Kunzwisisa Chibvumirano Chepamutemo Chinochinja Nokuda Kwezvibvumirano Zvevatano Zvepamberi Pezvine Muviri

Chisarudzo chapamutemo chevakaroorana vounzenza muUnited States chakava nechinjo huru mumakore makumi maviri apfuura, zvikurukuru nechiratidzo Obergefell v. Hodges chisarudzo muna 2015, icho chinovimbisa kodzero yokuroora munyika yose muUnited States. Kuchinja uku kwakazarura suo revakaroorana vezera rakasiyana kuti vapinde mukodzero dzeroorano dzakazara, kubatanidza mano okupinda mubvumirano zvepamutemo. Zvisinei, nzira yokupinda mubvumirano yepamutemo yepamberipo inobvumirwa uye inotevedzerwa inobatanidza kudzoreka kunobatanidza kudzoreka kwakasiyana kwemitemo, kuradzikwa kwapamutemo, uye kurangarirwa kwakasiyana nokutarisana nevavakidzana. Nokuda kwezviito zvakafanana, kubvumirana kunenge kusati kuri chibvumirano chemari asi hachisi chishandiso chemari, kugona kutsigira, kunyange kutsigira mamiriro ezvinhu anokosha enhau anodiwa kupfurikidza nokuzivikanwa napamutemo. Kufunganyaniswa kwezvinodikanwa kupfurikidza nokuteverwa pamutemo. Zvikamu zvimwe zvikamu zvinoteverwa kupfurikidza kuteverwa kupfurikidza nezvinenge zvichiteverwa. Zvikamu zvinoteverwa

Nhoroondo Yezvakaitika uye Zvinhu Zvikuru Zvakaitika Zvepamutemo

Pamberi pa 2015, varoorani vounzenza vamwe chetevo muUnited States vakatarisana nemitemo yakapesana yakaita kuti roorano izivikanwe. Nyika dzisina kuziva roorano dzevatano dzakaramba kumanikidzira wirirano imwe cheteyo dzakaitwa muhurumende umo roorano dzakadaro dzakanga dzapamutemo. Nhevedzano yeMat Marriage Act [DoMA] [[FOL] [1] [1], iyo inorondedzera roorano seyomurume nomukadzi mumwe worudzi, inowedzera imwe nzvimbo yemifungo yemifungo. Kuchinjwa kwemichato yePUDMA mu [FL:2] United States] v. Nemhaka dzose dzinozivikanwa namabhuku anosarira zviri pamutemo. Zvikamu zviviri zvinowirirana zviripo zvose zvinowirirana nemitemo zvinowirirana zviri pamutemo, zvisinei hazvo izvo zvinobatira pamwe chete.

Gadzirisa Zvinodiwa Nemutemo Pakuita Zvibvumirano Zvinobvumirwa Nedare

Kuti chishandiswe, chibvumirano chapamberi penhau chinofanira kugutsa mipimo mikuru inoverengeka yapamutemo, pasinei zvapo nechimiro chevatano chavaviri. Izvi zvinodikanwa zvakarongedzerwa kuva nechokwadi chokururama, kubvumirana kwokuzvidira, uye kujeka. Vakwanyina vevatano vorudzi rumwe chetevo vanofanira kupa ngwariro chaiyo kuchinhu chimwe nechimwe nemhaka yokuti vatsauka vanogona kukoka denho, zvikurukuru mumiganhu umo zvimiro zvokutonga kuroorano dzoutevedzani zvingava zvisingafambira mberi zvikuru.

Kubvumana Nokuzvipira

Varipo vose vari vaviri vanofanira kupinda mubvumirano vakasununguka, pasina kumanikidza, kumanikidza, kana kuti pesvedzero isina kufanira. Ikoku kunoreva kuti chibvumirano hachigoni kusainwa mutyisidziro yokudzima muchato kana kuti zvimwe zvimiro zvedzvinyiriro. Matare achanzvera migariro yakapoteredza kusaina kwacho, zvakadai senguva pakati pokupa nokuuraya. Chisarudzo chinopiwa maawa mashomanene mutambo usati waitwa pasina kurongwa. Varoorani voutere, dzvinyiriro dzokunze dzemhuri kana kuti dzenzanga dzimwe nguva dzinogona kuita basa; kunokosha kunyora kuti chisarudzo chacho chakaitwa nerumano rwakazara uye ruremekedzo.

Mari Yakazara

Kuziviswa kwakakwana uye kwapachokwadi kwezvikwereti zvose, mingava, mari, uye fariro dzemari chinodikanwa chisiri chisingachinjiki. Mukwanyina mumwe nomumwe anofanira kugovera rondedzero yakarurama neyakarurama yemamiriro avo ezvemari. Kukundikana kuzivisa zvinhu zvinokosha (zvisinei hazvo netsaona) kungapa bvumirano yose. Vakwanyina voutevedzani vorudzi rwechipiri kazhinji kazhinji vanova nenhau dzemari dzakasiyana, zvakadai senhambo pamberi pekuenzana roorano apo vangave vakaunganidza pfuma vakaparadzana nedziviriro yapamutemo yeroorano. Kufumura nokusangwarira kubetsera gare gare gare kudzivirira nharo pamusoro pepfuma yakavanzwa kana kuti zvikwereti zvakakanganwiwa.

Manyorerwo Akaitwa uye Kuparadzwa Kwacho

Chibvumirano chapamberi pekunyorerana chinofanira kuva chakanyorwa uye chasainwa navose vari vaviri. Zvibvumirano zvenziyo hazvifaniri kuchengetwa. Gwaro racho rinofanira kuitwa nokutevedzerwa kunodiwa nomutemo wehurumende, uko kungabatanidza kunyorwa kana kuti kupupurira. Mitezo yakawanda inodawo kuti chibvumirano chisainwe pamberi pomuchato kuti vadzivise chitarisiko chokumanikidzira. Varoorani vevatano imwe cheteyo vanofanira kunzvera zvinodikanwa zvavo chaizvo zvokuuraya, sezvo mamwe masangano ane mimwe mitemo nokuda kwemirayiro yapamberi pezvibvumirano zvinosanganisira nguva dzakatangira Oberge yawira shure.

Kumirira Kwapamutemo Kwakasununguka

Nepo risati riri rapamutemo nguva dzose, zano rapamutemo ravanhu mumwe nomumwe rinorumbidzwa zvikuru. Apo mukwanyina mumwe asina gweta, matare anganzvera kana mukwanyina iyeyo akanzwisisa zvizere mashoko ebvumirano, zvikurukuru kana mutauro wacho wakaoma kana kuti achifarira mumwe munhu. Kuva navakwanyina voutere vamwe chetevo, kuva namagweta akaparadzana kunova nechokwadi chokuti fariro dzomunhu mumwe nomumwe dzinodzivirirwa munharaunda dzingava dzisingarovedzwi zvikuru, zvakadai senzira iyo nhau dzepenjere kana kuti fariro dzebhizimisi dzinowanwa pamberi peroorano dzinofanira kukamukana. Mune dzimwe nzvimbo, kushaiwa mumiririririri wokuzvimirira kunogona kutungamirira kubvumirano.

Zvinetso Zvokusamanikidzwa Zvinotaurwa Nevakaroorana Vane Ngochani

Kunyange apo kuronga kusvitsa zvinodikanwa zvose zvakarongwa, kungangotarisana nedenho dzekuchengetwa kwapamutemo.Idzi denho dzinowanzobva mukuzivikanwa kwapamutemo kwenguva pfupi yapfuura kweroorano dzevatano, tsananguro dzomugariro wakasiana - siana, uye bviro yokushandiswazve kwemitemo.

Kusawirirana Nokusagadzikana

Dare ringaramba kuita kuti chibvumirano chishandiswe kana chikawana mashoko asingashandiswi, zvichireva kuti anokatyamadza hana, anoyamura, kana kuti anoguma nomugumisiro usina kururama panguva yokuchengetwa. Vakaroorana voga voga voga, chinoumba mhatsa isingachinjiki. Somuenzaniso, chibvumirano chokuti tsigiro yevakaroorana vasingawirirani chose chose ingarangarirwa seyakashata kana mumwe akarega basa kuti atsigire bhizimisi romumwe kana kuti kurera vana. Nemhaka yokuti vakaroorana voga voga voga voga voga voga vakatarisana nemhingano yenhau yokuroorana, vamwe vangave vakaita basa rokuchengetedza upenyu pasina roorano. Chibvumirano chinotadza kubvumiranwa kuzviisa pasi pezvipo izvi chingagona kukuvadzwa. Chipo chitsaro chenhau chinowanzoitwa. Kana nyaya yacho ichiripo chakapfuurwa.

Kusiyana - siyana Kwemashoko

Mitemo yehurumende inosiana zvikuru pamusoro pezvibvumirano zvapamberi pezvinogona kuva nechokuita nemhesano, kuti zvinofanira kunyorwa sei, uye chikonzero chokuzviisa parutivi. Somuenzaniso, dzimwe nyika dzinobvumira kupiwa kwapamberi pezvipikirwa kuti zvidzore kuchengetedzwa kwavana nokutsigirwa. Nepo dzimwe dzinorambidza gadziriro dzakadaro nemhaka yokuti dzinodzongonyedza basa redare rokuita mufariro yakanakisisa yomwana. Varoorani vorudzi rumwe chetevo vanogara muhurumende isingatsigirirwi zvikuru LGBTQ+ kodzero dzingatarisana nezvipingamupinyi zvakawedzerwa. Uyezve, kana vaviri vachibva kuhurumende vakachinja kuimwe mitemo yavo ine mishomanene, chibvumirano chingava chokuongororazve. Kuchenjera kubatanidza chisarudzo chomutemo mumutemo usati wasvika pakuteverwa.

Kushandiswa Kusingachinji Kwemitemo

Vakwanyina vazhinji vevatano vakazvipira muukama hwakare roorano isati yazivikanwa. Vamwe vangave vakapinda muzvibvumirano zveroorano pamberi pekunge Obergefell atadza kuroora pamutemo mumugariro wavo wokumusha. Kugombedzerwa kwezvibvumirano zvakadaro zvapamberi pekuroorana kunogona kuva kwakaoma. Matare anowanzotsigira kurondwa kwapamberi peroorano yapamutemo, asi kana vaviri gare gare vakaroorana mumugariro wakasiana pashure pokunge mutemo wachinjwa, stape yapakuvamba ingada kusimbiswazve kana kuti kugadziridzwa. Zano repamutemo rinobva kugweta muLBTQ remhuri rine ruzivo rwokuzviwanira muLGroQ rinokosha kutungamirira nhau idzi dzeroorano dzapamutemo.

Kutarisirwa Kunokosha Kune Vakaroorana Vane Utano Hwevatano Humwe

Kupfuura matanda ose, varoorani vane mitezo mimwe cheteyo yevatano vanofanira kukurukura itiro hanya dzechienzi idzo kazhinji kazhinji dzisingatapuri vakwanyina vevatano yakasiana.idzodzi dzinobatanidza maruramiro oubereki, kuronga nzvimbo mumativi ose, uye revo dzemitero yenzvimbo.

Kodzero Dzavabereki Negadziriro Dzokuchengeta Mwana

Zvibvumirano zvapamberi pezvisarudziro zvinowanzogona kusarudza kuchengetwa kwavana kana kuti kutsigirwa kwavana nemhaka yokuti matare anochengeta maruramiro ezvisarudzo zvakanakisisa zvemwana. Zvisinei, nhambo isati yaitwa inogona kukurukura gadziriro dzemari nokuda kwevana, dzakadai sendyiko dzekoreji kana kuti inishuwarenzi youpenyu. Nokuda kwavabereki vamwe chetevo vounzenza, zvikurukuru avo vanogamuchira kana kuti vanoshandisa ruzivo rwokubereka runobetsera (ART), dare rinogona kuisa kariro dzokuita chisarudzo netsigiro yemari kana ukama hukaguma. Zvisinei, gadziriro dzipi nedzipi dzinoedza kuganhurira kodzero dzomubereki kana kuti migove yomwana hadzingatongodikanwi. Kukoshaidzwa pakati pezvinogona kufukidza pamutemo nhau dzepambeundi nechato.

Kugara nhaka uye Kuronga Zvikomborero

Vakwanyina vevatano imwe cheteyo kazhinji kazhinji vane zvinodikanwa zvikuru zvokuva nenzvimbo zvakaoma nemhaka yokuti vangava navana vanobva muukama hwekare, zvivako zvemhuri zvisiri zvegamuchidzanwa, kana kuti zvinhu zvinowanwa pamberi peroorano. Chibvumirano chapamberi peroorano chinogona kutsanangura kuti maruramiro enhaka omukwanyina mumwe nomumwe pasi pomutemo wehurumende anofanira kuchinjwa sei. Somuenzaniso, kunogona kupinza maruramiro kugoverano kana kuti kugadza nhaka chaidzo. Zvisinei, idzi migove inofanira kuwirirana nemitemo pazvigaro zvenyuko nenzvimbo. Mukuwedzera, kana vaviri vamwe vakaroorana venhaka chaivo vamene vari pasi penyika mumitezo yakawanda, dare rinofanira kuziva kuti zvinhu izvozvo zvichabatwa sei. Pasina kuronga kuronga kunyora.

Kurayira Mitero

Chatanuro ine miuyo yomutero, uye chibvumirano chapamberi pemitero chinogona kutapura nenzira isina kunanga miuyo iyoyo kupfurikidza nokurongera kuendeswa kwezvinhu netsigiro yomuchato. Vakwanyina voutere zvakafanana vanofanira kuziva kuti nepo mutemo wemitero wehurumende zvino unobata michato mimwe cheteyo yevatano muIRS, mitemo yemitero yehurumende inogona kusiana. Somuenzaniso, tsigiro yapachivako ingava inobhadharwa mutero unobhadharwa nomutero unobhadharwa nokuda kwomukwa waakaroorana anogamuchirwa pasi pomutemo womubatanidzwa wehurumende, asi kurapa kwemitero kwehurumende kungapesana. Kubatanidza mitero yetsimbadzo yetsimbadzo yemitero kunofanira kuva muiyi mitero isingadzorwi. Kurangarira mutero kana kuti mutengi wemitero mukati mokunyorerwa mutero kunyora mutero kuchenjera.

Kutama Pakati Penyika Nemitemo Yakasiyana

Vaviri vanoenda kuruwa rumwe chetevo (seNew York) vangawana kuti dare ravo rinofanira kurangarirwazve. Matare matsva ane roorano yakasiana kana kuti mitemo yapamberi pekubvumirana anogona kutapura kumanikidzirwa kwechibvumirano. Somuenzaniso, vaviri vanogara munyika yenzanga (seCalifornia) avo vanotamira kuhurumende yavose (se New York) vangawana kuti dare rehurumende idzva rinofanira kurangarirwazve. matare matsva angashandisa mitoo yawo amene yavose apo anoongorora chibvumirano. [FLT: 0]] inobatanidza [cho chemutemo wemutemo wepokaroyi mudare rinodudza mutemo wehurumende wakati wakati kuti (kachikamu apo vaviri vanoda kugara) anogona kudzosa njodzi idzi. Zvisinei, matare haasati achisungirwa kukudza kana kudzorwa kwapamhoshonga nguva dzose kupfurikidza nokudzorwa kwemitemo yehurumende yehurumende yehurumende yavose.

Nhano Dzinoshanda Dzokuderedza Kupamba

Zvikamu zvinotevera zvinogona kubatsira kuderedza ngozi yokupana nharo uye kuva nechokwadi chokuti chibvumirano chacho chinoratidza vavariro dzechokwadi dzevakaroorana vacho.

Ronga Mashoko Akakwana Ezvemari

Tanga nokunyora mashoko ose ane chokuita nezvinhu zvose, zvikwereti, uye manyuko emari. Izvi zvinosanganisira maakaundi ebhangi, mari yokurega basa, nzvimbo, mari yokutenga zvinhu, zvinhu, zvinhu, uye nhaka inokarirwa. Vose vanofanira kutaurirana mashoko aya pakutanga mugadziriro. Vachishandisa fomu rezvemari, rinowanzopiwa negweta remhuri, rinogona kuva nechokwadi chokuti zvinhu zvakakwana. Vakaroorana vezvezera rimwe chetero, ngwariro chaiyo inofanira kupiwa kuzvinhu zvingave zvave zvawanikwa munguva apo vaviri vacho vangave vari mubatanidzwa wemhuri kana kuti mubatanidzwa wevagari vemo, sezvo izvi zvingava pasi pemitemo yakasiyana - siyana zvichitsamira pahurumende.

Gadzirisa Maatomu Akasiyana

Kunyange kana kumira kupfurikidza nemitemo kuchiita sekwakananga, mukwanyina mumwe nomumwe anofanira kuchengeta gweta rake amene. Ikoku hakusati kuri rumbidzo bedzi.(*) Icho idziviriro yakakomba. Gweta rinogona kutsanangura miuyo yapamutemo yegadziriro imwe neimwe, zivisai mhinganidzo dzinobvira, uye taurirana nokuda kwemashoko asina kururama. Kana mukwanyina asina gweta, mumiriri womukwanyina mumwe haagoni kumirira mativi ose ari maviri nemhaka yerwisano dzefariro. Mutengo wokupinza magweta maviri uri muduku zvikuru kupfuura ndyiko yokuwana muuyo usiri mushandisiano pashure penguva.

Kugadzirisa Zvinjo Dzeramangwana

Upenyu hahuna kufanodeya kuziviswa. Hunosanogadzirwa hunofanira kubatanidza gadziriro dzezvinoitika kana vaviri vane vana, kana mari yomukwanyina mumwe ikawedzera zvikuru kana kuti ichiderera, kana kuti kana ikatamira kune imwe nyika. Zvitsauko zvakakurumbira zvinobatanidza gadziriro dzokunyura kwezuva (pasati pasvika pashure pechiverengero chakati chamakore) kana kuti gadziridzo dzakabatanidzwa nourefu hweroorano. Varoorani vevatano yakafanana vanofanira kurangarirawo kana vapamberi peroorano vachifanira kuvandudza nenzira inoshamisa kana vakananga kunzvimbo yemitemo yakasiana.

Ongorora uye Kunatsiridza Nguva Nenguva

Chibvumirano chapamberi pemakore mashomanene asati avapo chisati chiri chinyorwa chakabatana. Zviitiko zvikuru zvoupenyu − kuberekwa kwomwana, chinjo yebasa, nhaka, kana kuti kuchinjwa kwenzvimbo nenzvimbo(zvinogona kushandura mashoko apakuvamba asina kukodzera kana kuti asingamanikidzirwi. Varoorani vanofanira kutanga rudungwe rwokuhwirudzura nhambo yavo makore mashomanene ari ose ndokurangarira kuita chibvumirano chapashure pechinodikanwa. Nokuda kwavakwanyina vamwe vouteveremwe, chinjo mumitemo yehurumende kana kuti yehurumende (zvakaita sedziviriro itsva dzeLGBTQ+ mhuri) zvingaparirawo kudikanwa kwokugadziridzwa. Kuchengeta chibvumirano chazvinoparira kushamisika mukati mechatanu.

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Zvibvumirano zvevatano zvapamberi pezvi zvinopa vakwanyina vamwe chetevo vevatano nzira ine simba yokurondedzera nayo kariro dzavo dzemari nedzevabereki, kudzivirira zvinhu, uye kuderedza rwisano muchiitiko chokuparadzana. Nepo gadziriro yepamutemo yazova isingachinji zvikuru chifo chokuenzana kweroorano, misiyano yenhau inokosha nenhau. Kurangarira kuti kufambiswa kwomugariro wapamutemo kunoshanda uye kunomanikidzirwa kunoda ngwariro yokungwarira kuzvinodikanwa zvikuru zvebvumirano, kunyorwa kwakakwana, zvimiro zvakanyorwa, uye zano rapamutemo rakasununguka. Uyezve, varoorani vamwe vanofanira kutungamirira nhau chaivo dzine chokuita nekodzero dzomubereki, nhaka, mitero, uye misiyano yemitemo yemhuri yagara kwenguva refu inonzwisisa mutemo wakabatana uye maererano nezvinenge zvichiitika. Vanogona kupindirawo nokuziva mamiriro ezvinhu ava vakatodzana, kuziva mamiriro avo ezvinhu chaiwo.

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