano noma imithetho. Nokho, ukuqaphana okunga, ukuhlanganisa, ukuhlanganisa, ukuhlanganisa nokuhlanganyela okuphumelelayo. Abasekeli besebenzisa imishini basebenzisa imishini futhi basebenzise ijubane.

Ukwakha Isiko Lokuhlanganyela

Nakuba izenzo zomuntu ngamunye zibaluleke kakhulu, uma ziyingxenye yempucuko ebanzi enikeza inzuzo yokuthembisana. Imiphakathi esekela izinga eliphakeme lokuhlanganyela ihlanganyela izici ezithile: ifaka imfundo yomphakathi ezikoleni, igubha izisebenzi zokuzithandela obala, futhi ithathe amaqembu angaphansi kwenkonzo yokuhola. Ungasiza ekwakheni lelisiko endaweni yakini. Qala ingxoxo enzima kakhulu mayelana nokuthi izakhamuzi zifunani ukubona kungcono, isihlahla somgwaqo, noma isikhungo sebhasi esisha. Ukuvumelana nokulinika idolobha njengesicelo esibumbeneyo.

Isiphetho

Ukuveza izwi lakho lomphakathi akusona isenzakalo esisodwa esithatha isikhathi; kuwumkhuba oqhubekayo okhula ngolwazi. Qala umagazini owodwa, yikhona umhlangano owodwa, uthumele i-imeyili eyodwa. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, lezozenzo zihlanganisa idumela njengelungu lomphakathi elithembekile, elinolwazi. Izwi lakho libalulekile ngoba libonisa umbono ohlukile ongenakunikezwa muntu. Ngokuzifundisa, ukwakha ubuhlobo nezikhulu kanye nezakhamuzi ezikanye nazo, ubuchwepheshe obunemigoqo, futhi usebenzela ukususa imingcele, ungaqinisekisa ukuthi izinqumo zomphakathi wakho zibonisa izidingo ezihlukahlukene zabantu bawo. Ikusasa lendawo ohlala kuyo, idolobha, noma idolobha lixhomeke ezakhamuzini ezikhetha ukuhlanganyela kuyo. Qala namuhla, futhi ukhuthaza abanye ukuba bahlanganyele nawe. Udwebe udwebe ubuchwepheshe obunethe ukulwa, futhi ukusebenzela ukususa imingcele, ungaqinisekisa ukuthi izinqumo zomphakathi wakho ziveza izidingo ezihlukahlukene zabantu abakhona.