Ukuqonda Isiseko Sonxibelelwano Olufanelekileyo

Unxibelelwano olunempumelelo neejaji lusisiseko setyala elifanelekileyo lemiba yoluntu. Abagwebi bayacelwa ukuba bathabathe iimpikiswano ezintsonkothileyo zomthetho, balinganise ubungqina obuphikisanayo, baze benze izigqibo ezineziphumo zokwenene kumatheko ababandakanyekileyo. Kodwa ijaji eqhelekileyo ayinayo ingqeqesho esemthethweni kwaye isenokulwa nobuchule obuninzi bamagama, iingcinga ezinde, okanye iimbono ezifihlakeleyo. Ukuwakhokela kwisigqibo esisesikweni, amagqwetha kunye nabagwebi kufuneka babalaselise, bahlonele, kwaye babe novelwano kuzo zonke iingxoxo. Eli nqaku liyanda kwimicimbiso engundoqo enokuthi iingcali zezomthetho zisebenzise ukuphucula ukuqonda okuhlala egqi, ukuganana, ukuganana, ukuthembana, ukutyhubelana kwetyala loluntu.

Xa unxibelelwano luwohloka, abachopheli-mali bangadideka, badibane, okanye bakhutshwe ingqumbo. Uphando lusoloko lubonisa ukuba abagwebi ababuqondayo ubungqina nemiyalelo banokuphumelela kwaye bafikelele isigqibo. Umzekelo, iziko lesizwe leengxelo zeBhunga lesizwe [ ekucuthelweni kwendlela yokulawula intloko-mlonyeni] bafumanise ukuba imiyalelo ecacileyo kunye nolwimi olucacileyo luphucula isigqibo somdlalo. Ngokufanayo, [[FLT:] iB.[FLT] Izikomvo zabaphathi-mthetho [[FLT]]] zibalase ukubaluleka kokunciphisa intsika esesikweni ukuqinisekisa i-gargogn.

Ukusuka kwityala elibi ukuya kwelo lokugqibela, icandelo ngalinye lokuvavanywa linikela amathuba okukhuthaza unxibelelwano olubhetele. Eli nqaku lihlolisisa iinkalo ezingokwengqondo, ezisebenzisekayo nezingokwendlela yokusebenza kwejaji, linikela iindlela ezinokusetyenziswa ngamagqwetha nabagwebi ngokufanayo.

Ukuqonda Imbono Ebuhlungu

Abachongi bayakwazi ukuveza imbali, imvelaphi, ucalucalulo olucacileyo, kunye nomgangatho owahlukeneyo wemfundo kwibhokisi yabachopheli. Ukuvuma olu mahluko linyathelo lokuqala lokufumana unxibelelwano olunempumelelo. Ii-Attorney kunye neejaji kufuneka ziqonde ukuba oko kubonakala kucacile kugqirha kusenokuba kukujijijela okanye kudida i-projecter.

Ukusetyenziswa komlinganiselo wendlela kunye nohlobo oluthile lwesohlwayo

Uphando olusuka ku lwezifundo zengqondo zabachopheli-mthetho lubonisa ukuba oothunywashe abafana nobudala, umsebenzi, kunye namava angaphambili ngendlela enkqubo esemthethweni yokuma koojaji ngendlela yokuqhuba ulwazi. Abalawuli abadala bangabuxabisa ubuchule bokubonisa kancinci, ngelixa abancinane benokuphendula kakuhle kwiinkxaso ezibonakalayo. Ngaphezu koko, abacholi-mali abanemigangatho ephantsi yokubhala okanye imiyalelo entsonkothile. I-Attarney kufuneka balungise ulwimi lwabo kunye nezinto zabo zokubona ukuze bahlalisa olu luhlu.

Ibhadisi Elipheleleyo Nempembelelo Yayo

Umba wejaji ngamnye uphatha iimbono ezingaqondanga ezibunjwe libutho labantu, amajelo eendaba, kunye namava obuqu. Ngexesha lokuthetha kakubi, imibuzo ebhekiswe kakuhle ingaveza ikhethe ngaphandle kokuphambuka kwesohlwayo esiza kubekwa kwisigwebo. Xa ityala liqalisa, amagqwetha kufuneka aluphephe ulwimi olubangela intsingiselo ebanzi (Ngomzekelo, ukuchaza iqela njenge “ kwingingqi engalunganga i” okanye ingqina elingu &lquo; i-emotional” imbono engalunganga ingabonisa imibala engafanelekanga. Endaweni yoko, inokuba nemibala ekhoyo ngokungekho mthethweni kwaye ivumele izibakala. Kwakhona ijaji zidlale indima ngokufundisa abalawuli ukuba babeke ingcese ngaphandle komthetho.

Ingqalelo Ebalaseleyo Nokudinwa

Iimvavanyo zamakhaya zinganwenwa kangangeentsuku okanye iiveki. Ingqalelo ithotha, ingakumbi ngexesha lobungqina obungangeni mdla okanye kwimiboniso ephindaphindwayo. Uphando kwizifundo zengqondo lubonisa ukuba inkoliso yabantu abadala iyakwazi ukusoloko inikel ’ ingqalelo imizuzu engama-20-30 ngexesha elinye. Ukuphikisa oku, amagqwetha kufuneka ahlukane ngokunikezelwa kwawo: ukudibanisa ubungqina kunye nobungqina obubonisayo, ukuthatha ikhefu, kunye neengongoma ezingundoqo ngamaxesha athile. Ijaji inganceda ngokulawula ucwangciso lokuvavanya uludwe olude, olunemalizinzileyo.

Obona Bume Buhle Bokunxibelelana Neejerger

Ngaphandle kokuqonda okusisiseko, iindlela ezikhethekileyo zokunxibelelana zinokuyiphucula ngokuphawulekayo indlela abaqonda ngayo abantu abahlala kwiphondo kunye nokuthembana.

Sebenzisa Ulwimi Olucacileyo Nolungaqondakaliyo

Umzobo osemthethweni ngumqobo. Amagama afana ne “res ipsa loquarur, &lrdquo; “ ityala lekomkhulu, ” okanye “prosignate yenza i ” iprogratement isces zesibini kumagqwetha kodwa zingezomntu wasemzini kuninzi lwabalawuli bejuli. Ukuba kunokwenzeka, buyisela iqrguargon ngesiNgesi esicacileyo. Umzekelo, endaweni yokuthi i “ ummangalelwa waphula umsebenzi wenkathalo, ” uthi “ ummangali uhlulekile ukwenza njengomntu ofanelekileyo kwimeko efanayo. ” Sebenzisa umgaqo onxulumene nobomi bemihla yonke. Umthetho uyakwazi ukuthelekelela ingqiqo kumhlobo womsebenzi womsebenzi womthetho.

Ijaji kufuneka iqumrhu lenkundla yetyala liphinde ligqibe imiyalelo yolwimi olucacileyo. Ngoku amagunya amaninzi anika imiyalelo yemodeli yenkundla yabachopheli-tyala ebhalwe ngendlela efikelelekayo. Uphando kwiNew York State Bar Association[[FLT: 1] lubonisa ukuba imiyalelo enjalo inciphisa ukudideka kwaye ikhokelela kwizicelo ezimbalwa zokucacisa.

Hlala Unentlonelo Nobuchule

Abasebenzi bale komiti bayazinikela ngexesha labo. Balindele ukuba baphathwe ngesidima. Abathathi-nxaxheba abamele baphazamise ingqina okanye baphikisane nombuzo wejaji. Ukubonakalisa umsindo okanye unxunguphalo kukuphazamiseka kwejaji kuya kubangela ingqumbo. Kunoko, yichaze kwakhona ingongoma ngokuzolileyo, mhlawumbi ngokusebenzisa imbombo eyahlukileyo. Kwanaxa igqwetha libonakala lichasile, ingcebiso limele lihlale lilinganisiwe kwaye liqashe.

Intlonelo ikwathetha ukubeka imicimbi yecala yabachopheli-tyala. Musa ukuxubusha ngetyala nabachopheli betyala ngaphandle kwenkundla, phepha ukudibana ngamehlo okunokuchazwa njengokukhathazwa, kwaye ungaze uzame ukubaphembelela ngokufihlakeleyo ngolwimi lomzimba okanye iimbo zobuso. I-American Bar Association’s 's Imithetho yeProfessional Palement ngokungqalileyo iyalugweba unxibelelwano norhoxiso.

Thetha no-Empathy

U-Empathy alufani nokuzicelsa. Kuthetha ukuphulaphula ngenyameko imibuzo yejaji nexhala, ngoko uphendula ngokuqwalasela. Xa ijaji ibuza umbuzo, impendulo imele ingqale kwaye iphelele, ingabi ngongenamdla okanye isebenzise kakhulu ubuchule. Ukuba ijor ikhangeleka ididekile, inqumame kwaye ibuze, “ Ingaba inganceda ukuba ndiyibhale kwakhona loo nto? okanye “ ingaba kukho nto efana nam ukucacisa? ” esi senzo silula sibonisa intlonelo ngendima yomgcini-mthetho kwaye sikhuthaza umoya oncedisayo.

Nikeza Imiyalelo Ecacileyo

Ekuqaleni kwetyala, ijaji kufuneka inike indlela emfutshane echaza indima yejaji, amacandelo etyala, noko kumele kulindelwe. Njengoko ukuvavanywa kuqhubekeka, imiyalelo eqhubekayo malunga nendlela yokuvavanya ubungqina / umzekelo, ukuba iintetho zokuvula azibobungqina kwaye zinokuvunywa kwiimpikiswano ```abaquququzeli beejaji abalawula inkqubo. Phambi kokuba ingqwalasela, ityala lomgwebi kufuneka licace ngokukhethekileyo. Ukunika imibhalo yemiyalelo ebhaliweyo kwirhoxi nganye. Imvume yokuthatha amaphetshana okubhala ngexesha lokuvavanya, kodwa ijaji kufuneka ibafundise indlela yokusebenzisa amaphetshana afanelekileyo.

Kuphephe Ukukhokelwa Okanye Ukunyanzelwa

Amagqwetha nabagwebi kufuneka bazilumkele ekuphembeleleni iimbono zomthetho. Ama-atritorney kufuneka aphephe imibuzo engathathi mpendulo, ekhokelela kwimibuzo ekhokelwayo xa kuhlolwa ngqo (ngaphandle kweenjongo ezisikelwe umda), kunye nokufaka intetho echaza ubungqina ngeempawu ezigabadeleyo okanye isandi. Ijaji kufuneka ingagqali ngobungqina okanye ichaze iimbono zobuqu. Ukuba umbuzo womgwebi uchaphazela indawo enochuku, ijaji kufuneka inike umyalelo wokuthintela ikhethe.

Iziqinisekiso Zonxibelelwano Ezinempumelelo Kuvavanyo Ngalunye

Unxibelelwano alukho ngqiqweni. Icandelo ngalinye letyala lelizwe linethuba neengxaki ezikhethekileyo. Ngeli ngezantsi kukho iindlela ezidityaniswe kwizinto ezimandundu, iingxelo zokuvula, iingxelo zokunikela ubungqina, iimpikiswano zokuqukumbela, netyala lomgwebi.

Umsindo: Ukucwangcisa Itone

IVoir idaka kakhulu lithuba lokuqala lokuseka ulwalamano kunye nabaququo abazakuba ngabalawuli bejuli. Sebenzisa elixesha ukubuza imibuzo ephenduliweyo ehlola ucalucalulo kunye namava, hayi nje uewe-okanye-no-okanye iimpendulo. Umzekelo, “ Ngawaphi amava oye wawafumana kwiinkampani ze-inshorensi anokuchaphazela imbono yakho ngalo mba? ” i-jurquo; ityhila kakhulu kune “ intelekelele? ” phulaphula ngenyameko ukuphendula nokulandela ngononophelo. Luphephe ulwimi oluvakalayo njengozama kwi “ &win &cquo; i-jurrest, ivakalisa umdla kumbono wazo zokunyaniseka.

Abagwebi kufuneka baqinisekise ukuba imibuzo enzima ayikhokeli okanye ayiyilwanga ukubeka abagwebi kwimbono ethile phambi kokuba bave ubungqina. Injongo kukuchonga ikhethe, hayi ukuyidala.

Ingxelo Evulayo: Imaphu Yomqeshwa

Ingxelo yokuvula ephumelelayo ithetha ibali. Ichaza oko ubungqina buzakubonisa ngokulandelelana okucacileyo kobalo maxesha, ngengxelo echukumisayo. Sebenzisa amagama alula, izivakalisi ezimfutshane, kunye nolwimi olucacileyo oluchaza umfanekiso wejaji. Kuphephe ukuphikisa okanye iimpikiswano ezingokwasemthethweni chaza abo baqukumbelayo.

Sebenzisa iinkupho ezibonisayo ngobulumko. Ilayini yexesha okanye umzobo olula ungakuqinisekisa phambi kokuba uve ubungqina obuntsonkothileyo. Kodwa gcina iislayidi zicocekile kwaye zingenazinto zininzi.

Uhlolisiso Lwamangqina: Ukukhanya Ngokwakhiwa Kwawo

Xa ubuza ubungqina, umbuzo ngamnye kufuneka ube mfutshane kwaye uqwalaselwe. Kuphephe ukudibanisa imibuzo efana ne “ ukhe wayibona imoto waze ume? ” enokuthi ididane ingqina kunye nabachopheli betyala. Sebenzisa imibuzo ekhokelayo kuphela ekuxilongweni ngokunqamlezileyo kwaye kuphela xa ivunyelwa yimithetho. Ngokungqalileyo, mabuxele ingqina ngamazwi azo, kodwa libakhokele ngamanyathelo amancinci, acacileyo.

Ukuba ingqina lisebenzisa amagama obugcisa, bachazele eli gama kwisiNgesi esicacileyo. Umzekelo, endaweni yokucela ingcali ukuba ichaze i “ ukukhuhleka, i ” bacele ukuba bachaze ukuba ziziphi iindlela eziphezulu okanye eziphantsi ezisetyenziswayo ngemihla ngemihla. Abaqhubi bayayixabisa le nguqulelo.

Iimpikiswano Eziqukumbelayo: Zihlanganiseni Zonke

Ukuvala iimpikiswano phinda uvule ubungqina kwaye uphikisane ngesizathu sokuba abachopheli-tyala bagqibe ngendlela ethile. Kodwa bangaba ngumthombo wesiphithiphithi ukuba abalungelelaniswe kakuhle. Finyeza izibakala ezingundoqo nendlela ezanelisa ngayo iziqalelo ezisemthethweni. Sebenzisa iingcaciso ezifanayo ezicacileyo zolwimi olusuka ekuvulweni. Ukuba umgwebi unike abachopheli-mbhisi imiyalelo ebhaliweyo, bhekisa kuloo miyalelo ngenani kwaye inxibelelane nazo kubungqina.

Kuphephe ukuvuselela iimvakalelo ezinokubonwa njengezichukumis ’ ingqondo. Endaweni yoko, thembela kwingqiqo nakumandla obungqina. Bonisa intembelo kubuchule bomchopheli wetyala lokuqiqa. Umzekelo: “ ubuvile bonke ubungqina. Uyibonile le miboniso. Sicela ukuba ugqibe kwelokuba ukuqwalasela kobungqina kubonisa ukuba ummangalelwa ebengenankathalo. & krdquo;

Ityala Lomgwebi: Ilizwi Lokugqibela EMthethweni

Mhlawumbi eyona thuba libalulekileyo lonxibelelwano lomthetho yimiqathango yomgwebi. Ijaji kufuneka ichaze umthetho ngokucacileyo, ngokungathathi cala, kwaye ngokupheleleyo. Sebenzisa imigaqo esezantsi apho ikhoyo, kodwa ungazoyiki ukuyitshintsha ukuze ifundeke. Funda imiyalelo ngokuvakalayo kwaye ume emva kwento nganye. Yenza ikopi ebhaliweyo kwaye uvumele abagwebi ukuba babuze imibuzo ngemiyalelo ngexesha lokuhlola (ukuba imvume yakho). Bambi abagwebi bakwanika isityholo sokuqala phambi kokuba bavule iintetho ukuze bancede abalawuli baqonde oko baza kukuva.

Ukusingatha Imibuzo Ebuhlungu Ebudeni Bezilingo

Ngoku imigaqo emininzi ivumela abachopheli-mthetho ukuba bafake imibuzo ebhaliweyo ngexesha lokuvavanywa. Oku kuqhelisela kunganyusa ukuqonda kodwa kukwaneengozi. Ukuba uvumela imibuzo yejaji, misela umthetho wemithetho. Ijaji kufuneka iphinde ihlole umbuzo ngamnye ngesiluleko ngaphambi kokuba ubuze. Imibuzo engafanelekanga okanye erhabaxa kufuneka iphendulwe okanye iphinde ibhalwe kwakhona. Xa kubuzwa umbuzo olungileyo, yiphendule ngqo kwaye ngaphandle kwempikiswano. Ukuba impendulo ingenza umonakalo kumxhasi wakho, sebenzisa isigqibo somgwebi sokuchaza isizathu sokuba lo mbuzo ungenakuphendulwa ngobucala.

Imibuzo ekhuthazayo yemiba yokuba inkundla iyayixabisa indima yabo. Noko ke, amagqwetha amele alumke angabonakala enomsindo okanye efuna ukuzithethelela xa kubuzwa imibuzo efuna ukuthethwa. Kunoko, mbulele umgwebi ngemibuzo yakhe aze anikele impendulo ebhetele.

Uthungelwano olungasetyenziswayo: Oko Abaqhubi Bakubona Ngaphaya Kwamagama

Abasebenzi bayaziqonda iintetho zomzimba, isandi selizwi, kunye neembonakaliso zobuso. Ii-attorney kufuneka zihlale zivulekile, zime ngokukhululekileyo, zinxibelelane ngamehlo nejaji ngexesha leziphumo eziphambili, kwaye ziphephe ukunqumla iingalo okanye ukukhangela amanqaku rhoqo. Xa ubungqina bungqina, amagqwetha akufunekanga atsibe amehlo okanye ancwine okanye avakalise.

Kwakhona abagwebi banxibelelana ngaphandle kokusebenzisa ibhanile. Ijaji ejongeka ikruqukile okanye ingenamonde ingabonisa kubaphathi ukuba ityala alikho balulekileyo. Ngokuchaseneyo, ijaji ephulaphula ngenyameko ize ithathe imizekelo yokuziphatha okulindelekileyo ngabachopheli-mthetho. IBhunga lebheri ye-'FLT' [ikhadi lebherili' isoloko iquka izikhumbuzi ngokugcina isimilo sobundilele.

Ubuxhakaxhaka noncedo olubonakalayo kwiimvavanyo zale mihla

Kwixesha lovavanyo lwamanani, ukuvavanywa kwemiboniso kuye kwaba luntsonkothile ngakumbi. Imiboniso yamanani, oopopayi, kwanento eyenzekayo inganceda abachopheli bemiboniso enzima ukuyichaza ngamazwi kuphela. Umzekelo, kwimeko yengozi, ukwakhiwa kwakhona kwengozi kwe3D kunganceda abagcini-mthetho baqonde iilayini zokubona okanye izithinteli. Noko ke, ubugcisa bumele busetyenziswe kakuhle. Ukuboniswa ngokugqithisileyo kungaphazamisa okanye kulahlekise.

Izakhono zokubhala xa intetho ingekho kakuhle. Ijaji kufuneka ixelele abachopheli bejaji ukuba ubungqina obukwi-DVD abunakuthenjwa kunobungqina obudluliselwa ngomlomo.

Iimpazamo Eziqhelekileyo Nendlela Yokuziphepha

Kwanamava enza iimpazamo xa kuncokolwa. Ezinye izinto eziqhelekileyo ziquka:

  • Ukungavumelani nomthetho: Ukusebenzisa iimpikiswano ezininzi okanye ukuthetha ngelizwi lokuziphakamisa kunokwenza abachopheli betyala bangabi namdla.
  • Akwamkeli inkundla yabachopheli-mthetho: Amanye amagqwetha ajolise ngokupheleleyo kubungqina okanye kumgwebi, elibala ukuba abachopheli bomthetho ngabo bagqibekileyo. Ngamaxesha onke yalathisa umyalezo wakho kwinkundla yabachopheli-tyala.
  • [[UMTL: 0] Uluvo olunika amandla: Ungaze ucinge ukuba ijaji iqonda inqaku elinzima kuba nje wenze. Khangela ukuba akukho nto uyithethayo kwaye phinda inqaku ngamagama awahlukeneyo.
  • [[UMTL: 0] Unikezelo lwe-Monoton: Ilizwi elisicaba, elisisingqindilili liza kwenza ukuba iijusi zivingce ngaphandle. Isantya, ukugxumeka, kunye nomthamo zigcine umdla.
  • [[UMTL: 0] Ukuhleka ngokungafanelekanga: Ukuhomba kungabuya iziphumo, ingakumbi ngexesha lobungqina obunzulu. Kuphephe ukuqhula ngetyala, amatheko, okanye inkqubo yenkundla.

Isiphelo

Unxibelelwano olunempumelelo neejaji alulo olunye ubuchule kodwa luyingqokelela yezenzo ezisekelwe kwintlonelo, kucacile, kunye novelwano. Ukusukela ngoku u-voir oknada uqala kwilizwi lokugqibela letyala, zonke iingxoxo zibumba indlela abaqondisi-mali abayiqonda ngayo imeko kunye nenkqubo esemthethweni. Abalawuli abasebenzisa ixesha ngolwimi olucacileyo, abaphulaphula ngokukhutheleyo, kunye nonikelo olucaphulo baya kufumana ukuba abachopheli-juli bathelwe ngokuchane ngakumbi, ngokuchane ngakumbi ekuqiqani kwabo, kwaye baneliseke ngakumbi yinkqubo. Abagwebi abamisela ubundi bobuzwelo baze banikele imiyalelo ecacileyo exhasa imfuneko yokuthembeka kwemi.

Ngokulandela ezona zinto zilungileyo zichazwe apha, kwaye ngokuqhubeka bezifundisa kwinzululwazi yengqondo yejaji kunye nophando lonxibelelwano, ``````Iglasi ’ egosa'''). Ngokulandela ezona zinto ziphambili zichazwe apha, nangokuqhubeka zifundisa kwinzululwazi yengqondo yejaji kunye nolu nxibelelwano. Injongo epheleleyo ayikokuphumelela nje kuphela kodwa kukuxhasa isigqibo esifanelekileyo, esiqikelelwa kakuhle, kwaye esamkelwe ngabo bonke abantu.